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How do I introduce my gf into swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on fab for a while now met a few m/f on here it's great for discreet fun and how do I get my gf involved without her thinking its weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her to a club I'd say xx

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By *ubandsubCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"I've been on fab for a while now met a few m/f on here it's great for discreet fun and how do I get my gf involved without her thinking its weird "

Have a few drinks play spin the bottle and ask her what you want to know, inhibitions will be lower if she interested bring it up again when sober, if shes not you can blame the beer.

Or you can just have an adult conversation about sex, your likes and dislikes. I like seeing littlemisssub with other people, she likes to surrender control to me.

Ultimately be adult about it and have a long discussion about the pros and cons.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

my husband told me during sex that we would love to see me with another man, kinda shocked me at the time and we started to talk more dirty about other guys with me. Took a while but we finally took the leap and haven't look back since

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By *ubandsubCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"my husband told me during sex that we would love to see me with another man, kinda shocked me at the time and we started to talk more dirty about other guys with me. Took a while but we finally took the leap and haven't look back since"

Yeah sex talk and telling each other your fantasies is a great way to find what each of you like.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton


"my husband told me during sex that we would love to see me with another man, kinda shocked me at the time and we started to talk more dirty about other guys with me. Took a while but we finally took the leap and haven't look back since

Yeah sex talk and telling each other your fantasies is a great way to find what each of you like. "

worked wonders for us, it's a great way to let out your fantasies

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I've been on fab for a while now met a few m/f on here it's great for discreet fun and how do I get my gf involved without her thinking its weird "

Show her your fab profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on fab for a while now met a few m/f on here it's great for discreet fun and how do I get my gf involved without her thinking its weird "

Why do you want her to swing? She might find someone she likes more and leave you for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on fab for a while now met a few m/f on here it's great for discreet fun and how do I get my gf involved without her thinking its weird

Why do you want her to swing? She might find someone she likes more and leave you for him. "

This

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here


"I've been on fab for a while now met a few m/f on here it's great for discreet fun and how do I get my gf involved without her thinking its weird

Why do you want her to swing? She might find someone she likes more and leave you for him. "

That would be a very fragile relationship then wouldn't it. Plenty of couples on here who swing together. I mean isn't that the whole point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on fab for a while now met a few m/f on here it's great for discreet fun and how do I get my gf involved without her thinking its weird

Why do you want her to swing? She might find someone she likes more and leave you for him.

That would be a very fragile relationship then wouldn't it. Plenty of couples on here who swing together. I mean isn't that the whole point "

Would a fragile relationship be described as where one partner is already discreetly fucking around?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you want to play the long game of the short game?

Long game = work on your emotional and sexual communication, develop a relationship where both of you can express fantasies without judgement, make it so that it's easy for both of you to reject an idea without the other getting annoyed and you both feel loved and accepted.

Short game = you ask her and she says yes or no.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago


"Do you want to play the long game of the short game?

Long game = work on your emotional and sexual communication, develop a relationship where both of you can express fantasies without judgement, make it so that it's easy for both of you to reject an idea without the other getting annoyed and you both feel loved and accepted.

Short game = you ask her and she says yes or no."

Couldn't have said it better

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Ask her. "

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Just ask her, but before you do figure out your next move if she says it's not for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble is what if she sayes yes. You open up a couples profile and all that recognise you say hi. If she doesnt know your on here now she sure will then.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Tell her you've been going behind her back on a swingers site. Show her your profile and ask if she fancies joining you... Let us all know when you get out of hospital

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on fab for a while now met a few m/f on here it's great for discreet fun and how do I get my gf involved without her thinking its weird

Why do you want her to swing? She might find someone she likes more and leave you for him. "

Specially when realises how much she likes it and how she's been missing out because he started without her.

Winston

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