FabSwingers.com forum: A bad idea?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we have had a few social meets where the people we met were nice and great to get along with but the chemistry/attraction wasn't there for us. This has been helping to build up to when we do find someone we click with but i suggested maybe we could blindfold her, so she could just enjoy it without seeing either of us. we both laughed while it was clear she was toying with the idea but in the end we both agreed it's probably a bad idea. To get to the point we now have some morbid curiosity to see if anyone else has this idea or has followed through on it?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I wouldn't fuck anyone who if there was no chemistry between us being blindfolded would make zero difference to me .I don't see the point and I know I would regret it afterwards.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Yes I've been blindfolded in a club and had an amazing time but the situation was controlled by my partner so I was very relaxed about it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope couldn't do it but fair play to the ones who do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did it in a club but had seen the person beforehand.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not for me

I like to know and have attraction and a connection or I wouldn't be able to play .

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

" i suggested maybe we could blindfold her, so she could just enjoy it without seeing either of us."

Instead of making the other person wear a blindfold you could always just wear a balaclava each?

Or a maccies bag with eyeholes cut out.

Would mean they wouldn't have to wear anything if they didn't want to and they still couldn't see you.

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been blindfolded for a meet really enjoyed and was definitely attracted to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think what simgle women seek and what couples seek sometimes are miles apart and i totally understand because if i was single id play alot differently so im glad im a couple as things like safety and other thing are not quite as important as if single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if it’s for nerves I see your reasoning and being blindfolded is very arousing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and we had lots of meets over the years where we've known someone for less than an hour on line and met and had fantastic times sometime attraction is all thats needed for fun ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"we have had a few social meets where the people we met were nice and great to get along with but the chemistry/attraction wasn't there for us. This has been helping to build up to when we do find someone we click with but i suggested maybe we could blindfold her, so she could just enjoy it without seeing either of us. we both laughed while it was clear she was toying with the idea but in the end we both agreed it's probably a bad idea. To get to the point we now have some morbid curiosity to see if anyone else has this idea or has followed through on it?"

Have I ever thought that the solution to not being attracted to people was to be blindfolded and fuck them anyway? No, never, I personally consider it a very bad idea. However, if the thought of it does something for you that's a different story.

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