FabSwingers.com forum: Just wondering what people think

By *rhuges OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I was contacted by a mistress and sub. She wanted to meet me for some bdsm fun in a local hotel. In her words looking for subs for a thrashing.

Now initially a safe word was mentioned. I then got a mail saying that most subs regretted saying the safe word straight after so would I agree to allow her to use her judgment and get rid of the safety word.

I'm normally quite a trusting person , but something doesn't quite feel right, Am I just being paranoid.

I do have experience of spanking and punishment and really enjoy the pain pleasure threshold.

Would you meet up with her??

By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

You need a safe word and to know you have some ability to stop

She’s right in a way about people wanting more once they say stop but maybe have an amber word

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe words and tap outs are there for safety, anyone arrogant enough to say they don't need them is to be avoided.

Am an experienced Dom and never play without them as you never know a new partners limit or reactions.

By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

"Safe words and tap outs are there for safety, anyone arrogant enough to say they don't need them is to be avoided.

Am an experienced Dom and never play without them as you never know a new partners limit or reactions."

I need a safe word for the size of your dick