FabSwingers.com forum: Does a guy need a cock pic?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it a mandatory thing to have on his profile?

Or do you prefer a nice surprise?

*probably been asked before but new members and new opinions and all that.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

No, dick profile pics are a put off as are those just sent. One further down the profile is good

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By *uitedSuitorMan
over a year ago

Halifax / Leeds

It's kinda like an advert in my opinion. You have to showcase the main product

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Preferably one with measuring markings on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An artistic picture, a full busy shot with a hard cock can be really nice to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely. Preferably one with measuring markings on it.

My pen run out of ink

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We wouldn't meet a guy without seeing a pic of his cock.Not all surprises are nice!

M and M

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"We wouldn't meet a guy without seeing a pic of his cock.Not all surprises are nice!

M and M"

This... we like to see the goods first however one time we didn't... rather large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he has a nice mix of other pics then 1 or 2 cock pics can be ok

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By *rixieMeWoman
over a year ago

Farfarfar away

As long as it’s not their profile picture. Otherwise I feel like I’m just chatting to a dick, literally & figuratively!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full on dick pics are in my friends only folder. Obviously apart from my profile picture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's kinda like an advert in my opinion. You have to showcase the main product

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We wouldn't meet a guy without seeing a pic of his cock.Not all surprises are nice!

M and M"

this is true. I suppose the same from my point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking for dick pics?

Sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind a picture but not when it’s all their pictures. I get more turned in by sexy body shots and a guy’s personality and our chemistry that I don’t really care what size, shape etc his dick is. I may be in the minority but I find it a turn off when it’s a picture of it in someone else.. I’m like dude I know what it’s for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you asking for dick pics?

Sent

How the hell did you slip through my filters…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely. Preferably one with measuring markings on it.

Or something classy like a Sky remote or lynx can... I hear they do wonders here.

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By *omethingDifferent4FunWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh-ish

"As long as he has a nice mix of other pics then 1 or 2 cock pics can be ok "

Exactly this, it's when it's the only pics that it's less appealing. Or so many of them it feels like they were providing input for a 3D printed model to be made!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I personally prefer to see one

Im unlikely to respond to a message where a dickpic is unavailable

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre

My dick pics get more fabs and comments than any other so I keep posting them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I personally prefer to see one

Im unlikely to respond to a message where a dickpic is unavailable "

Oh right. Maybe this is where I am going with wrong. Memes with Disney characters are just not cutting it at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I can take a tasteful one. All the same, I keep them hidden until asked or a conversation gets to that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as he has a nice mix of other pics then 1 or 2 cock pics can be ok

Exactly this, it's when it's the only pics that it's less appealing. Or so many of them it feels like they were providing input for a 3D printed model to be made!

I can imagine the dread when Fabs website goes full VR.... It'll be like jumping into an Eel tank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,I and plenty of other guys have no issue meeting without cock pics up.

I don't see the need to wave it in their face, unless they ask me to of course

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It really doesn't bother me either way. It's their profile.

A profile that is just dick pics just shows a lack of imagination and laziness and I'd most likely just move on .But some pics like nudes can be sexy on here I think.

Seeing a man's dick before I meet them has never tho being a requirement on here for me as long as he isn't a dick then I don't care if I've seen it or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can imagine the dread when Fabs website goes full VR.... It'll be like jumping into an Eel tank"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of you profile like you are selling a motorbike, would you just show pictures of the exhaust pipe on or the all of the motorbike. As most people want to see what the ride is like. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not. I'm not putting my last chicken in the shop into the window.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Speaking for myself am instantly put off by dick pics on profile if I wanna see I'll ask which would probably be next to never....but if you have a face pic as an opening message now that would help big time...and a great sense of humour too! We're flying make me laugh and we're good to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wouldn't meet a guy without seeing a pic of his cock.Not all surprises are nice!

M and M"

this

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just not maybe the first (only pic) there is.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I like to have a look but will ask

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Just not maybe the first (only pic) there is."

first or only pic I mean

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Dick pics are really unnecessary...even on a sex site. You can have it on Private or Friends Only.

Any woman who wouldn't talk to me because I don't have a dick pic public is not worth my time anyway

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

If someone doesn't want to talk to me and get to know me because they haven't seen my cock, that's not a problem as they aren't the sort of person I want to meet anyway. I am not my cock.

Mine isn't on show, but there are a few bulge shots where you can get an idea of it, and once we are chatting you can always ask for one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If someone doesn't want to talk to me and get to know me because they haven't seen my cock, that's not a problem as they aren't the sort of person I want to meet anyway. I am not my cock.

Mine isn't on show, but there are a few bulge shots where you can get an idea of it, and once we are chatting you can always ask for one. "

I’d have actually thought you would have had one because of your name. Goes to show not to assume in here doesn’t it.

I think you might be like me then, my cocks the last thing you get to find out about.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t like to see them on a public profile to be honest. I’d usually ignore the people that have them.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

"Absolutely. Preferably one with measuring markings on it.

My pen run out of ink"

I'm sure it did. Should have used 2 pens for the length of that

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I don't see why it puts people off as couples and females show there tits off.....or is it a case of do what we say not as we do?

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

So many likes and dislikes for such small things, no wonder many people ain’t get laid

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"I don’t like to see them on a public profile to be honest. I’d usually ignore the people that have them. "

Same as us.Why oh why do people who wish to meet us, send a picture of their dick? When we get a message with a dick pick we just delete and move on. It just signifies thoughtless behaviour on males who want to meet us - ridiculous.

Males, your dick looks like any other! Get it? It look like any other. We do not wish to see a picture of it - doh!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't see why it puts people off as couples and females show there tits off.....or is it a case of do what we say not as we do?"

Not all do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Males, your dick looks like any other! Get it? It look like any other. We do not wish to see a picture of it - doh!"

does it? Do they? Really?

Well I learned something today.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

Let's put it another way.

We get lots of messages from guys who wish to meet us. Do they really think that either of us would look at the dick pic and say, "Oh yes, that looks nice, we must meet him."

No guys. Put some thought into your message and sell yourself, because the sight of your dick will do absolutely zero for us.

If you can't work that out for yourself, then you are not for us - good luck getting nowhere - bye

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"We wouldn't meet a guy without seeing a pic of his cock.Not all surprises are nice!

M and M"

Ain't that the truth! Learnt our lesson, own fault.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

i refuse to have a cock pic in my public gallery... better go check though now ive said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a rule.

No dick pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We wouldn't meet a guy without seeing a pic of his cock.Not all surprises are nice!

M and M

Ain't that the truth! Learnt our lesson, own fault."

But you can ask can’t you? I mean if it’s important why not just ask?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have a rule.

No dick pic"

First rule?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"We wouldn't meet a guy without seeing a pic of his cock.Not all surprises are nice!

M and M

Ain't that the truth! Learnt our lesson, own fault.

But you can ask can’t you? I mean if it’s important why not just ask?

Why should people have to ask? It's like the profiles that say just ask, sorry we'll just pass by.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Males, your dick looks like any other! Get it? It look like any other. We do not wish to see a picture of it - doh!"

Rubbish, some look like a saveloy that's been burst and beaten with a meat tenderiser.

I will agree we don't want to see those but at least a pic means you don't see any in person.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No thank you, they are ugly things unless you know the person they are attached to of course

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"Absolutely. Preferably one with measuring markings on it.

I've got a lovely tape measure, perhaps I can help you put new measurements on

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We wouldn't meet a guy without seeing a pic of his cock.Not all surprises are nice!

M and M

Ain't that the truth! Learnt our lesson, own fault.

But you can ask can’t you? I mean if it’s important why not just ask?

Why should people have to ask? It's like the profiles that say just ask, sorry we'll just pass by. "

Mi didn’t say you ‘have to’. But you can…if you want

that’s all. Saves disappointment and all that. I dunno.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Males, your dick looks like any other! Get it? It look like any other. We do not wish to see a picture of it - doh!

Rubbish, some look like a saveloy that's been burst and beaten with a meat tenderiser.

I will agree we don't want to see those but at least a pic means you don't see any in person."

Yep.

A cock pic is a useful tool (pun intended!).

But it needs to be one that shows true proportion, not in isolation, so combined with a shot from knees to waistline, or held in the hand showing all fingers, or standing upright next to a red bull can/sky remote/other easily identifiable object. Otherwise a clever angle can make an average 5.5" look like a monster.

Dress it up. Stick googly eyes on it. Make it wear a hat. Anything entertaining and amusing.

Hanging out of a random, unidentifiable arse or mouth on a single guy profile is not a good look.

A great cock pic is a nice sight. A badly taken one puts the profile right to the bottom of a very, very, very long list.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Do I need one? No.

Do I have one? Yes.

Does it bother me if people look and don't like? No.

As this thread proves, for every person who hates seeing cock pics is another who wants to see them.

And for every person who likes to dicktate what others should have or not have on their profile is another who is actually more concerned with their own profile rather than attempting to admin others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us if that's mainly your picture gallery! We don't find it attractive tbh.

It's ok if there's one with other pics.

Again each to their own and I'm sure there is fab people that enjoy those pics but we don't! Lol (might as well be a dildo) and i don't use those!

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By *trideMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

You can't please all of the people all of the time.

Upload just one pic and classify it as "Only friends" or "Private".

It doesn't have to be yours. I downloaded mine from a "penis gallery" and decorated it in MS Paint. It took a few attempts to get it passed by the Mods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's put it another way.

We get lots of messages from guys who wish to meet us. Do they really think that either of us would look at the dick pic and say, "Oh yes, that looks nice, we must meet him."

No guys. Put some thought into your message and sell yourself, because the sight of your dick will do absolutely zero for us.

If you can't work that out for yourself, then you are not for us - good luck getting nowhere - bye"

Lol

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"If someone doesn't want to talk to me and get to know me because they haven't seen my cock, that's not a problem as they aren't the sort of person I want to meet anyway. I am not my cock.

Mine isn't on show, but there are a few bulge shots where you can get an idea of it, and once we are chatting you can always ask for one.

I’d have actually thought you would have had one because of your name. Goes to show not to assume in here doesn’t it.

I think you might be like me then, my cocks the last thing you get to find out about.

I just like dinosaurs.

I keep having to remind people that there were chicken sized ones too, so in no way is it a brag

Yeah, exactly. To me friendship and connection comes first and foremost, so what my cock is like shouldn't matter in the same way I don't demand a close up shot of a pussy before I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s as handsome as a handsome face does it increase chances ? Asking for a friend! lol

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I don't see why it puts people off as couples and females show there tits off.....or is it a case of do what we say not as we do?"

Tits are not the equivalent of dicks, that would be chests.

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