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By *artantits OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's a hard one and I know everyone is different. Do you like to be used, or made love to or respected. For me it's use. Being there to pleasure others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a hard one and I know everyone is different. Do you like to be used, or made love to or respected. For me it's use. Being there to pleasure others. "

With someone I know and trust, it’s a big turn on for me

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Being respectfully, thoroughly and thoughtfully used is the stuff of life.

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Depends on the moment but ALWAYS openXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being respected initially, but then used as soon as things get sexual xx

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By *artantits OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I find it easier with casual meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who where and when. If we're in a club playing then used. But looking at another angle Am I the one using them.

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Start gentle but being used is good. I'm public discretely the openly in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used - like human sex toys haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I am respectfull to people and treat everyone correctly use me and the other side of me will not be so nice

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like a guy to be respectful of my wishes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy to be respectful of my wishes x"

Being used doesn’t mean he does what he wants and my wishes don’t matter.

It is only ever done within strict boundaries and limits

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I like a guy to be respectful of my wishes x

Being used doesn’t mean he does what he wants and my wishes don’t matter.

It is only ever done within strict boundaries and limits "

The question was do you like to used, made love too or respected....

My answer was respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy to be respectful of my wishes x

Being used doesn’t mean he does what he wants and my wishes don’t matter.

It is only ever done within strict boundaries and limits

The question was do you like to used, made love too or respected....

My answer was respected."

Fair enough. I didn’t read the op properly

I still know I’m respected though

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Being used always fulfils my needs more I’d say. But there is always space for something more intimate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect each other, would like to be used by horny woman this sounds very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By definition you can only make love with a person you love.

Delight enjoys being used over and over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you're being used. Used respectfully is quite the turn on especially in a submissive context, though you'll be rewarded too.

Used just for his pleasure and you are denied?

Perhaps denied for a few hours or more...

Used where its almost to the point of no return and that's repeated several times over the course of day until he takes his orgasm?

Used solely for his pleasure and left horny as hell till he decides you can have yours?

Or you pre agree you have to beg... That one is a lot of fun! I love that one.

So many variations. Personally I get off on it quite a lot! But I'm into tease and denial so when that is tied in I love it.

But I also like doing back too.

PW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how you're being used. Used respectfully is quite the turn on especially in a submissive context, though you'll be rewarded too.

Used just for his pleasure and you are denied?

Perhaps denied for a few hours or more...

Used where its almost to the point of no return and that's repeated several times over the course of day until he takes his orgasm?

Used solely for his pleasure and left horny as hell till he decides you can have yours?

Or you pre agree you have to beg... That one is a lot of fun! I love that one.

So many variations. Personally I get off on it quite a lot! But I'm into tease and denial so when that is tied in I love it.

But I also like doing back too.

PW

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That's a very good point ..there's a few terms here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect on every level.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Respectfully used.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I get mostly used at home give wife pleasure then it’s over missing the mutual pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making love is for Hubby and I only. I like to be used like a slut, and called one, but it’s contextual and in the moment. All conversation and interaction before and after needs to be mutually respectful otherwise it will never get there x

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Bit of all three , but used is a nice role play , especially if blindfold

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Used or made love to, depending on the person and situation, but always respected.

People should always show respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im not a dildo

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"No im not a dildo "

But wouldn't you want to be?

Only been used like that once, and I loved it. Definitely want to experience it again.

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By *aka12345Couple
over a year ago

close by

Used hard no limits when I’m in a really filthy mood like now hehe x mrs k x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lend me your body….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abit of both, partner depending, but love being used more I think!

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By *angerousLiaisonsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

You can absolutely ‘use’ a woman whilst respecting her as a person.

It’s our dynamic. I appreciate Chiara’s intelligence but there are times I look at her and honestly reduce her to a sexual object because I just can’t help myself.

She’s sexy and I want to ravage her so I do.

That doesn’t, however, minimise her humanity in my eyes.

I’m just driven by lust.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Being respected initially, but then used as soon as things get sexual xx"

Exactly this xxx

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