FabSwingers.com forum: Bigger women

By *uHorny1 OP Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Over the past few months I've found myself becoming increasingly attracted larger ladies, BBWs, call then what you will.

I'd love to hear from any who'd like to chat, meet up and more.

Let me know if you're interested.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Big girls seem to have more fun.

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By *uHorny1 OP Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"Big girls seem to have more fun. "

I'd like more fun with big girls!

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By *heif6999Man
over a year ago

malton

Always my go to on pornhub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW are so sexy

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Always loved the fuller figured lady, I adore curves and skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girls big things

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By *oldfischMan
over a year ago

HARROW

Always loved a bigger built lady; especially thick legs, big calves and a big round arse

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By *tewiethompsonMan
over a year ago

Colchester

There are those of us who only like big ladies, we appreciate their lovely big bums, their soft big tummies and cum our beans over those sexy thick thighs......

My preference is size 18 up but give me a choice 22+ would work best for keeping my pecker interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of big ladies on here x i have got a thing for bigger ladies x especially the mature ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I'm being kinda flippant! Because of course we all come in very different shapes/sizes of course! But I'd say I'm currently sitting around a UK 18/20 (pics are current)... But frankly unsure what bigger consists of these days? I've frankly approached couples and stated I'm more than curvy? And yet they've stated I'm not

Good to see the love though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually I'm being kinda flippant! Because of course we all come in very different shapes/sizes of course! But I'd say I'm currently sitting around a UK 18/20 (pics are current)... But frankly unsure what bigger consists of these days? I've frankly approached couples and stated I'm more than curvy? And yet they've stated I'm not

Good to see the love though

I would say that you are a curvy person rather than a big girl x you're pics are lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look

Curvy and beautiful in your pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see the love though

You look curvy I wouldn't say you're a bbw just sexy as x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bigger girl I think. Still love to be handled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bigger girl I think. Still love to be handled

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I’m a bigger girl I think. Still love to be handled

Think iv found a bit of heaven xxxx

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm…..Hello…….

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Good to see the love though

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Totally agree BBW is objective. As the male half, I have to constantly remind my darling that stick people are fine if you love Lowry's work. Personally I'm more into Titian ifyou get my dirft. Beauty us defo in the eye of the beholder.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Nothing to compare to fucking a larger lady. The way their body moves. The way they feel. Best fucks I've had imo

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By *rPandLexiCouple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Love bigger girls. Skinny does fuck all for me. Happy to discus my girl

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

As someone said above... it’s all objective.

Some find me too big, for some I’m too small.

However I do think a lot seem to forget that being bigger means having a belly!

Not all BBW are just large tits, thighs and ass... some of us have bellies too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, got a few comments about how thin I was when I was younger from larger ladies, and given that I really struggled with anxiety it made the whole experience a bit unpleasant, so now I prefer women who have a similar body type to myself.

If someone's really nice and we get on I wouldn't let size stop me. A few curves can be really sexy, just need the right personality to go with.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

I have very limited experience in this field but on the couple of occasions I have had the pleasure of meeting with a larger lady I can only say they were very hot and absolutely delectable

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Not for me, got a few comments about how thin I was when I was younger from larger ladies, and given that I really struggled with anxiety it made the whole experience a bit unpleasant, so now I prefer women who have a similar body type to myself.

If someone's really nice and we get on I wouldn't let size stop me. A few curves can be really sexy, just need the right personality to go with."

I’m very sorry you went through that.

As someone who’s always been of a bigger persuasion (and very self conscious of it) I’ve never commented on another persons size. That’s just shitty behaviour

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By *iss ImperfectWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Just want to say that being on sites like Fab over the past year has done wonders for my self confidence. I thought I was too big for fun, now I embrace it thanks to people like you so thank you

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Just want to say that being on sites like Fab over the past year has done wonders for my self confidence. I thought I was too big for fun, now I embrace it thanks to people like you so thank you

Hope you don't me saying but with a name like yours I find that far from the truth, you look absolutely perfect xxxxxxx

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Being stocky build myself as a guy.. I have always preferred Curvy girls, they ooze sexiness...I love the curvier figure. Listened to a podcast this morning talking about boob jobs and body changing treatments... Funny how it's turned around over the years ... Seems ladies... Curves are where it's at... embrace your beauty ...

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I was very self conscious of my size prior to being on Fab.

My confidence has improved ten fold in the last 3 years thanks to the kind of people posting here. So I'd just like to say a big thank you, you have done wonders for my self esteem and my mental health.

I still get the occasional insult but they are few and far between and normally linked to a no thanks reply to a message. That says more about them than it does about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone's really nice and we get on I wouldn't let size stop me. A few curves can be really sexy, just need the right personality to go with.

I’m very sorry you went through that.

As someone who’s always been of a bigger persuasion (and very self conscious of it) I’ve never commented on another persons size. That’s just shitty behaviour

The double standard did throw me for a loop, what can I say, I was young and naive. There was also a lot of competition for similarly thin women at that age, and not a lot of demand for thin guys - that probably sucked even more. Looking back, it seems like an entirely unnecessary lose-lose situation.

At least I've aged well, if you ignore the thinning gray hairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that bigger girls on FAB are far more confident than girls not on FAB. Everyone has their own preference but that should not negatively reflect on others. We prefer slim / athletic guys and girls, because that's how we are, and that's just what we like.

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025

There is most definitely a market for us out there, our parties are a success for a good reason

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"As someone said above... it’s all objective.

Some find me too big, for some I’m too small.

However I do think a lot seem to forget that being bigger means having a belly!

Not all BBW are just large tits, thighs and ass... some of us have bellies too

I'm a big girl who is slowly gaining confidence in how I look but I hate my big belly

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"As someone said above... it’s all objective.

Some find me too big, for some I’m too small.

However I do think a lot seem to forget that being bigger means having a belly!

Not all BBW are just large tits, thighs and ass... some of us have bellies too

I'm a big girl who is slowly gaining confidence in how I look but I hate my big belly

I used to feel the same as you. I never put up pics that showed my belly. I found the men who love big ladies love the bigger belly too.

The first time a man kissed my belly and told me he loved it I was so surprised I cried.

You are beautiful just as you are. Just be you xxx

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"As someone said above... it’s all objective.

Some find me too big, for some I’m too small.

However I do think a lot seem to forget that being bigger means having a belly!

Not all BBW are just large tits, thighs and ass... some of us have bellies too

I'm a big girl who is slowly gaining confidence in how I look but I hate my big belly

I used to feel the same as you. I never put up pics that showed my belly. I found the men who love big ladies love the bigger belly too.

The first time a man kissed my belly and told me he loved it I was so surprised I cried.

You are beautiful just as you are. Just be you xxx "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girls...you are beautiful. Mika knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over the past few months I've found myself becoming increasingly attracted larger ladies, BBWs, call then what you will.

I'd love to hear from any who'd like to chat, meet up and more.

Let me know if you're interested."

Mika is that you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big girls...you are beautiful. Mika knows."

Great minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been drawn to curvy or bigger girls. Scots is a beautiful lady and I love her body.

Irish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only new to this site, but it is doing wonders for my self confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely get the lovers of BIG messaging us, I guess having the tits and arse I’ve got makes that inevitable. I guess I’m told there’s no such thing as too big which is pleasing to hear

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

I love knowing there are people here who like/prefer the bigger ladies and I have been getting quite a few more messages than usual after I changed my profike pic to show just how big I am.

BUT, and I must say this, why is it than IRL, ie not on Fab, what I get more than anything is insults, rude words and derogatory remarks.

If there are so many men into ladies like me, why do they seem to keep in quiet “out there”?

This is my personal experience (30+ years) and I realise not everybody may have been through this but it always bothers me a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmmmm…..Hello…….

Mmmm helooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love knowing there are people here who like/prefer the bigger ladies and I have been getting quite a few more messages than usual after I changed my profike pic to show just how big I am.

BUT, and I must say this, why is it than IRL, ie not on Fab, what I get more than anything is insults, rude words and derogatory remarks.

If there are so many men into ladies like me, why do they seem to keep in quiet “out there”?

This is my personal experience (30+ years) and I realise not everybody may have been through this but it always bothers me a bit."

You sure are a beauty nevermind the small minded fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh.. a topic that I fit into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love knowing there are people here who like/prefer the bigger ladies and I have been getting quite a few more messages than usual after I changed my profike pic to show just how big I am.

BUT, and I must say this, why is it than IRL, ie not on Fab, what I get more than anything is insults, rude words and derogatory remarks.

If there are so many men into ladies like me, why do they seem to keep in quiet “out there”?

This is my personal experience (30+ years) and I realise not everybody may have been through this but it always bothers me a bit.

You sure are a beauty nevermind the small minded fuckers

Because they enjoy shagging you but their egos want a trophy.

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By *rPandLexiCouple
over a year ago

Lisburn

We are returningvswingerscaftercc by a long break. Both of us lost our confidence and sex drive for various reasons. Mrs has always been very conscience of her mum tum and would never show it and hide it even on meets.

Circumstances have changed and we have decide to get back into the swing! Mrs feels so sexy and confidant now down to encouragement hun e and comments she has received on fab.

Last few pics we took. Mrs asked me to take them and put them up rso guts can see how sexy she is. This was a big step for her and I’m so happy she is comfortable in herself.

And a big turn on for me that she can now see how sexy she is and she wants to turn on other guys.

Fab had had a very unexpected positive effect on our relationship and lives in general

Thank you

And let the fun and exploration continue xx

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Blonde bbw here

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're not looking for single guys but I do salute you for your attraction. We feel the same.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tbh I’d say at least half of uk women would now fall into the ‘larger lady’ bracket - and accordingly around half the ladies on fab.

There are literally thousands of bbw threads on here - so it’s very easy to use that as a search criteria on the forums and find many lovely ladies to admire.

Obviously they won’t all want to meet you op - but some might!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a curvy lady, BBW whatever description you want to go with.. similarly to the OP.. I'm looking for the same in the East Mids area

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Thank goodness for everyone being able to be who they are without judgement here & the opportunity to seek out those who appeal to them whatever shape size age etc

As a large lady I've only just stopped reminding people who message me that I am big. . Just to check out they really are interested in the larger lady. So self conscious for so long but it's starting to change thank goodness - maybe one day I'll get the full courage to post a whole body shot

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By *iss ImperfectWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Just loving this post and all the amazing comments. Love the fact that Fab has had such a positive impact on so many women

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I love women. All if them

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By *uHorny1 OP Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"Just loving this post and all the amazing comments. Love the fact that Fab has had such a positive impact on so many women

Thank you.

Glad I posted it!

You are absolutely magnificent by the way xxx

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Curves here

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By *uHorny1 OP Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"Curves here"

My god- yes there are xxx

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By *unfriends1976Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Loving the positivity of this thread

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By *uHorny1 OP Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"Loving the positivity of this thread "

Yes- positive vibes throbbing towards you right now! xx

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"As someone said above... it’s all objective.

Some find me too big, for some I’m too small.

However I do think a lot seem to forget that being bigger means having a belly!

Not all BBW are just large tits, thighs and ass... some of us have bellies too

I've always belived bbw is big beautiful women and not big boobed women, like some seem to think it is.

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By *oulou77XXXWoman
over a year ago

BRACKNELL

As a curvy girl myself I can honestly say I have never felt more attractive than since I joined Fab. I have met some amazing guys and my confidence has grown so much. I'm actually more confident now than I ever was when I was smaller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bigger girl (size 22) and sometimes get emotional about my body and the way it looks. But then I get loads of complimentary messages and remember that I'm a bloody goddess hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bigger Girls just love the way the body flows in a natural position much more to hold much more to kiss and touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get judged for being a bigger girl nice to see there are people out there who like it I definitely got lumps bumps lol

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

I’m self conscious I’m curvy doesn’t help when I’m only 5ft 2 and a lil bit

but slowly gaining confidence to just embrace what the way I am xx

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

Good to see the love though

Gorgeously curvy. Their loss.

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

Good to see the love though

Totally agree BBW is objective. As the male half, I have to constantly remind my darling that stick people are fine if you love Lowry's work. Personally I'm more into Titian ifyou get my dirft. Beauty us defo in the eye of the beholder.

Titian titillates me too!

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

I’m a proud BBW,this is how I was meant to be,and I’m a very voluptuous/Rubenesque size 22

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Just want to say that being on sites like Fab over the past year has done wonders for my self confidence. I thought I was too big for fun, now I embrace it thanks to people like you so thank you

Glad you are happier in your skin. You look great & what a gorgeous bum too. Very sexy.

Don’t knock yourself, that’s the easy route. Just be you! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it’s taken me a long time to accept my bigger fuller figure as was much smaller in my younger days

i still can’t get my head around guys finding it sexy but that’s my own insecurities

FAB has given me the boost i needed to feel sexy again though so i’m getting there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women work for me ????

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Big girls seem to have more fun. "

Utter nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it’s taken me a long time to accept my bigger fuller figure as was much smaller in my younger days

i still can’t get my head around guys finding it sexy but that’s my own insecurities

FAB has given me the boost i needed to feel sexy again though so i’m getting there

Well you're very sexy indeed

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I had a one nighter with a women who described herself as Dawn French if she was 6ft. She was lovely and made me appreciate curvy women So much

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I’m a big girl size 20 never holds me back though

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By *ommy501Man
over a year ago

Dungannon

"Love bigger girls. Skinny does fuck all for me. Happy to discus my girl"
beautiful pics

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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago

colchester

My wife has lost confidence as her pictures on profile are from 2 years ago and she has gone up to size 20 because of health issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife has lost confidence as her pictures on profile are from 2 years ago and she has gone up to size 20 because of health issues. "

Bless her, I know the feeling, I'm a size 22 or more now. But I'm sure she looks gorgeous and beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes, and is less important to most than personality xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves absolutely rule.... size 18 onwards please

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"My wife has lost confidence as her pictures on profile are from 2 years ago and she has gone up to size 20 because of health issues. "

She looks gorgeous and I am sure she is loads of fun to be with. We all love a curvy woman here, so I hope that she feels more comfortable with this thread of pervs.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"it’s taken me a long time to accept my bigger fuller figure as was much smaller in my younger days

i still can’t get my head around guys finding it sexy but that’s my own insecurities

FAB has given me the boost i needed to feel sexy again though so i’m getting there

You are stunning and we do find it sexy. Confidence and curves are a huge turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a curvy BBW and don’t get what men see in it but appreciate the attention & compliments

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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago

colchester

"My wife has lost confidence as her pictures on profile are from 2 years ago and she has gone up to size 20 because of health issues.

Bless her, I know the feeling, I'm a size 22 or more now. But I'm sure she looks gorgeous and beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes, and is less important to most than personality xx"
Thank you for your nice comments I will pass on to my wife later. Tried to message personally but wouldn't accept. Thanks again xx

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

Being a bigger girl I’ve always struggled with life and my own body confidence in the vanilla world .. but I’m finding this lifestyle far more acceptable and non judgemental to where I’m more comfortable in my own skin nowadays.

Doesn’t help when people say I’m quite pretty for a big girl … like the two shouldn’t be together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely loving my fuller figure, all our meets have been with slim guys who seem to also like what they see xkimx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big girls seem to have more fun.

Utter nonsense "

Agreed, it’s bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

R is the same, has realised how sexy she is on here, fk media/sociaetal pressure as to what we shoudl be

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

What is it about bigger women that men like

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"What is it about bigger women that men like

The curves, the shape, the boobs, the bum, the squish. All the curvy women that I have slept with have been so much fun.

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By *aulusMan
over a year ago

Chester

I've always been more attracted to curvier ladies.

Probably a number of reasons, one being to me that maybe, subconsciously I see them as more womanly? Which could be down to having curvy women family members around me during my formative years?Although that is clearly a generalisation borne out of no facts and I know some very womanly ladies who are not very curvy at all.

Probably the fact I've a dad bod plays a part in that people tend to go for people on a similar level to themselves. Mind you even when I was younger and slim most of my gfs were curvy.

Can't help what you like I suppose.

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By *all me SWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

I think it all stems from what we have been indoctrinated to believe from exposure to media and TV. There has always been a beauty aesthetic that has been pushed on us (both male and female) and highlighted as the only way to be and if you're not in pursuit of this ideal, then you're a failure. But the ideal is set so that we fail. It's an ideal that appropriated by large companies/gyms/clothing brands/"health" brands to make money off our insecurities and then they blame the failing of the product on the consumer who then goes back for more out of guilt. If we were happy in our bodies, sooooo many companies would go out of business. The ideal also changes, so it's also impossible to attain and therefore you continue to spend.

The idealisation of this "body ideal" is also pushed on us as who we find attractive. As in, that's the ultimate, so that is what you must find attractive.

Fab is already an outlet/safe haven for people who want to explore outside of society norms within their relationships and sex lives. Therefore it's only logical that it's a safe place for people to be open about their attraction to "bigger" bodies. Whereas in the "real world" they may be berated or humiliated for their preferences due to the fucked up society we have who all have to want and look the same to meet the "ideal"

My 2ps worth ;P

I'm a bigger person and enjoy people of all sizes but I do tend to lean towards those who are deemed "bigger" but I think that stems from me knowing my own body and therefore being more confident to explore a body that is similar and reach fruitful results!

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By *aulusMan
over a year ago

Chester

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By *aulusMan
over a year ago

Chester

"I think it all stems from what we have been indoctrinated to believe from exposure to media and TV. There has always been a beauty aesthetic that has been pushed on us (both male and female) and highlighted as the only way to be and if you're not in pursuit of this ideal, then you're a failure. But the ideal is set so that we fail. It's an ideal that appropriated by large companies/gyms/clothing brands/"health" brands to make money off our insecurities and then they blame the failing of the product on the consumer who then goes back for more out of guilt. If we were happy in our bodies, sooooo many companies would go out of business. The ideal also changes, so it's also impossible to attain and therefore you continue to spend.

The idealisation of this "body ideal" is also pushed on us as who we find attractive. As in, that's the ultimate, so that is what you must find attractive.

My 2ps worth ;P

That makes an awful lot of sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bigger girl I think. Still love to be handled

Think iv found a bit of heaven xxxx"

Can bad girls still go to heaven?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girls can take big things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bigger girl I think. Still love to be handled

Not found a guy who can yet though

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

"Big girls can take big things! "

Such as?

...Bit of a generalised comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it’s taken me a long time to accept my bigger fuller figure as was much smaller in my younger days

i still can’t get my head around guys finding it sexy but that’s my own insecurities

FAB has given me the boost i needed to feel sexy again though so i’m getting there

You are stunning and we do find it sexy. Confidence and curves are a huge turn on. "

why thank you

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By *all me SWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

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By *all me SWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

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Why thank you

I try to make sense sometimes. :P

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Larger ladies, yes please. A good robust woman and a great arse is what catches eye. But personally and soul is what gets me into the bedroom.

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
over a year ago

accrington

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

Bubbly, bouncy wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger girl here

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By *delight1972Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

I've always struggled to come to terms with my size especially when body shamed by people close to me.

Don't get me wrong there are certain parts (can you guess which bits) that I'm very happy with but others no so much.

Initial meets are always awkward, with a sharp intake of breath when they first see you in all your glory but there's nothing more satisfying when they come back for more.

Let's all just enjoy our bodies for what they are.

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

Well i dont wish come across boastful but, black guys have always had an appreciation for a larger woman, im glad more people are realising thats what the juiciest fruit is....

that means less fruit for me... listen guys, you dont want a big girl, no good for ya, just go with them smaller girls, you dont want a fuller woman.... phew think there believe me and leave them all for me, what was u thinking telling them where the best fruit is at

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

I hated my curves for years , but over the last 3 years ive learned to love them , and im finding men are to . We are who we are just enjoy xx

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

"Well i dont wish come across boastful but, black guys have always had an appreciation for a larger woman, im glad more people are realising thats what the juiciest fruit is....

Enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening all have to say big women are my weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab had been a marvellous place for building confidence. I've taken so many more pics of myself in general as well as more nudes

We are no longer the funny friend, no longer the one stood at the bar willing someone to talk to us....we are finally taking our place in amongst everyone else and I'm bloody loving it.

Ladies if you're struggling with confidence take pictures of yourself. From every angle. Get used to what you are seeing. Accept it. You don't need to love every inch of you, but appreciation for your body is a must. Look in the mirror, it's just your tummy and I for one will keep eating the cake as it is too damn delicious not too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bbw and proud of it.. I used to struggle thinking I had to eat lettuce to try be thinner but why??? I've always had attention I've never been disgusted with my body. Sometimes think I need to loose a few pounds just for my health. And yes im now up to size 26 and have my swimming costumes ready in my case for my holiday. Don't Care what others think of me and its mainly women that look in disgust... who cares I'm me and I'm proud to be.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Big girls...you are beautiful. Mika knows."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As someone said above... it’s all objective.

Some find me too big, for some I’m too small.

However I do think a lot seem to forget that being bigger means having a belly!

Not all BBW are just large tits, thighs and ass... some of us have bellies too

This!

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Good morning

I adore my big body and it’s warm softness and totally loving this thread

Have a great day guys n gals xx

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

I had a meet with a lovely woman who had been flirting with me (lots of audios) for weeks. She was a singer, smart, and an experienced swinger. I never stopped to think that she was "BBW" because she had me hooked (and hard).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bbw and proud of it.. I used to struggle thinking I had to eat lettuce to try be thinner but why??? I've always had attention I've never been disgusted with my body. Sometimes think I need to loose a few pounds just for my health. And yes im now up to size 26 and have my swimming costumes ready in my case for my holiday. Don't Care what others think of me and its mainly women that look in disgust... who cares I'm me and I'm proud to be. "

Love your philosophy and I’m in exactly same position

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Have always been a lover of BBW's, in my life I have only ever had one g/f who wasn't at least a size 16.

I love their shape & size and they are a joy to explore with hands & tongue.

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By *iss ImperfectWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Fab had been a marvellous place for building confidence. I've taken so many more pics of myself in general as well as more nudes

We are no longer the funny friend, no longer the one stood at the bar willing someone to talk to us....we are finally taking our place in amongst everyone else and I'm bloody loving it.

Love this!

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By *leasureherCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

Great thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know i’m still considered young Lol but even from a younger age i’ve always been attracted to BBW as a Skinny Guy

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

I like women of all shapes and sizes, but I do have a particular soft spot for larger, curvier ladies

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By *uHorny1 OP Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"Great thread."

Pleased that you think so.

Glad I set it up!

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