FabSwingers.com forum: Shy wheelchair user looking for club buddy?

By *amesnite11 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hi all!

Wasn't quite sure how best to title this, but I'm a wheelchair user (weak legs after an accident some years back) that would love to check out some clubs.

The main issue is I don't always know how easily I can get around a building (narrow doorways/small bathrooms/steps are my mortal enemy!) so my best bet is going there to see for myself.

I would particularly like to check out the Hellfire club, and due to work I'm only really able to go on weekends.

I was wondering if a) any wheelchair users have been and what their experience was; and b) if any lovely women in a similar boat would be willing to accompany me just to check it out (a little nervous to just show up on my own first time).

Apologies if asking this is poor etiquette - not super familiar with the rules!

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Good luck in your search.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"Hi all!

Wasn't quite sure how best to title this, but I'm a wheelchair user (weak legs after an accident some years back) that would love to check out some clubs.

The main issue is I don't always know how easily I can get around a building (narrow doorways/small bathrooms/steps are my mortal enemy!) so my best bet is going there to see for myself.

I would particularly like to check out the Hellfire club, and due to work I'm only really able to go on weekends.

Apologies if asking this is poor etiquette - not super familiar with the rules!"

It might be worth asking this in the swinging clubs or swinging advice threads, it might be more fruitful.

Good luck with the club visit

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By *anyasmanMan
over a year ago

Preston

My wife also has weak legs - even weaker after playing lol. - I take an attendant wheelchair and am lucky that our local club (no 3 Chorley) is all on one floor and the ladies toilets is large enough. So it really depends on the layout really and , given the legs are weak but not gone then I presume you can transfer to toilets and beds by yourself. I think the biggest problem will be feeling brave enough to try. If you were from this area I would take you for a first time, maybe someone from your area on here will offer same. Good luck.

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By *amesnite11 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Thanks so much guys, appreciate the responses! Wish I lived further north to attend no 3, an all 1 level club sounds like a dream lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not contact the club and see if you can take a tour of it with a member of staff before the club opens? They also may be able to suggest a regular that may be willing to chaperone.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we used to have a guy in a chair went to a lot of london clubs as he said theres always a lap to sit on

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By *amesnite11 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"we used to have a guy in a chair went to a lot of london clubs as he said theres always a lap to sit on"

I will definitely have to steal that line.

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