FabSwingers.com forum: How big is too big???

By *coobyroo218 OP Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Following on from the W/E and VWE thread on here, how big is too big??

J cannot take anything bigger than 7" before it becomes uncomfortable or hurting her when being fucked hard, I am just an average guy with 6" and it seems to fit perfectly, I can fuck her as hard as I want and the harder I do the more she enjoys it.

We always ask how big a guy is before we meet for this reason as no point meeting a guy with that is bigger than 7" as J will not enjoy it so the guy will not either.

So the question is ladies and gents how big is too big????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer average size...and think anything bigger than about 7" is too big cos it just hurts and thats no fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um ... er... If ever I find one that's too big, I'll get back to you with an answer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Um ... er... If ever I find one that's too big, I'll get back to you with an answer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girth over length every time for me! Nothing lie the pain of a hard cock smacking ur cervix just at the wrong time, which is any time tbh

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By *coobyroo218 OP Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

"Um ... er... If ever I find one that's too big, I'll get back to you with an answer....

Looking forward to the answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Um ... er... If ever I find one that's too big, I'll get back to you with an answer....

My answer too. Lol x

Cali

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Can honestly say "how big is your cock?" has never been uttered in deciding on a meet.

There have been some

and

moments but I use the tool in hand!

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Don't believe there is any such thing as too big.

A larger than average man needs to have more skill to make sure the woman is fully aroused so that her uterus and cervix move and elongate to accomodate him, and that she becomes lubricated. Remember it stretches and a BABY can come out of there!!!!.....

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends what position you do it in and how careful he is. i never ask a man how big his cock is, there are some men on here that do look too big though.

i wouldnt want to meet them.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Interesting hearing some ladies can handle as much meat and others are struggling to accommodate.

Must prove like cock's, that the vagina differs in size.

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By *porty boxerMan
over a year ago

dundee

8-inch

never

had

coMplaint..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girth over length every time for me! Nothing lie the pain of a hard cock smacking ur cervix just at the wrong time, which is any time tbh

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Don't believe there is any such thing as too big.

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological."

I'd've gone with the above - until I had a hysterectomy - I now have a 'ceiling'...

- it's not quite as accomodating as it used to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not keen on big cocks, i find they hurt me, and i get no pleasure in wincing away every time they thrust forwards

About 8inch is my limit, if i meet someone and it looks to big i wont play as i refuse to put myself thro pain for their pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With all the ladies here saying they're not keen on large cocks will a single guy put an update on saying he has a tiny cock and is willing to help them out?

Anyone?

No? ..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't believe there is any such thing as too big.

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological."

last time i gave birth i had a epidural for the pain, i dont recall ever seeing anyone walking round chams offering them out so i can shag a 12inch cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Remember it stretches and a BABY can come out of there!!!!.....

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological."

Giving birth and having sex a two entirely separate episodes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't believe there is any such thing as too big.

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological."

I disagree.

I haven't encountered "too big" yet, but some are too big to be used incautiously and with wild abandon.

It's not about lack of lubrication. In my case I'm sure some would be too big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Remember it stretches and a BABY can come out of there!!!!.....

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological.

Giving birth and having sex a two entirely separate episodes

Thank goodness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Remember it stretches and a BABY can come out of there!!!!.....

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological.

Giving birth and having sex a two entirely separate episodes

Think there's a link between the two though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't believe there is any such thing as too big.

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological.

I disagree.

I haven't encountered "too big" yet, but some are too big to be used incautiously and with wild abandon.

It's not about lack of lubrication. In my case I'm sure some would be too big."

I'd agree with that, personally I've found that simply by taking sex slow and gently (though I still have to use a little lubrication), I can penetrate most girl with my full length without hurting them - they do tend to be very vocal though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Remember it stretches and a BABY can come out of there!!!!.....

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological.

Giving birth and having sex a two entirely separate episodes

i agree

you cant really compair having a baby to shagging a big cock

when your in labour your body takes hours to ajust and your cervix opens so the baby has the full lenth of the womb and vaginal passage to come out, all a cock has its the space from your vaginal opening to your cervix, not the full passage a baby has

plus having a baby hurts like hell but you have no choice in pulling up with that pain i do have a choice not to shag a big cock thats hurting me just because a babys been there

the average lenth is the vagina is only 3 to 4 inch so any cock bigger than that it stretching it and it can only stretch so far, the cervix dont open to accommodate anything bigger like it does in child birth

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Some big one is someone else small one

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I love big cocks even though apparently I have a tight pussy!

8" or more are lovely - 6" don't work for me!!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"I love big cocks even though apparently I have a tight pussy!

8" or more are lovely - 6" don't work for me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't believe there is any such thing as too big.

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological.

I disagree.

I haven't encountered "too big" yet, but some are too big to be used incautiously and with wild abandon.

It's not about lack of lubrication. In my case I'm sure some would be too big.

Enthusiastic use of 8" left me peeing blood for three days. I hesitate to imagine what larger could do.

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By *ealfunCouple
over a year ago

darleston

Most ladies are excited by a big hard cock

but can be painful so slow and deep is my preference.

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By *coobyroo218 OP Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

"Don't believe there is any such thing as too big.

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological.

I disagree.

I haven't encountered "too big" yet, but some are too big to be used incautiously and with wild abandon.

It's not about lack of lubrication. In my case I'm sure some would be too big.

Well, yes, if sex is slow and gentle then having a big cock sliding in and out isn't bad, however, when you are talking hard and fast fucking it hurts like hell (my ex was over 9 ins so I know)

I have turned guys down before if they have had a large cock and have asked the question before.

And, like a few others have said, a sex and childbirth are two different things and it's got nothing all to do with lubrication - an average one can hurt if you're not lubricated enough!

Mrs Scoobs

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

13 inches was manageable but only in certain positions

The problem we had was that so few women were even willing to try that he rarely had vaginal sex and couldn't cum as he was so used to the sensations of wanking.

The really uncomfortable one was the same size and shape a baked beans can! It was the girth that caused problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't believe there is any such thing as too big.

If the man isnt a good lover, and the woman isn't aroused and relaxed that is when problems arise, its rarely biological.

I disagree.

I haven't encountered "too big" yet, but some are too big to be used incautiously and with wild abandon.

It's not about lack of lubrication. In my case I'm sure some would be too big.

Well, yes, if sex is slow and gentle then having a big cock sliding in and out isn't bad, however, when you are talking hard and fast fucking it hurts like hell (my ex was over 9 ins so I know)

I've never understood the mentality behind guys who just want to mount and hammer away at a lady like an upside down woodpecker, not only is it inconsiderate but also I can't help but wonder how it doesn't feel uncomfortable for THEM aswell.

Whenever I penetrate a girl, even after a substantial warm up it always feels a little bit dry and theres obviously alot of friction, so going slowly is pretty much essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"13 inches was manageable but only in certain positions

The problem we had was that so few women were even willing to try that he rarely had vaginal sex and couldn't cum as he was so used to the sensations of wanking.

The really uncomfortable one was the same size and shape a baked beans can! It was the girth that caused problems

I'd try 13" if he wasn't a cocky, God's gift type because of it and if he realised he'd need to be gentle.

Baked bean can?

That sounds... um...

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Have to agree with the OP, not fussed with anything more than 7 inches, even when well lubricated and relaxed it's still uncomfortable.

Just not fussed with VWE, but plenty out there who are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The really uncomfortable one was the same size and shape a baked beans can! It was the girth that caused problems

Baked bean can?

That sounds... um...

When faced with a cock the size of a baked beans can, you can make it alot more comfortable by using your tongue to add lubrication beforehand - its known as the 'Heinz Lick' maneuver.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"13 inches was manageable but only in certain positions

The really uncomfortable one was the same size and shape a baked beans can! It was the girth that caused problems

I'd try 13" if he wasn't a cocky, God's gift type because of it and if he realised he'd need to be gentle.

Baked bean can?

That sounds... um...

The 13 inch guy was the meekest, shyest man - totally the who should have been gifted with so much! Bless him he was scared of approaching women because so many had taken one look and run off screaming!

All he wanted was to settle down with a nice girl but none of them stayed with him. Poor sod.

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By *amnationsedgeMan
over a year ago

Ashborne

In experience too big is a matter of will, if you think you won't be able to handle it then thats when you have problems. Sounds a little daft but confidence does help.

The first time my ex saw my cock she completely freaked but once she got her confidence up she loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it could double as a draught excluder, it's too big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The really uncomfortable one was the same size and shape a baked beans can! It was the girth that caused problems

Baked bean can?

That sounds... um...

When faced with a cock the size of a baked beans can, you can make it alot more comfortable by using your tongue to add lubrication beforehand - its known as the 'Heinz Lick' maneuver."

LOL

I don't usually need to do anything to add lubrication but I have a fairly solid dildo with a 2" diameter, which is less circumference than a baked bean can, and that is about as thick as I can manage without stretching myself regularly.

I have managed a 10" circumference, with great care, but it took a couple of weeks to work up to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"13 inches was manageable but only in certain positions

The really uncomfortable one was the same size and shape a baked beans can! It was the girth that caused problems

I'd try 13" if he wasn't a cocky, God's gift type because of it and if he realised he'd need to be gentle.

Baked bean can?

That sounds... um...

All he wanted was to settle down with a nice girl but none of them stayed with him. Poor sod. "

That's sad

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I am approx 6 inches deep from outer lip to cervix... there is obviously some give and some external padding depending on the position.

Above 8 inches it can start to feel like my womb is being pushed into my rib cage, whilst having a good ol' balls deep hard pounding......... I do not enjoy feeling like my insides have gone 8 rounds with Mike Tyson.

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By *coobyroo218 OP Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

So from this we have found out that men come in many sizes from the down right ridiculously small to the fuck me look at the size of that I aint going anywhere near that

And women come in two sizes only, from I like and average sized cock and anything smaller will not do, to the I can take anything any size right up until I can feel it in my throat

All above said in jest please do not hit me with anything bigger than average

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