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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

I was just wondering if couples and ladies looking for single males prefer to make the first contact or be contacted? I presume its the former with the amount of messages you get?

Owl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best advice here is to first read and understand their profile - many often give clues as to what they are looking for and also their preferred contact criteria for Single Males (e.g 'We will find you') and in many cases will allow you to judge if you meet their criteria before sending a mail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers mate. I always fully read the profile to see if I'm a match.

The reason I asked is cos the meet I had, she contacted me first and just wondered if that was the norm or not. Bearing in mind she told me this morning she had 185 unread messages!! How would you stand out in that!! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems to me you already have,or are you just showing off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers mate. I always fully read the profile to see if I'm a match.

The reason I asked is cos the meet I had, she contacted me first and just wondered if that was the norm or not. Bearing in mind she told me this morning she had 185 unread messages!! How would you stand out in that!! Lol."

Make the subject line of your message 'Free Car'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sorry if I came across as showing off. I'm not at all.

I was just curious to find out how couples and women approach things.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Hi all,

I was just wondering if couples and ladies looking for single males prefer to make the first contact or be contacted? I presume its the former with the amount of messages you get?

Owl x"

We tend to contact single guys that we are interested in meeting ourselves...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for that. Was beginning to wish I hadnt started this thread and come across as a flash tw8t cos thats not what I intended. Just to learn from the other side of the coin so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never send out messages first

i prefer to just go thro the mail i get and reply to the ones i like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i never send out messages first

i prefer to just go thro the mail i get and reply to the ones i like"

Thanks for taking the time to advise. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never send out messages first

i prefer to just go thro the mail i get and reply to the ones i like"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never send out messages first

i prefer to just go thro the mail i get and reply to the ones i like

Agreed "

But on the very rare occasion I might send a wink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i never send out messages first

i prefer to just go thro the mail i get and reply to the ones i like

Agreed

But on the very rare occasion I might send a wink"

Cheers Sue

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

rarely contact guys either .. just tend to go through mails we receive and go from there .. a wee bit lazy maybe but it seems to work for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"rarely contact guys either .. just tend to go through mails we receive and go from there .. a wee bit lazy maybe but it seems to work for us "

Well this is kind of what I was enquiring about. Couples and women get so many people contacting them, I wondered if they just used that or lookex for themselves and made contact.

Thanks for you input

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