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Couples: who does the majority of the messaging?

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By *ammo89 OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Are couples oh fab mostly run by guys or does the woman do the looking to see what she likes?

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By *uriousirish7Man
over a year ago

cork

I’d say they are ran jointly and would have equal say on who joins them I reckon

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By *obody1234Couple
over a year ago

Newport

99% of time we on together x

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

I basically read and post messages on fab but hubby reads them later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% me doing the responding

Sometimes I’ll leave for him to respond

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Most of the time it’s me on here. Mr does check in from time to time and we’ll look together sometimes, or if we’re playing on cam he’ll browse around. Otherwise I just show him interesting people and pics or any hot messages we’ve got. L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time it’s me on here. Mr does check in from time to time and we’ll look together sometimes, or if we’re playing on cam he’ll browse around. Otherwise I just show him interesting people and pics or any hot messages we’ve got. L x "

This is us as well but it’s the other way around.

For instance… we’re having morning tea in bed together and I’ve just shown Henriette the interesting people and pics in the profile above.

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

We are both quite active on here, if someone or a couple look interesting then we have a look and chat together before messaging.

If we get a message and whoever opens it thinks no then there is no need for discussion.

Forums always me (Mrs)

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think you can tell when posts and messages are written in the male voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He reads, I message x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm generally the most active on our profile but K does log in to read the forums, messages, and have a perv herself. She does sometimes brave sending a message or making a forum post but for the most part it's me until there's a rapport going with whoever we're talking to.

LvM

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

I would say its mostly me although hubby does like to browse in the evenings whilst laying in bed..... entertainment levels can be quite high xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mr) do all the messaging and forum posts. Mrs has no interest in being on fab. She just looks at the pictures of any potential meets and trusts my judgement.

This is probably why clubs work best for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Mrs does the majority of the "fabmin" as we call it.

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By *hunky fun 6969Couple
over a year ago

near you

Most female part on ours xxx

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

most of time its mr as wife gets put off with hi want suck my cock messengers if then i talking with a nice guy then wife will chat too

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

We are both on here often but I (mrs) usually respond to messages. Once I’ve been chatting with someone a while, Mr will usually send them a message introducing himself but he mostly just leaves me to get on with it and making arrangements. X

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I (he) do all things fab, meets is where her interests lie.

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By *irtybdirtygCouple
over a year ago

Oswestry

We both see our messages and G (f) does most of the replies, B does the forums.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

It’s me, Mrs. I don’t let Mr make any important decisions . He dips in & out of Fab for a perv & that’s it.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I, Mr, do the majority. She just checks in occasionally or if I tell her there's a person of interest to look at.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Could be either of us or we are answering together but we always leaves messages for the other to read.

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Both read and reply to messages etc. Final decision to meet normally with f but both must be happy

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By *ARKblondeCouple
over a year ago

london

I've actually researched this and it's 35% Male, 25% Female, 20% Both and 20% a guy posing as a couple....

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop


"I, Mr, do the majority. She just checks in occasionally or if I tell her there's a person of interest to look at. "
same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interestingly, most of the replies in this thread suggest its the female half, but id say 95% of the messages I get from couples come from the guys lol

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"I, Mr, do the majority. She just checks in occasionally or if I tell her there's a person of interest to look at. "

Same for us, I try and filter out time wasters and pic collectors. If anyone wants to message Mrs then they just have to put that in the message and I’ll leave it for her to reply

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

50/50 here.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

We both use forums and jack will show me a profile if he thinks I'd like it .

It's mostly Jack who fabs pics though on our joint profile ,as often there's much more pics of a lady than the man of the couple.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

It's mostly me (the Mrs). Hubby will be on looking at who I'm talking to and what I'm posting

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

pretty much more than 3/4 of couples I spoke to over the last 10 years on here, its been the male half initially / texting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr tends to do the online side of things.

Obviously Mrs has the final say.

It gets too overwhelming for Mrs to be reading all the messages etc, Mr has far more patience in this respect

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's usually me Mrs N

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By *plofsinnersCouple
over a year ago

Haddington

We both chat on fab. Michelle likes to update status and post in forum

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I we both use fab a lot but generally Trev is just perving

Where as I send and respond to messages, use chat and forums and update status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always me that replies to messages (female) hubby just reads them. Decisions on who we meet are usually made jointly

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

It maybe me on here but we both chat and look at any messages and decide as a couple how to respond.

So the answer is both of us.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We are both equally as active.If I read a message from a couple that I like I will leave it unread and add them to our hotlist to see if my husband agrees .Once we start messaging people we always let them know which one of us their chatting to ..

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By *angerousLiaisonsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

Male half here: our dynamic is very much D/s and we are only looking for girls to join us.

I also love taking pictures and recording us fucking because I love showing off how hot my missus is.

We’ll look at our profile and the messages together if anything that I think she might like pops up.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands


"I (Mr) do all the messaging and forum posts. Mrs has no interest in being on fab. She just looks at the pictures of any potential meets and trusts my judgement.

This is probably why clubs work best for us."

Same here

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

On my couples account my husband probably looks more and suggests people but it's me that will message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both from us. I respond to those I already know from my old singles account or to those I'm very interested in otherwise I leave it to him and then go through them later.

Tends to be me on the forums though

M

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Normally its 100% Mike, however, Jeni will be the one responding tonight.

We are new to the swinging world, so this is her fist step if you like.

So if the message is deleted without responding you have her to blame!

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

On our couples account it’s pretty even with me and the other half

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By *issA_MrMMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Both equally active on ours. A x

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Mr 100% of the time to filter the messages and anything of interest is then shared with Mrs Skyblue.

Obviously any actions thereafter are a joint decision.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Normally its 100% Mike, however, Jeni will be the one responding tonight.

We are new to the swinging world, so this is her fist step if you like.

So if the message is deleted without responding you have her to blame! "

Wow! You did her like that. Noted.

I like your style

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Wife isn't a fan of talking on tech. Preffers face to face so odds are, it's me (male) doing the messaging.

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By *9naughtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

torbay

Both

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Me the female

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Both , but mrs cams too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me! - L xx

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We both have input generally and normally sign with D or T at the end to indicate which one of us has typed reply but nothing is sent without the others knowledge xT

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We both browse separately and together although it is generally me (Gemma) who does most of the messaging. Alex will answer messages on occasion and will chat with guys we have a good connection with. He will also show me profiles which he’s thinks will be of interest but the decision on whether to take thing forward is ultimately up to me.

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