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By *vetteBond OP TV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

this guy I've been chatting with it's been too long now, he just doesn't seem to want to ask!

I've dropped hints to no avail so tonight I finally told him to ask me on a date and now we're somehow off on a tangent again!

Normally I just moved on but he's nice also young, cute and tall so is ticking my box's.

I am at an impasse

What should I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this guy I've been chatting with it's been too long now, he just doesn't seem to want to ask!

I've dropped hints to no avail so tonight I finally told him to ask me on a date and now we're somehow off on a tangent again!

Normally I just moved on but he's nice also young, cute and tall so is ticking my box's.

I am at an impasse

What should I do?"

Fuck him off. If he wanted to, he would

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

If you've asked him and still not getting anywhere, I'd personally write him off. Guess it depends on how much you like him hunni.

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

"this guy I've been chatting with it's been too long now, he just doesn't seem to want to ask!

I've dropped hints to no avail so tonight I finally told him to ask me on a date and now we're somehow off on a tangent again!

Normally I just moved on but he's nice also young, cute and tall so is ticking my box's.

I am at an impasse

What should I do?"

I’d move on if he’s not even giving any hints at when he can meet!

We do tend to chat for quite some time before making plans, just to make sure it’s a good fit, but also because it takes us a while to arrange meets due to getting babysitters.

But if you’ve approached the subject in several ways and he’s giving you nothing, just find someone else!

Good luck x x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'd just stop chatting. This happened to me in the past when I first joined with a couple of guys I was chatting to. We would talk about meeting but never actually set a date and time. Or they were always busy on any one I suggested. After a while I realised they would never meet and we're just all talk which would have been fine if they just admitted it. It was also when I stopped any sex talk with men on here as the ones who want to meet will carry on chatting without it. But guys like those were just looking wank material and a way to pass time when they were bored.

So ye of he isn't making any move to meet and you've tried I would just move on unless you are happy to just chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've asked and he still hasn't answered....he isn't going to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chances are if you’ve been that direct and blunt and he hasn’t asked then he’s like many of the young guys on here that love the idea of meeting rather than the act. I’m pretty clear from the outset about the various times I’m generally available and if there’s no momentum on a meet I move on quickly x

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By *vetteBond OP TV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

Thanks for the advice girls x

I guess I knew it was time to move on...I just needed telling!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Thanks for the advice girls x

I guess I knew it was time to move on...I just needed telling!"

You're welcome hun and *flicks hair" we're worth more

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