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"Subscription ends tomorrow after being on here for about 10 years under 3 different profiles just thought I'd say it's been interesting but that's about it. Although it's cheap to join and get messaging than just about any other website it doesn't really bear fruit for single guys. Despite being a decent lad, in shape, fit, fairly handsome so I'm told and with plenty conversation none of this has transpired into any meets for over 3 years.. yes covid has been a killer but it's more than that. Its fair enough as the site is really for swinging couples, but as a place to actually meet women for a single guy it's dire. I've been on several other dating sites and had lots more fruitful chats and dates than here, so latterly I've just accepted that this site is really just akin to semi reality soft porn and for window shopping.. The latest local pics seems to be full of unattractive people and the attractive ladies mostly live miles away down south. Over a third of the views to my profile over the last year's have been tvtscd folks .. I've sent thousands of messages but only received a few hundred in total. I've always always been nice, polite, cheeky, complimentary but to little avail. It very much appears the site is used by a lot of women of a certain 'fabulous' 'ample' to help their confidence I guess which is cool.. confidence is so important but many others are simply here to stroke their egos .. meeting is just not on the cards. Many guys like me are really wasting their time. It has introduced me to these clubs though and I did visit one in 2019 which was interesting but not really for me, maybe down south they are a bit busier / nicer. I've had some chat with about 4 yes altogether in the last 4 years there been about 4 women I've kept regular chat with, and never met any of them despite trying. Wasn't always like that though.. when I first joined, in the first two years on previous but very similar profile I met 5 women only one of which I went on to meet again. In total over 10 odd years I have met 9 women and 2 that ended up in a sexy date and one of them I was also chatting to of another dating site at the same time. Pretty poor record going by others it would seem. However I'm not a pushy guy and chasing women isn't something im evidently very good at, tbh in the pubs through my 30s it's always me that's been chased .. just the way it's worked out. I'm very definitely interested in the swinging thing but it would have to be with a likewise interested partner, as it's pretty demoralising as a single guy being on here trying to meet a kinky lass you're attracted enough to. It will be interesting to see where dating in 2022 23 goes as the regular sites are rubbish too for this.. again im on the 2/3 other main dating apps and dates from them are nothing like as prolific as they were years ago. Personally after a wee health scare recently think I need to go back to base look up old friends and get back out into the pubs. After all, that's where I've met all my previous girlfriends bar none .. Anyway a rambling jab at online and fabswingers but heyho. No offence to anybody. Over and out. G" Worth remembering that you're a single guy, looking to meet women, on a Swingers site! The majority of people on here are looking for three or more, 2 is dating or hookups, which there are dozens of apps specifically designed for. You're right that you'll be better off on a dating site, you don't sound like a swinger, just someone looking for a hookup. Good luck!  | |||
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"Subscription ends tomorrow after being on here for about 10 years under 3 different profiles just thought I'd say it's been interesting but that's about it. Although it's cheap to join and get messaging than just about any other website it doesn't really bear fruit for single guys. Despite being a decent lad, in shape, fit, fairly handsome so I'm told and with plenty conversation none of this has transpired into any meets for over 3 years.. yes covid has been a killer but it's more than that. Its fair enough as the site is really for swinging couples, but as a place to actually meet women for a single guy it's dire. I've been on several other dating sites and had lots more fruitful chats and dates than here, so latterly I've just accepted that this site is really just akin to semi reality soft porn and for window shopping.. The latest local pics seems to be full of unattractive people and the attractive ladies mostly live miles away down south. Over a third of the views to my profile over the last year's have been tvtscd folks .. I've sent thousands of messages but only received a few hundred in total. I've always always been nice, polite, cheeky, complimentary but to little avail. It very much appears the site is used by a lot of women of a certain 'fabulous' 'ample' to help their confidence I guess which is cool.. confidence is so important but many others are simply here to stroke their egos .. meeting is just not on the cards. Many guys like me are really wasting their time. It has introduced me to these clubs though and I did visit one in 2019 which was interesting but not really for me, maybe down south they are a bit busier / nicer. I've had some chat with about 4 yes altogether in the last 4 years there been about 4 women I've kept regular chat with, and never met any of them despite trying. Wasn't always like that though.. when I first joined, in the first two years on previous but very similar profile I met 5 women only one of which I went on to meet again. In total over 10 odd years I have met 9 women and 2 that ended up in a sexy date and one of them I was also chatting to of another dating site at the same time. Pretty poor record going by others it would seem. However I'm not a pushy guy and chasing women isn't something im evidently very good at, tbh in the pubs through my 30s it's always me that's been chased .. just the way it's worked out. I'm very definitely interested in the swinging thing but it would have to be with a likewise interested partner, as it's pretty demoralising as a single guy being on here trying to meet a kinky lass you're attracted enough to. It will be interesting to see where dating in 2022 23 goes as the regular sites are rubbish too for this.. again im on the 2/3 other main dating apps and dates from them are nothing like as prolific as they were years ago. Personally after a wee health scare recently think I need to go back to base look up old friends and get back out into the pubs. After all, that's where I've met all my previous girlfriends bar none .. Anyway a rambling jab at online and fabswingers but heyho. No offence to anybody. Over and out. G" Ffs spit it out! | |||
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"Subscription ends tomorrow after being on here for about 10 years under 3 different profiles just thought I'd say it's been interesting but that's about it. Although it's cheap to join and get messaging than just about any other website it doesn't really bear fruit for single guys. Despite being a decent lad, in shape, fit, fairly handsome so I'm told and with plenty conversation none of this has transpired into any meets for over 3 years.. yes covid has been a killer but it's more than that. Its fair enough as the site is really for swinging couples, but as a place to actually meet women for a single guy it's dire. I've been on several other dating sites and had lots more fruitful chats and dates than here, so latterly I've just accepted that this site is really just akin to semi reality soft porn and for window shopping.. The latest local pics seems to be full of unattractive people and the attractive ladies mostly live miles away down south. Over a third of the views to my profile over the last year's have been tvtscd folks .. I've sent thousands of messages but only received a few hundred in total. I've always always been nice, polite, cheeky, complimentary but to little avail. It very much appears the site is used by a lot of women of a certain 'fabulous' 'ample' to help their confidence I guess which is cool.. confidence is so important but many others are simply here to stroke their egos .. meeting is just not on the cards. Many guys like me are really wasting their time. It has introduced me to these clubs though and I did visit one in 2019 which was interesting but not really for me, maybe down south they are a bit busier / nicer. I've had some chat with about 4 yes altogether in the last 4 years there been about 4 women I've kept regular chat with, and never met any of them despite trying. Wasn't always like that though.. when I first joined, in the first two years on previous but very similar profile I met 5 women only one of which I went on to meet again. In total over 10 odd years I have met 9 women and 2 that ended up in a sexy date and one of them I was also chatting to of another dating site at the same time. Pretty poor record going by others it would seem. However I'm not a pushy guy and chasing women isn't something im evidently very good at, tbh in the pubs through my 30s it's always me that's been chased .. just the way it's worked out. I'm very definitely interested in the swinging thing but it would have to be with a likewise interested partner, as it's pretty demoralising as a single guy being on here trying to meet a kinky lass you're attracted enough to. It will be interesting to see where dating in 2022 23 goes as the regular sites are rubbish too for this.. again im on the 2/3 other main dating apps and dates from them are nothing like as prolific as they were years ago. Personally after a wee health scare recently think I need to go back to base look up old friends and get back out into the pubs. After all, that's where I've met all my previous girlfriends bar none .. Anyway a rambling jab at online and fabswingers but heyho. No offence to anybody. Over and out. G" It's not a dating app here or a free for all for sex... maybe your time will be better spent elsewhere as I can't really see you being a loss to the swinging scene,,,,, I really wish single guys would learn what swinging is before even trying !!!  | |||
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"Subscription ends tomorrow after being on here for about 10 years under 3 different profiles just thought I'd say it's been interesting but that's about it. Although it's cheap to join and get messaging than just about any other website it doesn't really bear fruit for single guys. Despite being a decent lad, in shape, fit, fairly handsome so I'm told and with plenty conversation none of this has transpired into any meets for over 3 years.. yes covid has been a killer but it's more than that. Its fair enough as the site is really for swinging couples, but as a place to actually meet women for a single guy it's dire. I've been on several other dating sites and had lots more fruitful chats and dates than here, so latterly I've just accepted that this site is really just akin to semi reality soft porn and for window shopping.. The latest local pics seems to be full of unattractive people and the attractive ladies mostly live miles away down south. Over a third of the views to my profile over the last year's have been tvtscd folks .. I've sent thousands of messages but only received a few hundred in total. I've always always been nice, polite, cheeky, complimentary but to little avail. It very much appears the site is used by a lot of women of a certain 'fabulous' 'ample' to help their confidence I guess which is cool.. confidence is so important but many others are simply here to stroke their egos .. meeting is just not on the cards. Many guys like me are really wasting their time. It has introduced me to these clubs though and I did visit one in 2019 which was interesting but not really for me, maybe down south they are a bit busier / nicer. I've had some chat with about 4 yes altogether in the last 4 years there been about 4 women I've kept regular chat with, and never met any of them despite trying. Wasn't always like that though.. when I first joined, in the first two years on previous but very similar profile I met 5 women only one of which I went on to meet again. In total over 10 odd years I have met 9 women and 2 that ended up in a sexy date and one of them I was also chatting to of another dating site at the same time. Pretty poor record going by others it would seem. However I'm not a pushy guy and chasing women isn't something im evidently very good at, tbh in the pubs through my 30s it's always me that's been chased .. just the way it's worked out. I'm very definitely interested in the swinging thing but it would have to be with a likewise interested partner, as it's pretty demoralising as a single guy being on here trying to meet a kinky lass you're attracted enough to. It will be interesting to see where dating in 2022 23 goes as the regular sites are rubbish too for this.. again im on the 2/3 other main dating apps and dates from them are nothing like as prolific as they were years ago. Personally after a wee health scare recently think I need to go back to base look up old friends and get back out into the pubs. After all, that's where I've met all my previous girlfriends bar none .. Anyway a rambling jab at online and fabswingers but heyho. No offence to anybody. Over and out. G" It's definitely tougher on here for single guys, but criticising people's bodies and looks on here won't get you anywhere. Also notice that you're solely looking for women, not couples or groups. Solo meets are only a small part of this site overall, so I think your time and energy would be better spent on a dating app. Hope you find what you're looking for | |||
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