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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we will always have safe sex if somebody is joing us although most times when we have a male etc we tell them that there will be no oral as clare doesnt like sucking condoms.

does anybody else ask single males to wear condoms when having oral sex??

would this put single guys off??

we are just unsure how safe oral sex is with a condom??..sounds mad but its how we feel

any commenst welcome

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There is an element of risk with any sexual activity with someone outside of your relationship. Condoms REDUCE the risk but do not eliminate it, always best to remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you ask them to wear gloves when playing with you? you can catch things on your tounges or fingers etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont ask men to wear them for oral, i feel the risk is low enough to do that although i would never have full sex that way. you do what you can to balance having fun with the risks and unfortuatly there will always be risks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as safe sex just less risky sex

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

You can contract gonorrhoea in your throat from an infected cock during oral ... and then pass that onto an uninfected cock via the same activity. So no, it's not safe but the risk is probably fairly low. Taking that into consideration, it's entirely up to the individual how much risk they're personally prepared to take and what steps to take to minimise or eliminate that risk.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

OP do you meet couples?

Does the male half perform oral on the other female?

IF men are put off by your request, they not worth you meeting them....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

OP do you meet couples?

Does the male half perform oral on the other female?

IF men are put off by your request, they not worth you meeting them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP do you meet couples?

Does the male half perform oral on the other female?

IF men are put off by your request, they not worth you meeting them...."

i would be put off by meeting a guy who told me he wasnt giving me oral

if a guy wants to just stick a condom on and fuck without giving me any forplay he can go pay by the hour, so why cant men feel the same about women who offer this?

i think it would be totally reasonable for anyone to refuse a meet if they was told they was only getting a fuck and that dont mean just because they dont want clinical sex they arnt worth meeting, not everyone can do just put a condom on and fuck some actually like the build up

id like to know if the OP allows men to lick her?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

But oral sex isn't the only form of foreplay is it?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"OP do you meet couples?

Does the male half perform oral on the other female?

IF men are put off by your request, they not worth you meeting them....

i would be put off by meeting a guy who told me he wasnt giving me oral

if a guy wants to just stick a condom on and fuck without giving me any forplay he can go pay by the hour, so why cant men feel the same about women who offer this?

i think it would be totally reasonable for anyone to refuse a meet if they was told they was only getting a fuck and that dont mean just because they dont want clinical sex they arnt worth meeting, not everyone can do just put a condom on and fuck some actually like the build up

id like to know if the OP allows men to lick her?"

Didnt say it would be unreasonable, but for the OP it wouldnt be worth meeting someone who didnt want to do things their way....We all have our boundaries and meeting someone who thought differently wouldnt make for a comfortable meet....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We ask guys to use a condom for oral and no one has ever refused. This lifestyle is about choice we are all entitled to it no matter how irrational it seems to other people. Chat to people before you meet them get and give all the information you both need and you can all make your choice from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But oral sex isn't the only form of foreplay is it?"

no but lets be honest its the best part

infact to me oral is just the best part of sex full stop so without it i just wouldnt enjoy sex

i couldnt imagine meeting a guy and not sucking his cock

i guess we are all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But oral sex isn't the only form of foreplay is it?

no but lets be honest its the best part

infact to me oral is just the best part of sex full stop so without it i just wouldnt enjoy sex

i couldnt imagine meeting a guy and not sucking his cock

i guess we are all different "

am dentaldammin ur fandan

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"But oral sex isn't the only form of foreplay is it?

no but lets be honest its the best part

infact to me oral is just the best part of sex full stop so without it i just wouldnt enjoy sex

i couldnt imagine meeting a guy and not sucking his cock

i guess we are all different "

It's the best part for lots of people but not all. We are all different that's what's so great about it all

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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I would have no problem if a lady asked me to use a condom for oral, infact I would prefer to just be safe.

It might not feel the same but least it reduces the risks a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HPV virus can be spread via oral sex. Just a point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all the replies, we like to keep oral sex to ourselves.

clare will suck cock, sometimes without condom in heat of momemt but most times she asks male to waer condom. clare also only likes me licking her, its her preference.

myself, i dont lick ladies as clare requests i dont do it which is fine. i also offer to wear a condom for oral too. some prefer it some dont.

some great reply as it just goes to show some of the differences that ppl do on here

c and d x

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