FabSwingers.com forum: Do people actually have successful meets on here or is it just all a show ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s one big pantomime

He’s behind you!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We have very successful meets x

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I've met some amazing people on here definitely

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I use fab to keep in touch with people that I've met at events and see what clubs I want to go to. I just meet purely by chance in clubs and venues.

I don't arrange any meets on Fab, people use the site in many different ways.

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

I have met many men and couples across all the years I have been here, so yes, some choose to meet.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We met a couple on Saturday night who had seen on here we were going to a club, so yes. There's loads of fakes and fantasists though.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's the land of make believe

Sure meet,chat away from the site and roll around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met plenty from here, some stayed friends, others have vanished quicker than an mp claims expenses

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By *otFun1976Man
over a year ago

Hove

Had some great meets as a single male!

Looking forward to some as a couple soon!

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

Its a lot rarer to meet people than it was a decade ago.

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

Yes before covid I used to meet women quite regularly.

What you have to remember is that there is more sausage than a packet of Richmond's here

So ladies have the pick of the bunch

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By *eachybum2020Man
over a year ago

Yelverton

I cant voice an opinion on couples seeking couples, but in the case of couples seeking men then 90% are fakes or timewasters.

A large proportion are males on here alone and the female having no knowledge of 'their' profile. In other cases, the couple in question gave it a try years ago, gave up but the male is still living the dream and happy to waste the time of guys who contact them, just look at the age of the last verification.

Females, well they can just pick and choose, so few of them on here.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely have meets but it is a struggle. However the meets I have had have made up for the timewasters and ghosters.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Had 2 socials from here but if we want a play meet we go to clubs

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual meets directly from here. Not really.

I’d say the majority of people in clubs are on here so there are plenty still meeting others that way.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

All our meets have been through here. We like to think they’ve all been succesful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met many on this profile as I've had some personal issues. On my last profile I met A LOT of men and some women and couples, the vast majority were great meets xx

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Mostly its just a show. Not many meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve meet some great people! But there’s absolutely a lot of time wasters just collecting pics to wank to unfortunately! You have to be careful and aware of red flags for sure! Good luck!

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Had a few meets but mostly met at clubs after exchanging messages on here.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Not in the last 4 years but covid was a lot of the last couple of years.

We have a few meets from here use to go to one party that was every month a few times but the guy holding them moved away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of successful meets! Made some great friends along the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though. "

Beautiful pictures by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like we aren't doing terribly then. Two fantastic couples over a few months. Our limiting factor is family life means we don't have many mutually open dates available.

Patience and a realistic level of expectation combined with a strong tolerance when you are clearly left in the lurch is our best approach.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've had some amazing meets on here still do .Some have been well not so amazing.

People use fab for whatever reason they want. Right now im not interested in doing new meets as I'm too busy. If people think I'm a timewaster because I won't meet them for a fuck well that's issue and it's only their time they waste as I tell anyone I do chat to that I'm not doing new meets at present.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I do usualy, not had a meet for a few months as I've got a broken shoulder but usually I meet 1 or 2 single guys a month as well as do a club visit

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We find it really hard But find club's so much fun..

Fab is fantastic for finding clubs and party's for us.

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Lots of people meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never have. But do just fine in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?"

Have you noticed that a lot of the people saying 'just here for the forums' are saying it, in the forums.

Most of those who are here to meet, do pretty well.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I've had enjoyable meets with both females and couples on fab. However, there are a lot of fakes and time wasters here. It takes patience but after a while you can tell the genuine ones. And often the ones who are here to meet focus on that rather than spending a lot of time on the forums.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its all just a lie.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Nah, we're just chatters and time wasters. Our veris say we lie thou.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Just glad we are 100% fakes and timewasters and get our jollies from arranging to meet then either not show up or give a lame excuse !! but before covid we did work on a 90% no show/lame excuse for meets ?? but it is harder now to get meets especially if you don't offer sex on a plate or even she'll be on the bed naked and moist and with a freshly washed pair of curtains !

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Been great for us, especially for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been great for us, especially for meets."

What do you seek

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By *ichaelJ1986Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I’ve had a few meets. Time and patience are key. We all have sex in the brain, many different ways to engage the brain. Some people like straight up meets, some prefer the forums. The forums are great, I’ve spoken to so many nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would. But that’s easy to say isn’t it? I see others do, but that’s easy for them to say.

But like you op, I see the same, (but only the forum)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though. "

Do your branches reach Manchester?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs has been successful with meets in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging is and always will be a rejection process just like looking for relationships or even looking for a job its a very selective process therefor alot will get rejected add in to the mix that depending on where you are in the country men are anything from 100 to 1 or 1,000 to 1 thats a hell of a lot of rejection that to add gets worse by the day dues to more and more men joining ..

then guys add in those that dont meet ie use the site to keep in touch or club meets or just socials id say thats at least 50% of all women and couples maybe alot more if honest .... then what chances do men really have ??? if 90% of men left fab tomorrow there would still be to many ... but as others have said swinging is much bigger than fab its a big ole scene even clubs are a very small part of the scene ....

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I cant voice an opinion on couples seeking couples, but in the case of couples seeking men then 90% are fakes or timewasters.

Females, well they can just pick and choose, so few of them on here."

It's good to see a single guy savvy regarding profiles. We only got stung by a fake once, we're far more savvy now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?"

It's not all just show, I and many others have had successful meets from the site, and a lot of fun they are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All for show...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All for show...

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

Seems to be all fakes and men just trying to get themselves off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be all fakes and men just trying to get themselves off"

Every single female and couple is a man having a wank. I should know… I’m one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just a figment of the matrix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the blokes hey lol

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Have some great meets on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always the blokes hey lol"

No I'm not saying it because I'm having trouble I'm not even in this lifestyle yet its as I seen a few couples say it's a waste of time on here

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

On my previous profile I had a lot of successful meets but I lived in West London, I came off the site for a while and rejoined when I moved to Scotland where its definitely trickier but overall yes, meets are possible and can be successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will feel that way but I'm assure you it isn't a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some will feel that way but I'm assure you it isn't a waste of time "

Most definitely not a waste of time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some will feel that way but I'm assure you it isn't a waste of time "

Good to know

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We have had loads of meets but generally best ones are with folks that already attend parties, clubs and holidays.

Found 121 meets can be a bit more difficult to set up and have a greater percentage of timewasters.

Before covid wouldn't meet with anyone without verifications.

Good luck with future meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be all fakes and men just trying to get themselves off

Every single female and couple is a man having a wank. I should know… I’m one of them

I’m backtracking now because I don’t want to get banned. My wife is very real and she is well aware of our fab account and has met some lovely people through this site.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It can be hard to meet other couples,there's 4way attraction and 4way availability to get through then.

Plus I'm straight and many couples are looking for bi fem couples,if we want to meet together ,we'd go to a club.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On the plus side ,jack has had some really good meets on his single profile .I rarely meet on mine these days,but had some great meets in the past with single men.

So it does happen .

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met some lovely people but getting started is hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though. "

“I’m just getting back into the swing of it”

*stumbles off the chair…

“Did you mean to do that”

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have met quite a few people from here. Some I've seen more than once. Most I've kept in touch with and still chat too.

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around

OP, if you want to find out how succeful folk are just click on their username and look at their veris I they show them...

SexDadBod seems to be doing fine, and no complaints here.

Maybe try chatting to fems and couples (in chat or forum) and see if there is a spark or you click, then you can take it from there...

Alternatively just keep messaging everyone who is online with FAF and see how you get on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met two people alot are just wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, if you want to find out how succeful folk are just click on their username and look at their veris I they show them...

SexDadBod seems to be doing fine, and no complaints here.

Maybe try chatting to fems and couples (in chat or forum) and see if there is a spark or you click, then you can take it from there...

Alternatively just keep messaging everyone who is online with FAF and see how you get on!"

Hi mate it was more of just a general question as I saw alot saying on here nothing happens in one of the other threads .yeah I have seen lots of veris but people even saying their fake now

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

There are a lot of fakes, timewasters and picture collectors. There's also a lot of amazing genuine sexy people on here. The aim of the game is to find the real ones. Going to organised socials, clubs and reading verifications can help you find people who actually exist.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

"There are a lot of fakes, timewasters and picture collectors. There's also a lot of amazing genuine sexy people on here. "

This!

It takes a while to find a good meet, but wow I’ve had some amazing experiences

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"There are a lot of fakes, timewasters and picture collectors. There's also a lot of amazing genuine sexy people on here. The aim of the game is to find the real ones. Going to organised socials, clubs and reading verifications can help you find people who actually exist. "

I definitely concur with this.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Been great for us, especially for meets.

What do you seek"

I think our profile write up, pics and vids lead you perfectly down that path.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though.

“I’m just getting back into the swing of it”

*stumbles off the chair…

“Did you mean to do that”

It was so funny though

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've met people, most recently last Friday. We find meeting single women fairly easy. Couples are the tricky ones to find in our experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met lots of people in many different scenarios from here. If you need advice, I would say start socially and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have some fabulous memories of meets over the years on fab.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

"Have met plenty from here, some stayed friends, others have vanished quicker than an mp claims expenses"

The size of that pole I'm suprised you've not had many more meets.....most guys who's seen your picture would be, (as I am),jealous of your size.the others haven't had the pleasure yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me it's all bark no bite on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though.

“I’m just getting back into the swing of it”

*stumbles off the chair…

“Did you mean to do that”

It was so funny though

It makes me laugh thinking about it

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

seem to me not many even read or reply to nice messages on here

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

I'd not actually thought of this before, but my successful meets here have all been the result of same-day availability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like the Truman Show, we are all actors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?"

I've met people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?

I've met people

So have I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had meets ...had a break now ready for more meets

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

We have met some lovely men on this site. Others we've met in clubs then found each other on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like the Truman Show, we are all actors

Speak for yourself I’m tranna fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet off here

Not tried clubs yet

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes... But even as a single woman, meeting single men, it can be hard work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes... But even as a single woman, meeting single men, it can be hard work! "

Is Portsmouth next to Narnia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think that my sex is as good as a show. And then the curtain falls and “Woody has left the building!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes... But even as a single woman, meeting single men, it can be hard work! "

As there's so many or ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's like the Truman Show, we are all actors

Well you know sometimes when people say there just here for this and that and people say people timewaste and some say not bad much luck that's women and couples speaking not even men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started with a few meets from here, started going to the club on bbw nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes... But even as a single woman, meeting single men, it can be hard work! "

Really..!! I always thought you lot had it easy, except for having to pick the right one/ones

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By *igSlinkyCouple
over a year ago

pontardulais

We’ve had a few meets both social and sexual and looking forward to lots more

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We've met plenty of single guys from here, though over two and a half years we reckon that the no-show rate is 50%.

We've not managed to meet any single women or couples though. Think half don't want to know because we don't full swap, and most of the other half are just so bad at communicating that it's impossible to build any kind of rapport. The few couples we've met have been from events like Swingathon and from clubs.

But we do like single guys, so we'll carry on here.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We started with a few meets from here, started going to the club on bbw nights

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By *6travellerMan
over a year ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester

"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?"

Very successful meets and lots of nice people.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never struggled but then again I don't meet many people these days x

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I have over the years. One to ones, socials and club meets. Plus keep in touch with people on here, see what events are happening and occasionally add to the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had some lovely meets and and two friends with benefits but don't meet so much now as think people go for the younger ladys now but am happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We have both had a fair few by ourselves and together though we only play together now.

Please don't take this the wrong way but if your technique isn't working then don't go about it that way. Give it a few weeks and commit to different behaviour and you'll realise what works best for you.

Clue_ moaning about other site members by name or not will not help.

Good luck.

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

We have made some great friends through this site, we have also had good times at clubs, more recently we have only met people we met through the club scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of Jackanory types but there are also many, many genuine people.

You can usually tell the former by their status'.

"That was great...you know who you are.."

"Oh wow....just had so much sex..." and they'll have no verifications or just not verified for 6 years (I'm exaggerating)

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I have met people resulting from messages as a single man and as a couple.Often the messages are follow up having first met at a social or in a club hot tub and exchanged user names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Had plenty of successful meets. The hit rate is very very low though.

By the time I’ve filtered messages I’m actually interested, wank chatters, distance issues, time wasters, diary incompatibility, sexual preferences etc, I’ll bet easily less than 1 in 100 messages turn into a social meet, which even then doesn’t guarantee I’ll play. It has improved somewhat as my sexual horizons have opened.

Like anything, it usually takes a lot of effort to make things work for you, and if it seems too good to be true, it probably is xx

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