FabSwingers.com forum: Single male wink

By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Here we go again!

Do we regard single male winks with the same disdain as we do others? Is "disdain" too strong a word? Is the wink facility a great tool or is it time to clip it?

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

I don't view them with disdain. I may not respond but enjoy receiving them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People see winks as:

a. A harmless way to break the ice and express interest without the hassle of drafting a lengthy message that won't get read.

b.Lazy.

People use winks because:

a. It's a harmless way of breaking the ice.

b. Saves typing a massive message, trying to be original for it to be :

1. Deleted.

2. Accused of being cut and paste.

c. Because they know you aren't what they are looking for but always worth a punt.

d. because anyone with a pulse is fair game.

Some people:

a. love winks.

b. loathe winks.

Not a comprehensive list but its a tool of the site to use as you see fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even look at my winks

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

I like a wink. Giving and receiving......

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I am open to receiving winks ?? on my profile. But sometimes wish that it was a message instead

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Yes we love a good wink…. If it’s reciprocated then you’re half way there.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Guilty as charged, I love winks, giving and receiving

I see it as equivalent for a smile in the bar/pub/club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never look at my winks just mass delete daily

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

I see a wink from a lady as "come on then, try me, buster". They're very rare though. It would be nice if they were a signal of interest from a lady or couple, but then I guess the idiot tendency on here would take that as a green light for their pushy attitude...

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

I like a wink. As above, if you send one and get one back then ypu have kind of broken the ice. It is lile the smile across the crowded room.

But also very aware that most are unseen and many see it as lazy.

Cant please everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all different, we all have different thoughts on winks. They are not bad, they are not good. Just a way to say, Hi, I like you. What’s the harm in that?

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Any time I give a wink, it's meant as a compliment for the profile and pictures as a whole.

Sometimes I've messaged a couple just to say their pictures are really great.

Either way, it's always meant as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often forget to check mine. But I will dish them out to couples sometimes if I'm not sure they'd be interested in a message from me or not

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

I wonder how many anti winks folks would change there mind if the site had a top winked at chart similar to most fabbed

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