FabSwingers.com forum: Falling for someone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone ever gotten into a regular situation with someone on here where they've fallen for them?

Its only happened to me once but thank fully it was mutual and we did end up in a relationship, which, although it ended badly I'm very happy it happened (restored my faith in men which has gone out the window again since)

I've met 2 younger guys on here who have both fallen for me, which was not reciprocated and both turned very awkward very quickly and I ended up having to block them from being able to contact me again.

Would love to hear some stories from other regardless of whether they had a happy or not so happy endin

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes. We're getting married in three months

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. We're getting married in three months

LvM"

Awww no way, you guys met on here!

That's so cute

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

A guy we used to meet regularly started getting a little too close to me in terms of emotions and started suggesting 121 meets without hubby's knowledge, I had to stop seeing him as it made me very uncomfortable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9/10 of my meets are on offs. It keeps it simple. I can stay detached but I've come close to have FWB in the past were it was getting "too comfortable" xx

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

"Yes. We're getting married in three months

LvM"

congrats you beautiful pair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did we ended up together for a few years

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes, we ended up together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy was fallen for the wife . Had to take a wee step back lol . But spose it’s natural in a sense .

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Yes. Fell for a married woman and utterly was reciprocated. She did end up leaving him but I think it was more a combination of her being unhappy with him as much as the feelings between ourselves.

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

Through Fab in a round about way. We were both at a party advertised on here but we'd never seen each others profile or had any form of contact.

She went on her own, I went with a couple who are really close friends.

We got talking and have now been together for just under 10 years. She really is the love of my life

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Yes. We're getting married in three months

LvM

congrats you beautiful pair"

Thanks gorgeous

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happen once on here.. she started getting far too serious, calling and texting all the time, in the end I had to call it a day.. shame because i actually liked her but a relationship was not what i wanted or needed.

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By *cottish-guy2020Man
over a year ago

bathgate

Yep happened to me I meet a couple and the hubby would join in with us but she started calling and texting to much when he was not there as I have a bigger cock then him just got to much she now wants me to move to Blackpool as she’s left him now

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

It does appear from this thread that the female of the couple is more likely to fall for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. We're getting married in three months

LvM"

Amazing news, congratulations

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yep. We've been together for a fair few years now and are engaged, even after I had a strict stance on not falling for anyone and never getting engaged.

I don't think falling for someone necessarily is a bad thing. It's an experience, you learn from things. I'm embracing my poly nature, not shying away from it. Feelings can be wonderful, powerful things and even if things don't last (because few dynamics are for life), you still had that time together. I'm quite enjoying having growing feelings for someone else, no idea how I'm putting up with him though.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Friendships, yes. Anything more, no.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"It does appear from this thread that the female of the couple is more likely to fall for someone else. "

That's probably because the guys can't get a woman to meet them on their own

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I met my partner here 6.5 years ago ,we have a joint profile too

I wasn't after anything more than fun,sometimes it just happens.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met on here.

Nearly 4 years we’ve been together.

Couldn’t be happier.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Yes. Begun poly relationships with others when feelings developed x

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns

I think as with most things in life communication is key; if you’re going to start up a FWB-type arrangement then boundaries should be discussed (along with a frank discussion of what happens should one of you develop feelings)

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yes. We're getting married in three months

LvM"

Congrats

Almost 7 years for us now.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

"Yes. We're getting married in three months

LvM"

Congratulations you guys. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we are now a couple

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