FabSwingers.com forum: Bi straight male cd

By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

bangor

Can someone please advise where I’m going wrong. I’m finding it hard to meet genuine women couples or cds

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By *exy wife and her CuckCouple
over a year ago

Angus

Bi straight male cd would just make me think "cba trying to figure that one out" and would just move on.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Can someone please advise where I’m going wrong. I’m finding it hard to meet genuine women couples or cds "

----Do you use Search and reach out? That's better than waiting to be found..

If you do rely on your profile...

I'd say try not to begin the intro with negativity and caps etc. We've all been there but it always sounds a touch stroppy. Fab actually gets less frustrating the more time you spend on it and you understand its pace.

One of the last lines (about yourself) is a much better first line. A few lines of this 'list of lines' would probably make better short sentences tbh. In general, people prefer not to read just lists I think.

fwiw personally I wouldn't advertise being a bit of a sugar daddy, or at least put it another way if you are willing to pay to do things. Believe it or not it could put some people off.

Finally (for the prose) "women I'm not fussy" sounds a bit wrong somehow (ie even though I'm sure its true) so maybe rethink that too.

You can get a veri on cam, or even just after a phonecall or coffee or something - it's very-much worth having one as some people are set to ignore non-verified profiles (often to avoid annoying new profiles etc).

Also, you can lose the first line of the 'personal data' bit at the end, basically because it's based on something that isn't true (there are no new terms on Fab that changes anything).----

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

bangor

Thanks for advice. I did rewrite profile because someone else suggested I did. I’m not very good in describing myself. I’ll look into a profile revamp

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Profile text is fine as it’s got plenty of information, that unfortunately won’t be read by the majority who’ll be attracted to you.

In my experience it’s the pictures that I get messages about. As I show my face (admittedly caked in makeup and a wig) an admirer will be more keen as they’re seeing if I ‘pass’ as a woman.

You have a great body I wish I was that slim again, so well done for showing it. But work off the fabs on your pictures, whatever gets the most, are what’s attracting and maybe what you should be displaying.

Good luck Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice. I did rewrite profile because someone else suggested I did. I’m not very good in describing myself. I’ll look into a profile revamp "

You are probably wearing the wrong tartan?

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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Thanks for advice. Nice to have some nice comments on how to guide me the right way. I’ve got face pics on here but kept private because even in wig and make up my features still make me noticeable and need to be discreet. It’s very frustrating because at times I do wish I could go further and be out.

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