FabSwingers.com forum: Gift when meeting?

By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Do you bring a gift when meeting?

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By *intteaMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes - usually booze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take them actually turning up. No gift needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a bottle of wine and some flowers for a couple. i have been told how few people do this. it just seems polite if someone is inviting you into their home. perhaps i’m just old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not. Swinging isn't prostitution!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

A proper gift? Nah, that’s a huge red flag to me

A bottle of wine or something? Sure. But an actual gift? Seems creepy

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

Alcohol if we are drinking together is fine.

Otherwise no. Just really weird.

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

"Alcohol if we are drinking together is fine.

Otherwise no. Just really weird. "

Although saying that, if it's a regular meet then it probably wouldn't be so weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first meet, probably wine and flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a second meet. Possibly fuzzy handcuffs

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

The only time I wouldn’t think it weird is if it was something jokey that you had been chatting about, not a gift as such. But yes usually just alcohol.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We've never had anyone bring us anything, except one of our more regular guys brought sausages, bacon and eggs and cooked us breakfast!

We have had one guy say that ours was the very first meet he'd had where he'd actualy been offered a cuppa!

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've never had anyone bring us anything, except one of our more regular guys brought sausages, bacon and eggs and cooked us breakfast!

We have had one guy say that ours was the very first meet he'd had where he'd actualy been offered a cuppa!

keeping it real. it can be thirsty work

(Bry)

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

We took flowers for the lady in one cpl we met....it's very traditional for Estonians to give gifts when meeting others

xx sorry to be such weirdos ....

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

I’ve taken drinks if I knew the evening was going to consist of relaxing whilst having a few..

Profiles that stipulate you must bring ‘gifts’ to even be considered for a meet put me off.. Just another double standard SOME members think they can get away with being a certain gender

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, that's weird to me.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I accepted a gift I would feel under obligation to them. I even buy my own drink in a bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and I wouldn’t expect one either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had wine and flowers a few times which is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always take some frankincense with me, you never know if the other two guys are going to turn up and try and out do the gift giving.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Can't say I've ever had this on a first meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are regulars then I do sometimes bring wine and choclates or if we have been talking for a while. In the case of an off the cuff fuck n go then I am their gift..lol

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The gift they get is my time

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I never ask for gifts or anything for that matter. Sometimes get wine, flowers, and vibrators. And have been treated to nice meals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends

if chatting for a while i'd bring a bottle of wine if they were hosting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If I accepted a gift I would feel under obligation to them. I even buy my own drink in a bar "

I try to, and if they insist I get one cheap thing to get them off my damn case

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

My presence is a present.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

No.

Maybe a bottle of booze if we where going round to somebodies house. Or something silly but relevant if it were someone we knew.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My presence is a present.

Have you got the gift of the gab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and never have. I find it a little creepy tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting post.

I once took gifts of frankincense myrrh and gold. Nice couple Mary and Joe but the gaff was a pig sty so didn’t stay.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Not a gift, no, but I have treated people to a full English hotel breakfast the next morning.

Ruby

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Iv took wine but for us to drink together but that’s it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

For me it depends on the type of meet and how well you know the person

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Interesting post.

I once took gifts of frankincense myrrh and gold. Nice couple Mary and Joe but the gaff was a pig sty so didn’t stay. "

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Not a gift, no, but I have treated people to a full English hotel breakfast the next morning.

Ruby"

I'll book in.....just for the brekkie

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

Always take a bottle !

Rod

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over a year ago

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

I’ve been given flowers in the past.

Another time, he cooked lunch for us, which was a very nice gesture afterwards (and yummy too).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we haven't it's a bit odd thing to do. We wouldn't expect anything if anything we would find it a bit off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say that this has ever come up in conversation, and I’ve never seen any profiles either.

My socials are usually in a pub or coffee shop local to me in which case I’m happy to buy the drinks seen as the guy has usually made the effort to get to me.

Occasionally a guy might have gone home with an unexpected pair of my underwear though

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By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We have taken over wine and chocs to a couple we met and also given a bottle of wine to a lady that came over.

We think its a nice gesture.

Him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the gift of me.. you're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does good company and conversation count as a gift ? I think the flowers touch is a nice idea but could be a bit to much on a first meet however if you’ve been speaking for ages and have that connection it’s some I would do as a nice surprise for her x

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I always bring a cake, just in case they forget

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

No.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I've always taken drink when going to anyones but never had anyone bring anything to ours

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By *untime1969Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Flowers and wine, it's nice polite and helps people relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deez nuts on ya chin

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