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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agan

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who would be foolish enough to waste your time

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Unfortunately they're a consequence of Fab.

Sending hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever find out why let me know. I get let down so many times that it's a shock when they do turn up. Xx

Don't let it get to you it's not worth it. X

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I just had a lady waste my time last couple weeks so I can sympathise. Got chatting, friended and everything. I wouldn't mind if they'd changed their mind or whatever and just told me rather than just not bother their arse replying then unfriend me. Blocked them earlier today for it.

No oven no pie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agan

Why?"
truthfully, it's probably because guys are horny when they speak and make plans. That's probably the truth

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I just had a lady waste my time last couple weeks so I can sympathise. Got chatting, friended and everything. I wouldn't mind if they'd changed their mind or whatever and just told me rather than just not bother their arse replying then unfriend me. Blocked them earlier today for it.

No oven no pie "

That isn't classed as being a time waster though.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Agan

Why?"
he probably wanked then couldn't be bothered to drive

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"That isn't classed as being a time waster though. "

Well depends how you want to look at it I guess. If they weren't bothered why string me along in the first place? That's the annoying part. Guess I'm just glad it didn't get to a meet stage before it happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That isn't classed as being a time waster though.

Well depends how you want to look at it I guess. If they weren't bothered why string me along in the first place? That's the annoying part. Guess I'm just glad it didn't get to a meet stage before it happened. "
Lots of people just enjoy chatting, without any expectations of taking it further, and there is nothing wrong with that.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Who knows.

So many reasons.

Loads just want to become friends to see your private pics and had no real intention of meeting.

Some are fakes.

Some just chicken out.

Some are just talkers.

Maybe Fab need to add a premium membership option to stop timewasters.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

I’m friendly and talk to a lot of people out of politeness….. but most times a guy will start a conversation and I’m happy to chat… and then get rude when I say I’m not interested

Im Told Im rude ( and other things) if i don’t reply then told I’m a time waster for being polite…. Can’t win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m friendly and talk to a lot of people out of politeness….. but most times a guy will start a conversation and I’m happy to chat… and then get rude when I say I’m not interested

Im Told Im rude ( and other things) if i don’t reply then told I’m a time waster for being polite…. Can’t win! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agan

Why?"

What happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to why people time waste don't get why they on the site

I don't had friends till I meet people as some men just after pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If youve had your time wasted again then maybe you should look at how your vetting people

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"That isn't classed as being a time waster though.

Well depends how you want to look at it I guess. If they weren't bothered why string me along in the first place? That's the annoying part. Guess I'm just glad it didn't get to a meet stage before it happened. "

They weren’t stringing you along, just chatting with you, then decided not to take it any further. Now you claim they’re a time waster. Maybe this skewered logic is something they recognised and realised you’d never be compatible with them.

Chatting isn’t time wasting, this site is to try and match up people within the same lifestyle. To do that you have to exchange messages or even momentarily allow them to become friends. If they suddenly decide you’re not for them, then it stops they move on and you should as well.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Who knows.

So many reasons.

Loads just want to become friends to see your private pics and had no real intention of meeting.

Some are fakes.

Some just chicken out.

Some are just talkers.

Maybe Fab need to add a premium membership option to stop timewasters. "

Premium presupposes timewasters don't have money. Sadly I feel that would generate a false sense of security.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows.

So many reasons.

Loads just want to become friends to see your private pics and had no real intention of meeting.

Some are fakes.

Some just chicken out.

Some are just talkers.

Maybe Fab need to add a premium membership option to stop timewasters. "

Trouble is, time wasters have money too, and you run the risk of ruling out genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That isn't classed as being a time waster though.

Well depends how you want to look at it I guess. If they weren't bothered why string me along in the first place? That's the annoying part. Guess I'm just glad it didn't get to a meet stage before it happened.

They weren’t stringing you along, just chatting with you, then decided not to take it any further. Now you claim they’re a time waster. Maybe this skewered logic is something they recognised and realised you’d never be compatible with them.

Chatting isn’t time wasting, this site is to try and match up people within the same lifestyle. To do that you have to exchange messages or even momentarily allow them to become friends. If they suddenly decide you’re not for them, then it stops they move on and you should as well. "

This

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Who knows.

So many reasons.

Loads just want to become friends to see your private pics and had no real intention of meeting.

Some are fakes.

Some just chicken out.

Some are just talkers.

Maybe Fab need to add a premium membership option to stop timewasters. "

"Some chicken out." I think with men that is the main reason. They give the big build up. They say "I am like the Duracell bunny, 9.5" super hard thick cock. Expert at sex. Your mind will be blown" Then when their bluff is called they run a mile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agan

Why?"

Don’t forget to check people feedback! If they have no meeting then take caution! To me it’s really rude and really does piss me off when you have time wasters or fantasists that talk shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to play with a girl from here she could accommodate and always provided condoms was very clean so just had to turn up fuck her and go, she loved being a slut and wanted as many cocks as possible but she would only get 1-3 guys a night. Now she has become an escort and charges for what she used to do for free and she meets so many paying guys it’s unreal that just shows how many timewasters are on here.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Agan

Why?"

This site has certainly gone downhill since first joining some 8 years ago. Even if being incredibly careful to out fakes, pic collectors, weirdos and timewasters there are always a few who manage to get through. Be careful m'lady, genuine folk have traits including no secret other life and no rush to meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people with verifications tend to be timewasters as I hear mixed things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people with verifications tend to be timewasters as I hear mixed things?"

Yes it means nothing

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By *ig_Wam_BamCouple
over a year ago

Wigan

Lots of them about

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Do people with verifications tend to be timewasters as I hear mixed things?"

Not necessarily but yes it happens in our experience. It is an indicator of being genuine, but only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasting PC wankers are ruining this site.

My experience is when the chat stop and the excuses start they have finished waniking I've never been messed about when I am meeting women.

Happy hunting and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to play with a girl from here she could accommodate and always provided condoms was very clean so just had to turn up fuck her and go, she loved being a slut and wanted as many cocks as possible but she would only get 1-3 guys a night. Now she has become an escort and charges for what she used to do for free and she meets so many paying guys it’s unreal that just shows how many timewasters are on here."

How does being an escort have anything at all to do with timewasters on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If youve had your time wasted again then maybe you should look at how your vetting people"

Totally this x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Who knows.

So many reasons.

Loads just want to become friends to see your private pics and had no real intention of meeting.

Some are fakes.

Some just chicken out.

Some are just talkers.

Maybe Fab need to add a premium membership option to stop timewasters.

"Some chicken out." I think with men that is the main reason. They give the big build up. They say "I am like the Duracell bunny, 9.5" super hard thick cock. Expert at sex. Your mind will be blown" Then when their bluff is called they run a mile. "

Or they have a tactical just before the meet and then lose interest.

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