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Can you have good sex in a club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty do but you can have as much or as little privacy as you’d like at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above you can have as much privacy as you like at a club.

But there's also the fact that watching others can be a huge turn on, or being watched, not to mention all the gorgeous people and their outfits or nudity.

PW

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"

It's rare that I play in an open area in clubs. I prefer a private room with a locked door , so no distractions. However, sometimes I choose to be in a bigger area where I can hear or see others fucking and it's a turn on, not a distraction.

I wouldn't need to go on to a hotel, after a good session at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like being watched so a club is good for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Private room

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd think it was a waste of money to go to a club for a social. I could do that in a bar for free.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Personally I don’t like it, all that plastic & bottles of disinfectant, sweaty smelly rooms, it’s just not what I’m about with swinging. I like clubs though for socialising, flirting, meeting other swingers.

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I’ve had some mind blowing play sessions at clubs! If I’m after a longer relaxed session then I go in a private room. If I’m horny and just want to get down and have fun then open rooms or the dark room offer just as much fun.

You should go along to a club one night without pre arranging to meet someone there. Go along and see how things work, you’ll be surprised how relaxed it is

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich (just for Sat)

We've done exactly that but most clubs have private rooms where you can make things more private. Just make sure your partner knows what you're doing.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"

Well, no, because in a club I feel safe because I have the staff at my back. Otherwise its just a one night stand with a stranger I met in a swingers club.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have had amazing sex at a club and being watched is a bonus.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I'd think it was a waste of money to go to a club for a social. I could do that in a bar for free. "

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By *nwards_And-UpwardsMan
over a year ago

Blackheath

I've had some great sex in a club I find it a great environment to have multiple partners potentially in the same night

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Are you talking about yourself having sex at a club or watching your wife as I know you’ve mentioned a few times that’s ultimately what you want to experience. For me I preferred random meets at clubs at first until I became a bit more confident about myself and tried to overcome the anxiety that if we had a hotel meet that I’d be a disappointment My hubby was great and allowed me to choose how I wanted to experience this new lifestyle with no pressure or trying to talk me into doing things a certain way. We have had a couple of social/hotel meets now and have enjoyed the experience but we still like a mixture of both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you talking about yourself having sex at a club or watching your wife as I know you’ve mentioned a few times that’s ultimately what you want to experience. For me I preferred random meets at clubs at first until I became a bit more confident about myself and tried to overcome the anxiety that if we had a hotel meet that I’d be a disappointment My hubby was great and allowed me to choose how I wanted to experience this new lifestyle with no pressure or trying to talk me into doing things a certain way. We have had a couple of social/hotel meets now and have enjoyed the experience but we still like a mixture of both "

That's right yeah .I mean my Mrs is quite anxious like yourself so she's definitely not game for hotel meets at all . She has mentioned she thinks a club would be the best way to pop our cherries which I agree I think I'd feel more comfortable knowing there's no pressure to do anything the first time and set boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you talking about yourself having sex at a club or watching your wife as I know you’ve mentioned a few times that’s ultimately what you want to experience. For me I preferred random meets at clubs at first until I became a bit more confident about myself and tried to overcome the anxiety that if we had a hotel meet that I’d be a disappointment My hubby was great and allowed me to choose how I wanted to experience this new lifestyle with no pressure or trying to talk me into doing things a certain way. We have had a couple of social/hotel meets now and have enjoyed the experience but we still like a mixture of both "

Just want to ease into it slowly . I mean we agreed if anything was to happen would rather go back to a hotel room

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

For me, private sex and club sex are quite different things, and there's not much point in comparing them. I'm happy that I can have both.

Private sex is for people I'm already close to. It's intimate, and magnifies the closeness.

Club sex is good filthy fun. I particularly love the presence of others, hearing them enjoying their own play, looking up and seeing what else has been going on while I've been away in my own little world.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I love being watched.

I’ve had some amazing sex in clubs.

I definitely wouldn’t pay club prices for a social (as in 121 first meeting). A local pub or cafe will do for that.

Clubs for me are great. The atmosphere, dressing down…… all part of the fun for me

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Personally I don’t like it, all that plastic & bottles of disinfectant, sweaty smelly rooms, it’s just not what I’m about with swinging. I like clubs though for socialising, flirting, meeting other swingers."

Have to say I agree. I tend to socialise in clubs rather than play.

That being said - they do provide a ‘safe’ and convenient space for group play and it’s safer for a woman to play with a single guy she hasn’t met before in a club setting. X

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I do

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes, I have had some excellent sex in clubs, thank you – both with and without audiences.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We go for gg & gangbang nights. Locked, closed doors are the last thing we're looking for.

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Sex club: yeah

Night club: tricky

Golf club: frowned upon

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I've had really great sex in a club. I don't want privacy or intimacy - I can have that with my partner whenever I want. I like to watch and be watched, the opportunity to play with as many guys as I like, and to know it's safe.

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By *ustathingMan
over a year ago

Reading

I've never been to a club... When people say watched, is there never a worry about random guys you don't want to entertain joining in?

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"

Depends what you want. In clubs there are generally more options (pools, Jacuzzis, sex swings..)

Sex doesn't have to be a quickie. That depends on you. As long as you are comfortable near others there is often the choice of having others join in too.

You may find that many women are more comfortable with a first meet in a club rather than a hotel as there is more protection with it being more public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been to a club... When people say watched, is there never a worry about random guys you don't want to entertain joining in?"

Not really. Anyone that approaches you just give a stern “no” and they SHOULD leave you alone. We haven’t had any problems so far.

Some clubs have rooms with windows so you can be watched without anyone interrupting.

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By *issA_MrMMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Of course you can. We’ve had some amazing times so far in clubs. Private rooms are great! A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...!!!

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"

Hotels and folks homes are generally better, more comfortable (last club we visited the rooms were cold and only had cold, shiny mats to lie on ). We've met couples in clubs before and been taken back to their place for the night (and more )

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By *weetHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"

Last time we were at Chams, one session Hotwife had lasted an hour & a half so not a quickie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?

Last time we were at Chams, one session Hotwife had lasted an hour & a half so not a quickie "

I would say that constitutes good sex

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

We had some of our best sex in a club. We were in a room being watched and it made it so intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are private rooms in club

I prefer to be in private, I dont mind people listening but don't like to be watched

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Club sex is a different thing to partner sex and clubs can provide the opportunity to work out certain things you like and don’t like in a safe controlled and understanding environment

As a single fem I felt much safer and therefore able to explore more at the club I sometimes go to than I ever would in a normal nightclub indeed in a normal nightclub the men can be right pains!

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

For us it has a lot to do with being watched, so clubs do it for us, plus it's fun to watch the single guys try to talk thier way into Tara's knickers, but they do sometimes get invited to join us in one of the smaller but still open rooms.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We have amazing sex at the club. This week's quickie lasted about 9 hours, involved a few different people and we made new friends....why go off to a hotel and miss all that?

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

We’ve enjoyed great sex in clubs! We enjoy the erotic atmosphere of fucking in big rooms surrounded by other couples all fucking and watching then whatever else happens happens lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good sex fun yes but private meet are better in many many ways

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

In a club we can make some noise! At home we have to be quiet, in a hotel we wouldn't be to noisy out of respect for other guests. In clubs we have great fun

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"

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It would be fair to say,

yes we've been known to have a quickie at the end of the night in clubs

We've also had pretty leisurely sex as well though lol

We're quite happy to be watched and that's why our preference would be clubs

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"In a club we can make some noise! At home we have to be quiet, in a hotel we wouldn't be to noisy out of respect for other guests. In clubs we have great fun "

Oh yes. That's a good point. The ability to be more vocal at clubs is far easier than a hotel room.

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By *irtybdirtygCouple
over a year ago

Oswestry

We prefer club so G can do some window shopping then play in a private room with a guy she likes, do like hotel meets too so you can take pics so all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once, but was thrown out of the chess club soon afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I did, I would hope it would be awesome.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We play in clubs but we do prefer hotels as their more intimate and we can take pics .

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We love having sex in clubs, as we can be as loud and wet as we like (all the beds are wipe clean and we don't have to sleep on the wet patch) we can have multiple partners at once, many of the beds are big enough for 6 or 8 people (or more), there are plenty of staff around to prevent problems, we can pop to the bar without having to get dressed and we have other people join in at any time if we wish.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I hope so, had some good times in nightclubs lol, so hopefully a sex club would be amazing for us

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