FabSwingers.com forum: cheating

By *erry2020888 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

How would you feel if your partner, was cheating behind your back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find it a turn on as iv been asking her to share for years but she isn't up for it

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By *ookie doughMan
over a year ago

leic

It almost destroyed me, especially when she said sorry and that it was a mistake

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By *erry2020888 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

did she stop or carry on

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

For me personally (Luke) it really depends on the situation.

If Hannah had a random wild fling that came out of the blue and wasn't intending to carry on, I'm pretty sure I could deal with it.

If she did something to open the door to a fully open relationship for both of us, We'd talk it through and consider it.

If she fell in love and wanted to keep seeing him then I would find that very difficult.

If it's with another woman then I'd give her every encouragement happily drive her so she could meet the lady in question! (Something related has actually happened.)

It really all depends on the damage to our relationship.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We have an open marrige. As long as everything's out in the open between us its all good and has been for 25 years. If it ever got secretive then it would be game over. Never has and never will.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It would be the end of us

We swing together and do meet alone ,as long as we tell each other everything that's cool

There would be absolutely no reason for either of us to cheat and the trust would be gone for me.

Miss

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"How would you feel if your partner, was cheating behind your back?"

Deeply gutted, happened twice with two lowlife ex's.... Now I'm with Cherry, we 'swing' lol, never to be cheated on again

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely devastated and heart broken, it's not necessarily the act it's the lies and deception and lack of respect that go along with it.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Right now, it would be welcome news.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

"Absolutely devastated and heart broken, it's not necessarily the act it's the lies and deception and lack of respect that go along with it. "

This.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would be mightily pissed off and if the situation was reversed so would he.

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

We were out at a music festival last weekend. Mrs disappeared until 4am, i couldn’t find her anywhere. When she finally showed up i asked where she went she confessed she got chatting to a pretty boy who happened to have a huge cock. She went off to his tent and admitted to cheating on me with him. We havnt stopped fucking since. Made me too horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your partner, was cheating behind your back?"

It would depend, if it was playful cheating in order to confess for the tease, then great.

If though it was sneaking around in the hope to not be found out, that would end us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your partner, was cheating behind your back?"

Shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think I'd be okay. If that ever happened, he isn't the man I thought he was so our relationship was based on a lie. I also know my worth so it would be over in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be over immediately

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

"How would you feel if your partner, was cheating behind your back?"

I felt well and truly mugged off when I found out 3 year after we split up. He tortured me accusing me of cheating all the time and I never did. I would have been well up for an open relationship if he'd wanted to go elsewhere, but he would have never ever agreed to it because wouldn't have wanted me sleeping with someone else.

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By *napppaMan
over a year ago

London

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By *napppaMan
over a year ago

London

"How would you feel if your partner, was cheating behind your back?

I had a very similar experience but the other way round, felt totally betrayed and manipulated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s where we are today because he found out, never looked back..

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"It’s where we are today because he found out, never looked back.."

Love and totally get this xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we are in an open relationship it would be impossible for either person to cheat on the other.

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Very hot

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"Absolutely devastated and heart broken, it's not necessarily the act it's the lies and deception and lack of respect that go along with it.

This.

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a mixture of answers depending on the context of ‘cheat’

I’m allowed and encouraged to cheat sexually, because it’s part of our arrangement and agreed in advance. Anything undisclosed or with more behind it would be an issue for us.

Hubby isn’t, because we haven’t discussed it at this stage, so I’d be devastated.

It’s much more about communication and whether or not trust has been broken, rather than the act itself x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"We were out at a music festival last weekend. Mrs disappeared until 4am, i couldn’t find her anywhere. When she finally showed up i asked where she went she confessed she got chatting to a pretty boy who happened to have a huge cock. She went off to his tent and admitted to cheating on me with him. We havnt stopped fucking since. Made me too horny."

The disappearing off seems disrespectful to me, it could have caused you concern. Each to their own.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

So how many of you single profiles is married on here with there partner not knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would find it a turn on as iv been asking her to share for years but she isn't up for it "

Thats the difference.. cheating and consent

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"There are quite a mixture of answers depending on the context of ‘cheat’

I’m allowed and encouraged to cheat sexually, because it’s part of our arrangement and agreed in advance. Anything undisclosed or with more behind it would be an issue for us.

Hubby isn’t, because we haven’t discussed it at this stage, so I’d be devastated.

It’s much more about communication and whether or not trust has been broken, rather than the act itself x"

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Cheating and swinging are two VERY different things. Cheating involves deliberately deceiving your partner to fulfill your own selfish urges. I could never cheat on my Husband and I believe he feels the same way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us the wife wouldn't need to cheat as she can fuck who she likes but I'd need to know where and who with as it's our safety thing, I wouldn't be happy if she didn't tell me as I need to know she's safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a swinging couple they'd be no need to cheat but if I found he did without my knowledge it would be the end of us. If I can't trust him and he was prepared to risk us he doesn't deserve my breath so I wouldn't waste it on him.

Mrs

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Cant see why either of us would want to cheat as we can meet people as a couple and have sex with them if we wish, it's far from cheating if we are together. If he went behind my back with someone though that would be the end of our marriage.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Cheating as in having sex with someone else and not telling me? I'd be hurt and angry but try to find out why.

Cheating as in having an intimate emotional relationship I'd be hurt, angry and packing my suitcase.

Cheating as in concealing or hiding certain actions I'd be hurt because I would know the intimacy and closeness had gone from our relationship.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It was the end of the relationship as relationships are built around trust and this was broken.it would always leave doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found out my ex cheated on me after also discovering that he was a serial domestic abuser...

It was the night he went out 'to wet the babies head' so whilst I was laying in bed feeling physically and mentally broken, he was out sticking his dick in someone else...

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Heartbroken as we do everything together been together over 30 years so would shatter everything

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

The idea she cheating on me is a massive turn on but in real I don't know if I can handle it

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

My bi husband cheated on me with a man and ultimately left me for him which broke me as I was willing to work with it but he is now fully gay so that wasn’t possible.

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By *portbilly1976Man
over a year ago

manchester

"For me personally (Luke) it really depends on the situation.

If Hannah had a random wild fling that came out of the blue and wasn't intending to carry on, I'm pretty sure I could deal with it.

If she did something to open the door to a fully open relationship for both of us, We'd talk it through and consider it.

If she fell in love and wanted to keep seeing him then I would find that very difficult.

If it's with another woman then I'd give her every encouragement happily drive her so she could meet the lady in question! (Something related has actually happened.)

It really all depends on the damage to our relationship."

Reading this - obvious observation is you see cheating with a woman as different to cheating with a man?

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By *elshcouple4000Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I love the idea of her cheating on me. Anyone else feel the same.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Honestly was heart breaking when I found out that my ex repeatedly cheated on me after she kept accusing me of cheating on her. So no I wouldn’t forgive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a trust issue .. if you can't agree on the aspects of fun in your life and have to resort to cheating. Well your not in a relationship you in a convenient dull conundrum.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"How would you feel if your partner, was cheating behind your back?"

I'd just say to her ask me for the answers instead of trying to copy me.. Simple's

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I agree there’s a big difference between cheating and swinging/open marriage/enm

My ex cheated and what hurt the most was the deception and the insult to my intelligence (he was rubbish at hiding it!) plus he went bare which was plain stupid!

Annoyingly I also would have been happy to discuss an open marriage but as earlier poster he’d have hated that as he wouldn’t have wanted me being with anyone else.

It’s a betrayal of trust pure and simple.

Those saying they fantasise about it - it’s just that fantasy, the reality would be quite different

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By *erfectduoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have challenges with each other, and both stick to them, so it's a game to us.

We both challenge each other on nights, get pics, stick to rules as it's a power trip to both.

Yet, our love is unbreakable, this lifestyle is all kinks and games, when it's us, it's absolutely immense

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"It almost destroyed me, especially when she said sorry and that it was a mistake "

Been there. Its funny how they accidently fall on a dick

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Honestly was heart breaking when I found out that my ex repeatedly cheated on me after she kept accusing me of cheating on her. So no I wouldn’t forgive"

Cheaters will always accuse you of cheating as its a distraction so you wont find out they are cheating on you. Cheeters are the scum of the earth no matter how they sugar coat it by saying they love them and cant leave them but cheat to get sex thats missing in their relationships. Better to leave and start afresh than cheat.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"I agree there’s a big difference between cheating and swinging/open marriage/enm

My ex cheated and what hurt the most was the deception and the insult to my intelligence (he was rubbish at hiding it!) plus he went bare which was plain stupid!

Annoyingly I also would have been happy to discuss an open marriage but as earlier poster he’d have hated that as he wouldn’t have wanted me being with anyone else.

It’s a betrayal of trust pure and simple.

Those saying they fantasise about it - it’s just that fantasy, the reality would be quite different

So true

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"How would you feel if your partner, was cheating behind your back?"
it hurts, it makes your whole world crumble

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