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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today? Some men can't ever read, and if they can they don't care what the other person wants.

Maybe your profile pic is making them hard. Take it as a compliment. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Today? Some men can't ever read, and if they can they don't care what the other person wants.

Maybe your profile pic is making them hard. Take it as a compliment. X

Haha that’s a good way to make it positive I guess.

Shame really as the men to women ratio is much larger and it spoils the experience for everyone.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today? "

Just block single men on the filters. Simple’s. Otherwise nothing will change for you dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pahaha, I get it on a daily basis. I have men blocked, have it stated on my profile I'm not interested in encounters with single/lone men, instantly block as soon as they FAB or wink, but they still don't get the message. Had one pest contact me on 4 different accounts, as if the last 3 I blocked him on wasn't enough of a hint!

God knows how the women on this site cope lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good lord and I thought I had it bad.

I purposely don’t use filters as I know some people are here for just a perv and I don’t mind that as gives me a confidence boost.

But christ! I agree with how women or couples deal with this madness.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Block men from messaging

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Today? Some men can't ever read, and if they can they don't care what the other person wants.

Maybe your profile pic is making them hard. Take it as a compliment. X

I have blocked men, but when one looks and fabs a pic of mi e, I take it as the compliment it was intended as.

Suggest you do the same

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"Block men from messaging"

^ It is really this simple.

Otherwise the whole universe of bi/gay/curious men on this site may probably message. Unless you like the thought of that is, then there isn’t much to complain about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know you want to look at my winky

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By *ofbefMan
over a year ago

Fife

I get those offers all the time. With men making ridiculous propositions. Just annoying.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"I get those offers all the time. With men making ridiculous propositions. Just annoying. "

Lol it’s really simple to view your message filters and just block message from single men. They won’t be able to wink either, job done.

Only thing they can do then is just fab your pic. Then you can block individual profiles if you want to.

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By *ecentbiblokeMan
over a year ago

Fife and Perthshire

As a bi guy, i will fab/wink anything that i find attractive. Doesnt mean that i expect a response or a meet but just that i like what I see. Is a compliment only.

I imagine as a straight guy, you fab/wink lots of women with exactly the same expectation?

Lots of straight guys surprise me by winking/fabbing back so you can see why the lines get blurred.

Thats why the block/private functions are there.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today? "

You ok hun ? Xx

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By *eguyukMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im bi but dont bother men if they are not looking for men in the same way if i look at a woman id not bother them if they aint looking for men. I may fab a photo or two though but thats just meant as a compliment as I liked the photo. Dont mean any offence by that but id not usually wink or message unless they make the 1st move

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im bi but dont bother men if they are not looking for men in the same way if i look at a woman id not bother them if they aint looking for men. I may fab a photo or two though but thats just meant as a compliment as I liked the photo. Dont mean any offence by that but id not usually wink or message unless they make the 1st move "

This!!! This is exactly how it should be done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today? Some men can't ever read, and if they can they don't care what the other person wants.

Maybe your profile pic is making them hard. Take it as a compliment. X

Seeking attention maybe

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Good lord and I thought I had it bad.

I purposely don’t use filters as I know some people are here for just a perv and I don’t mind that as gives me a confidence boost.

But christ! I agree with how women or couples deal with this madness. "

By filters ,well I do .it reduces the numbers of messages .

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

This!!! This is exactly how it should be done!

Maybe say that so they are clear but blocking men might be the easiest way. If you then want to meet other bi/gay men you can initiate the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *willMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today? "
your attitude explains why you haven’t met anyone in your 8 months on here , take it as a compliment as it is intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, seeing as you so eloquently suggested, I read the profile. And it gives of a whole bunch of mixed signals.

So I suggest you look at it from a bisexual/gay man’s perspective and chill ya beans. Or re-write the thing!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today? "

If it bothered you that much just block men it’s not hard is it

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"Actually, seeing as you so eloquently suggested, I read the profile. And it gives of a whole bunch of mixed signals.

So I suggest you look at it from a bisexual/gay man’s perspective and chill ya beans. Or re-write the thing! "
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Actually I’ve read it now also. I think it also gives off mixed messages.

So are you straight or bi-curious? You mention both…..in different places, so you got to decide dude…

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Your bio says you both bi curious and straight. Which is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your filters?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today? "

Lovely post, ever though of blocking single men

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’d be flattered. I’m straight, but a compliment is a compliment.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

NPTWL

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By *ingerpuppetMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

What a wanker

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not just today….and not just straight men. Daily occurrence. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today? "

Ha been bombarded by so called straight guys have you !!

Take a look at a TV or ts profile n look at there verifications .. there all straight guys but have met with a trans ... how on earth are they straight ffs .. saying that it better than the stunning 24 year old female we went to meet ..... she turned out to be a 50 year old guy wi a big huge chin.. a tell ya we went amused ..

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By *eguyukMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Cant lie mate I did fab some of ya pics but av not bothered ya I can read lol

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Cant lie mate I did fab some of ya pics but av not bothered ya I can read lol"

Go on. Send him a cheeky dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry lad you can't catch "the gayness" from a message, just think how women feel when their inboxes are crammed full of unimaginative yarns and dick pics...

Get ya big boy pants pulled up...

No thanks

delete & move on

Use the filters

Easier than getting so vexxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your bio says you both bi curious and straight. Which is it?"

Your breasts look absolutely divine!!!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My profile states quite clearly bi guys only, still get messages off straight guys.

Could be worse, one or two are quite cute

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today?

Ha been bombarded by so called straight guys have you !!

Two things;

A trans is grammatically wrong. The correct grammar is a trans person. Trans in this context is used as an adjective, to describe their gender identity.

There are trans people, just like there are stupid people.

Point two, are you implying that a straight guy who has sex with a trans woman is not straight?

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today? "

Haha

Ignore/delete/block/filter out - so many options on this site to deal with unwanted massages. Why do you need to shout about it on forum and in your status? It’s like inviting even more to look at your profile and message you more lol

And quick glance at you profile shows:

- recently bi-curious so bottom only, I’ll fuck you or you can suck me only.

This is the straightest of the straight

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Having read your profile, it would seem you only have yourself to blame ..

I bet if and when you have sex with men,and cum you feel disgusted with yourself...until the desire returns..

How many times I have heard the line; I wont do that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today?

Ha been bombarded by so called straight guys have you !!

Two things;

A trans is grammatically wrong. The correct grammar is a trans person. Trans in this context is used as an adjective, to describe their gender identity.

There are trans people, just like there are stupid people.

Point two, are you implying that a straight guy who has sex with a trans woman is not straight?

POINT ONE .. in my opinion a guy who is dressing a a female is trans .. forget the person bit .. political correct rubbish .. who makes all this shite up is beyond me ..

POINT TWO.. yes a guy who fucks .. sucks .. wanks ..or what ever sexual fun he has with a trans is in my opinion bi .. curious or gay .

Were all entitled to our opinion and your 101% correct they are stupid people around . Have a good day Karen

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today?

Ha been bombarded by so called straight guys have you !!

Two things;

A trans is grammatically wrong. The correct grammar is a trans person. Trans in this context is used as an adjective, to describe their gender identity.

There are trans people, just like there are stupid people.

Point two, are you implying that a straight guy who has sex with a trans woman is not straight?

POINT ONE .. in my opinion a guy who is dressing a a female is trans .. forget the person bit .. political correct rubbish .. who makes all this shite up is beyond me ..

POINT TWO.. yes a guy who fucks .. sucks .. wanks ..or what ever sexual fun he has with a trans is in my opinion bi .. curious or gay .

Were all entitled to our opinion and your 101% correct they are stupid people around . Have a good day Karen

Everyone’s entitled to their opinion, but someone a man isn’t allowed an opinion ON HIS OWN SEXUALITY?

Your logic is fascinating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have single males blocked from messaging then they

A) Can’t make contact

B) Can’t wink

C) Won’t show up on ‘who’s looked at me’

So I don’t understand why a lot of the guys on this thread are still saying it’s happening

If you’re getting stressed about other guys fabbing your pics…. chill out. It’s hardly the end of the world! We fab pics regardless of gender or whether they’re looking for a couple like ourselves. Take it as a compliment.

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an experiment I unblocked single men and have had a couple of messages. Ladies, I totally get it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m bi but I’m only really into meeting couples so I have single men blocked. Works just fine for me. Amazing how many straight men like pictures of my arse or cock though

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today?

Ha been bombarded by so called straight guys have you !!

Two things;

A trans is grammatically wrong. The correct grammar is a trans person. Trans in this context is used as an adjective, to describe their gender identity.

There are trans people, just like there are stupid people.

Point two, are you implying that a straight guy who has sex with a trans woman is not straight?

POINT ONE .. in my opinion a guy who is dressing a a female is trans .. forget the person bit .. political correct rubbish .. who makes all this shite up is beyond me ..

POINT TWO.. yes a guy who fucks .. sucks .. wanks ..or what ever sexual fun he has with a trans is in my opinion bi .. curious or gay .

Were all entitled to our opinion and your 101% correct they are stupid people around . Have a good day Karen

Point A - It’s not politically correct, it’s grammatically correct. You’re mixing up language and politics. Which in this context is completely irrelevant. When you say a trans, you sound like a muppet.

Now, onto point B

Your concept of what makes someone bi or gay or straight is just lazy. As children we are taught that there are day and night and as we grow up our perception of the world changes to include midday or midnight or afternoon. The same concept applies here.

Except, when you chose out of laziness to disregard who I am, you’re not the one who get’s inconvenienced, I am, you reinforce the idea that sleeping with me is wrong or gay or any kind of tabo. I’m a person not an object, considering you’re on a site which should be about sex positivity, you’re incredibly narrow minded.

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today?

Ha been bombarded by so called straight guys have you !!

Two things;

A trans is grammatically wrong. The correct grammar is a trans person. Trans in this context is used as an adjective, to describe their gender identity.

There are trans people, just like there are stupid people.

Point two, are you implying that a straight guy who has sex with a trans woman is not straight?

PS. looking at your profile you state your a 26 year old preop straight guy .. who's looking for men ????? How does one work that out . I'd love to hear that please.

I'm straight but if I was looking for TVs ts or guys I'd put down I was curious or bi .. take care Tracey

Again, here we go. I am a straight woman, who happens to be a trans woman, which means I was born a male. I live as a woman, which makes me straight as I’m attracted to masculinity.

I’m not looking for tv’s or ts’s who’re trans feminine.

I’m attempting to be nice but your whiny transphobia not withstanding is making it difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today? "

I’ve experienced this also. Changed my filters in the end

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By *SYDirtySecretMan
over a year ago

St Helier

Another post hating single and straight men! It's a shame.

We don't know why people have certain things on their profile and why they say other things. Everyone is exploring and changing. Some feel embarrassed or shame. But unless they are aggressive then it's a compliment really

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By *napppaMan
over a year ago

London

Literally no one can read your profile, it's hidden!

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

"What fucking rock did some guys crawl out off today!?

Anyone else getting bombarded by men who can’t read profiles today?

Ha been bombarded by so called straight guys have you !!

Two things;

A trans is grammatically wrong. The correct grammar is a trans person. Trans in this context is used as an adjective, to describe their gender identity.

There are trans people, just like there are stupid people.

Point two, are you implying that a straight guy who has sex with a trans woman is not straight?

PS. looking at your profile you state your a 26 year old preop straight guy .. who's looking for men ????? How does one work that out . I'd love to hear that please.

I'm straight but if I was looking for TVs ts or guys I'd put down I was curious or bi .. take care Tracey

Again, here we go. I am a straight woman, who happens to be a trans woman, which means I was born a male. I live as a woman, which makes me straight as I’m attracted to masculinity.

I’m not looking for tv’s or ts’s who’re trans feminine.

I’m attempting to be nice but your whiny transphobia not withstanding is making it difficult."

Exactly. Many people who are attracted to transwomen are bisexual, but ultimately if a man is attracted only to cis-WOMEN and trans-WOMEN and has no interest at all in those identifying as male, then “straight” would seem a perfectly reasonable description.

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