Who found clubs was the best way to break the ice into the lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think Mrs is interested in a club after I posted the other day about best place to start we had a chat. Social more relaxed?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

1) Get a couples account (even at a club you will possibly need it).

2) Discuss with your wife exactly what you both want out of it.

3) Don't try to run before you can walk. We where not new to the lifestyle when we went to a club and we still found it overwhelming on our first visit.

You guys have to do you but go at a pace you both agree on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1) Get a couples account (even at a club you will possibly need it).

2) Discuss with your wife exactly what you both want out of it.

3) Don't try to run before you can walk. We where not new to the lifestyle when we went to a club and we still found it overwhelming on our first visit.

You guys have to do you but go at a pace you both agree on. "

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

As the above poster says set up a couples profile, some clubs like to know your genuine (although cannot think of any). I'd also say check with what wifey wants and is happy to do or not do. Never go with the anticipation of playing as there's no guarantee you'll a) meet someone you both like or b) will be interested in you guys.

Lastly if you do have fun with others, take time afterwards to reconnect with each other.

Best of luck.

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