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By *im66123 OP Man
over a year ago

newcastle

On an average visit to a club, how many are you likely to fuck or be fucked by and is it usually safe sex

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"On an average visit to a club, how many are you likely to fuck or be fucked by and is it usually safe sex"

Yes safe and depends sometimes zero. Nothing is guaranteed

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

I am looking attend my first one, I have membership of Amigos but not yet had the balls to attend alone, would like a +1 and they can go do what they want, happy to pick you up and drop you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On an average visit to a club, how many are you likely to fuck or be fucked by and is it usually safe sex"

If you're a single guy you're usually fucked at the door (when you pay your entrance fee

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

It very much varies on the club and the night of the week and week of the month they are very variable. Single guys have a harder time at clubs due to numbers and a good club will have clear rules for single guys to follow. Most clubs either provide free condoms or have them for sale, unless explicitly agreed sex should always be safe if you see one guy playing bare with a lady that’s not a given that you can too, the other guy may be a trusted regular.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"On an average visit to a club, how many are you likely to fuck or be fucked by and is it usually safe sex"

How long is a bit a string? It depends on the day, time and if it's an event. Depends on what sex your looking for and what sex they are. For example, we goto GG or gangbang nights as we look for meeting high numbers. However, if I don't like, look, smell, attitude, size ect then I won't play. Even greedy girls like me don't always play. Nothing is guarenteed. The club provide the facilities, what you make of the night is down to you.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Our club experiences:

Liberty Elite on a Wednesday night: Char played with one couple.

Quest on a Sunday afternoon: Char played with one guy once, and a different guy twice.

VA on a Wednesday afternoon: Char played with one guy on his own, then a seven on the bed with another woman and some guys.

JayDees on a Saturday night: Char played with one single guy.

VA on another Wednesday afternoon: Char fucked seven different guys, had two others cum on her tits and played with the same woman on and off all afternoon.

Basically it's very random. Evenings when you think you'll be busy turn out quiet. Days when you think you might not do anything turn into gangbangs.

Don't have any expectations, be friendly and easy going and see what happens.

(Bry)

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By *3xyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

swingers town

"On an average visit to a club, how many are you likely to fuck or be fucked by and is it usually safe sex

If you're a single guy you're usually fucked at the door (when you pay your entrance fee

) "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here for for comments, as I'm still a sex club virgin since coming across to the UK lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"On an average visit to a club, how many are you likely to fuck or be fucked by and is it usually safe sex"

It’s assumed safe sex with strangers at all times.

The potential for having a play is there, but don’t expect it. I’ve been 16 times over several different clubs, and have only had sex on 2 occasions. Being a single guy in the clubs is a tough gig, one I would never recommend to a mate, but I wish you good luck

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Totally random. We can be rather fickle and picky. Some nights we don't, some nights one or two, occasionally a filthy night of orgies. Really all depends if the right people are there, the vibe and what mood we are in. We both tend to snog and fair few people and enjoy some heavy petting but we're quite difficult to persuade into the bed room. We go with no expectations apart from have a great time together. Part of the fun is not knowing how the night will pan out. But needless to say when it does work with the right people, we have some amazing and filthy times and very much worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely random. If we were willing to fuck anyone we could several times a night but because we’re not sometimes we do and sometimes we don’t.

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By *tticus Finch 76Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Always safe and totally depends on the day/night. Anything from zero (although that's rare) to five (my record)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot give you the likelihood of having sex though that is certainly why we would be attending, looking for one or two to have fun with. We are very choosey and if we don't find anyone up to scratch then we don't play and most are the same. Though we always have sex at the end of the night when we get back so 100% of the time yet that may not be helpful.

Women are vastly outnumbered when it comes to these things like on the site here. Good clubs ensure that there aren't too many single men to women that the women might feel uncomfortable - but not all of them.

Essentially the men have the competing to do and not everyone wants a tall dark, well built, King Dong. Personality wins through otherwise men are a meat market and the women and sometimes couples are the shoppers.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

As others have said depends on the club, the event, the mix of attendees etc

My first visit I didn’t plan to play at all and ended up playing with a few people, other times I’ve gone thinking I’m well up for a play but nobody I was attracted to or were attracted to me.

Go with the view it’s as much for the social aspect as anything else keep expectations low and be friendly but not pushy

And ALWAYS safe sex

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Totally random. We can be rather fickle and picky. Some nights we don't, some nights one or two, occasionally a filthy night of orgies. Really all depends if the right people are there, the vibe and what mood we are in. We both tend to snog and fair few people and enjoy some heavy petting but we're quite difficult to persuade into the bed room. We go with no expectations apart from have a great time together. Part of the fun is not knowing how the night will pan out. But needless to say when it does work with the right people, we have some amazing and filthy times and very much worth the wait."

A party isn't a party until female J shows her lovely face. He's ok too

Frank

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

As others have said it totally depends on the night and what kind of night and vibe it is... That said even on quieter nights we do like to get the party started and always end up playing together and at least soft playing with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember the first few times I went. First time I went and played and thought it was great. Then went a few more times and didn't and found it disappointing. Then I realised I was putting all my effort and hopes into playing on that night it was making the night bad.

Now I find that I have a far better time having a drink and speaking to everyone I meet at the club and if something happens, it happens.

A good night at a club is what you make of it.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"On an average visit to a club, how many are you likely to fuck or be fucked by and is it usually safe sex"

1) there is no average…….

2) I don’t play unless it’s safe… I can only protect me!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I only play safe in clubs, and haven't met anyone who doesn't check first.

I've had nights with no sex, nights with me just giving pleasure and nights with 4 women.

You can't guarantee anything, so just go expecting nothing and you should have a good night.

One way as a solo guy to make the night better, is to make some connections first. Join (or start) a thread about the night and even if you don't play with the people you got chatting to, at least you won't be alone in the club, and being alone is the best way of staying alone.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

" being alone is the best way of staying alone. "

I couldn't agree more (obviously speaking from a solo guy's experience of the club scene)

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

" being alone is the best way of staying alone.

I couldn't agree more (obviously speaking from a solo guy's experience of the club scene)

No one wants to approach incase you are 'one of them guys'.

Busy yourself talking to others and everyone can see you are a friendly, sociable man, and your chances of connecting with others sky-rockets.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

" being alone is the best way of staying alone.

I couldn't agree more (obviously speaking from a solo guy's experience of the club scene)

No one wants to approach in case you are 'one of them guys'.

Busy yourself talking to others and everyone can see you are a friendly, sociable man, and your chances of connecting with others sky-rockets. "

Or go with a female friend, and actually feel welcomed by both staff and regulars

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I never go to a club with that in mind.. In fact I very rarely have sex.

Always safe sex

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

" being alone is the best way of staying alone.

I couldn't agree more (obviously speaking from a solo guy's experience of the club scene)

No one wants to approach incase you are 'one of them guys'.

Busy yourself talking to others and everyone can see you are a friendly, sociable man, and your chances of connecting with others sky-rockets. "

Absolutely agree… if you want to stand out… go and stand out!!!

Be proactive… even if it is just a hello!!!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

" being alone is the best way of staying alone.

I couldn't agree more (obviously speaking from a solo guy's experience of the club scene)

No one wants to approach in case you are 'one of them guys'.

Busy yourself talking to others and everyone can see you are a friendly, sociable man, and your chances of connecting with others sky-rockets.

Or go with a female friend, and actually feel welcomed by both staff and regulars

But then people think you are with them. No reason you can't chat to other men in a club if approaching women is tricky. It's just chat.

Doing that rather than sitting on your own, will make you welcome and will make it a good night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you go to a club and expecting to play then your setting yourself up for a major fail ... we are very picky and mostly only do clubs if we know someone we like is going or we are away from home ...

as for safe sex again never assume anything from our experience its very 50/50 and if its a greedy girl night there never seems to be any condoms ... what people say they do and what they do is 2 totally different things...

single guys going to clubs is to get to know others try to forget the sex bit thats a bonus get to know people they will soon let you know if interested or not ..its the same with all swinging if some one likes you then ok if not then not ...going to a club does not mean your getting sex ...some one still has to like you for that

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"On an average visit to a club, how many are you likely to fuck or be fucked by and is it usually safe sex"

The only answer to this question is...nothing is guaranteed.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Between two and six

Yes

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