FabSwingers.com forum: Not going to happen

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So been talking to an unverified last, seems really nice and planned to meet for coffee this morning.

Not heard from them for 24hrs now and they've not been online.

Think it might be too go to be true... See what happens in a couple of hours

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Did you arrange a time and place? There's a lot of fake profiles on here unfortunately and they get a kick out of stringing people along. Hopefully you'll get your coffee meet, if not hopefully you'll learn from it.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Did you arrange a time and place? There's a lot of fake profiles on here unfortunately and they get a kick out of stringing people along. Hopefully you'll get your coffee meet, if not hopefully you'll learn from it."

To add, be aware many fake profiles have fake verifications, experience will help you to spot them.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

That happened to me a couple of weeks ago .Agreed a social meet time and place, then nothing.

I turned up just in case and waited 30 mins over, if course no one turned up

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"So been talking to an unverified last, seems really nice and planned to meet for coffee this morning.

Not heard from them for 24hrs now and they've not been online.

Think it might be too go to be true... See what happens in a couple of hours"

How long had you been chatting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

About a week. Going to go as it's in a public place and will see

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"About a week. Going to go as it's in a public place and will see"
don't waste your time mate

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Unfortunately it’s a fact of life. Have many examples of it but it is what it is. It’s not a reflection on you pal.

Mark

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

To add, be aware many fake profiles have fake verifications, experience will help you to spot them."

We got caught by this before lockdown, turned out an enterprising young man who had started out with a genuine verification from a social somehow (suspect just pretended to be there) set up multiple female accounts, verified each other and all back to him. Goal being if you were chatting to the “woman” she would try and trade pics, then set up a meet, ask if she could bring a friend for safety and would then drop out last minute but he was still available.

Admin shutdown the whole racket thankfully, but no reason not to believe it’s still going on.

Hopefully yours is just a case of her not logging on and she’ll be waiting with a coffee for you.

L x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About a week. Going to go as it's in a public place and will see don't waste your time mate"

And if they do turn up and OP doesn't, tben he's the time waster.

Better to turn up and take a chance OP. nothing ventured nothing gained.

They could have good reason for not being on. It's the old fab roulette

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

My last two couples have disappeared after first contact was agreed.

Do hope they enjoyed the experience? luckily I'm bi and single men seem much more reliable. But really want bi mmf fun.

Rod x

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By *eachybum2020Man
over a year ago

Yelverton

I wouldn't waste any further time, text book time waster.

Loads of messages, then 24 hours before meeting they don't log on here until after the meeting time has passed.

If they were very willing to send lots of pictures without asking for them then generally a male posing as a couple or female.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you trust an unverified you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason we only chat/meet verified accounts. We’ve been messed around by well verified accounts as well but it’s a lot less likely to happen.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If they haven't been in touch on the day and have ignored messages then I cancel the meet. If they were interested they would be in touch when they don't it's usually means they are going to be a no show.

It's never done me wrong on here so far,always go with your gut.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Well OP, did they turn up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn't turn up.

The profile was

purrrrr - 47yo fem from Raunds (northamptonshire)

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

name like purrrr / 1 week old/ no photos/veris and then their actual name listed as Chick, yeah 200% that was a bellend guy on other end wanking off ...

I only meet people after i have a video chat with them, regardless if they veris or not .. everyone has a smartphone and is capable of a quick 3min vid chat. even anon with hiding number if needed ... anyone that fails to want to do this i dont waste my time on ..

Onwards Banana to the next meet

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Happened to me loads of time. You set a day and don’t hear from them again.

That’s Fab for you. It’s not going to happen. Block and move on.

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