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By *omptation OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

How many women enjoy being a slut?

I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?

Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!

I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.

I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available

So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the bedroom yeah but if someone shouted it at me in Tescos, I might have an issue.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"In the bedroom yeah but if someone shouted it at me in Tescos, I might have an issue."

Damn, I need to reschedule then!

C

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I enjoy sex especially with the right person it's amazing.

The sight of hard dicks of people I don't know or want to have sex with does not turn me on if it did I'd be fucking all of fab. The site of my fwbs one well that's a different matter .

I'm not a slut tho I hate the word, as far as I'm concerned it always has negative connotations.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Can a woman just enjoy sex without being thought of as a slut?

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By *ingle_docMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"I'm not a slut tho I hate the word, as far as I'm concerned it always has negative connotations. "

Some people like to feel like a slut sometimes, some people want to fuck someone slutty, but I agree it’s generally not a term of endearment.

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By *omptation OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"I'm not a slut tho I hate the word, as far as I'm concerned it always has negative connotations.

Some people like to feel like a slut sometimes, some people want to fuck someone slutty, but I agree it’s generally not a term of endearment."

Hence why I said for lack of a better term.

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By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield

Been a slut since found out about sex, don't bother me if called it, find it empowers me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the bedroom yeah but if someone shouted it at me in Tescos, I might have an issue."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been very sexual and enjoy having plentiful and different sexual experiences, which usually involves having sex with lots of different people. I just love sex. I've been called a slut most of my life, I don't mind, I'm perfectly comfortable being one. Xx

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I have been in those places before. It manifests in total focus for one person though and it's part of my submissive mindset.

Wouldn't call it "being a slut" but like you, also don't know exactly what I'd call it.

P

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We both love being called sluts, and we’ve met numerous women who feel the same way. It’s an empowering word for us, about feeling free in the bedroom to revel in sexuality, and delight in behaviour that many people would fund shameful.

But like most words that are exciting to play with their power in the bedroom, if it’s being used as an insult, then it’s just an insult.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reading quietly

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Yes scouse absolutely loves being a slut. No negative connotations here

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria

Ooh yes

Mrs P loves being a slut every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word "

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

For want of a better word, it sums me up, in the right circumstances, hence my username - which I've had almost 15 years, despite many thoughts on changing it. I have no shame in being a bit wild and greedy but am selective.

I'm off to the gym shortly and some of the guys will pick up on my hunger. I'm not a prick-tease, as many of them have ready access to fuck me.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. "

I was just about to comment similar-it definitely feels like an insult to me- there's a few words to describe women who enjoy a freer sex life that I find derogatory, but none for men.

The sight of an erect penis doesn't necessarily have me desperate for more, but there are other sensory things that might make my pulse quicken a bit- such as scent or eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to be called it

But they a time and a place

Ie during the act and after the act till they leave yes

In a message or the street or something no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A term used so often on here, yet it used to be reserved for the bedroom

I guess we all have a bit of slut in us, its just how that is brought out

I am bisexual, so get to enjoy a mix of scenarios

J xx

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By *omptation OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Love to be called it

But they a time and a place

Ie during the act and after the act till they leave yes

In a message or the street or something no "

Absolutely agree, not a term I would use generally

But then I've had women ask me to call them a slut while I've been fucking them, so it's a really unusual, context based term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Vixen is a better term for a lady who enjoys sex, if a lady’s into being humiliated then Slut may do it for them but as others have said it may be an age thing.

But as always each to their own and as long as no one’s offended then it’s all good

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"I think Vixen is a better term for a lady who enjoys sex, if a lady’s into being humiliated then Slut may do it for them but as others have said it may be an age thing.

But as always each to their own and as long as no one’s offended then it’s all good"

When I hear the vixens getting pounded by the dog foxes in the middle of the night they certainly don’t sound like they are enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Vixen is a better term for a lady who enjoys sex, if a lady’s into being humiliated then Slut may do it for them but as others have said it may be an age thing.

But as always each to their own and as long as no one’s offended then it’s all good

When I hear the vixens getting pounded by the dog foxes in the middle of the night they certainly don’t sound like they are enjoying it "

That made me laugh ??

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. "

Is this something you would find empowering?

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm a man and I love being a slut! I describe myself as a Man Slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my favourite word and I tend to use it as a compliment rather than an insult. I personally love sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.

Is this something you would find empowering?"

Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

Slut in the bedroom, lady on the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely a slut in the bedroom, but trying to find men that understands this is soooo hard x

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By *tagvixen40Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Jess loves being called a slut, by myself or whoever we choose to join us.

We've not been in a club setting together yet, but can completely see jess being the way you describe.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word "

For me, hugely. It’s a word that was used to bully me both in childhood and by husbands. I’m not a slut for other people though. I’m reclaiming my own sexuality, not exploring someone else’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

For me, hugely. It’s a word that was used to bully me both in childhood and by husbands. I’m not a slut for other people though. I’m reclaiming my own sexuality, not exploring someone else’s."

Well said

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The problem I found with men thinking a woman who enjoys sex is a slut, is the way they treat me.

No respect, and they think they can do anything they want and I'll be gagging for it whenever they want me.

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By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan
over a year ago

reading


"How many women enjoy being a slut?

I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?

Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!

I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.

I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available

So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?"

maybe lustfully wanton is a better phrase to use

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.

Is this something you would find empowering?

Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it. "

I guess I don't understand it as I don't feel I've lost anything that needs to be reclaimed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.

Is this something you would find empowering?

Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it.

I guess I don't understand it as I don't feel I've lost anything that needs to be reclaimed "

It's not reclaiming in that sense - it's taking a word that historically men have used to degrade women and turning it around to be positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, babe is a self confessed slut. I can also vouch for that.

She is happy with that label as I am

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. "

Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.

Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail "

Or you could Google it for yourself...

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.

Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail

Or you could Google it for yourself... "

Will you take every cock presented to you in any hole available?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.

Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail

Or you could Google it for yourself...

Will you take every cock presented to you in any hole available? "

Go away, Dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being a slut. In person I’m often shy and embarrass easily, but when I’m being naughty, especially with a playmate instead of hubby, I become lost and insatiable, and absolutely craving more and more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut just a type of bad bitch that like to fuck and can't hate on that xx

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By *veryonelovesdaveMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Been a slut since found out about sex, don't bother me if called it, find it empowers me "

I like woman like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My late wife was more than happy with the term slut in the right situation, we had regular meets with a couple of male friends as a cuckold scenario and she was happy to to play the role and also with the term slut being used, it was also a thing of trust that we built up in this relationship.

If we went to a club for a “normal” night together, then it was a different situation again as we played together.

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By *uminmyhole69Man
over a year ago

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I love being a slut and being called one during sex really turns me on Fir me personally have no issue being called one but obviously everyone has a different view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called a slut in the bedroom because that's actually how I behave & I love it. Being called one randomly not so much

Mrs x

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I love being Logan's slut in and out of the bedroom. I'm addicted to the effect he has on me, the way he looks at me with desire in his eyes!! Can't get enough of it

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow


"I've always been very sexual and enjoy having plentiful and different sexual experiences, which usually involves having sex with lots of different people. I just love sex. I've been called a slut most of my life, I don't mind, I'm perfectly comfortable being one. Xx"

Same here and I've got broad shoulders so shout it my way if needed ....

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I love being called a slut in the bedroom because that's actually how I behave & I love it. Being called one randomly not so much

Mrs x"

Yes…context is important with so many words that find their correct place in the bedroom.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. "

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Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.

..................................

Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts"."

That’s a problem with men, not language.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.

..................................

Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".

That’s a problem with men, not language."

..................................

It may well be, but most women dont endorse such language or promote the associations made by such terms in a wider context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many women enjoy being a slut?

"

Why confine the question to women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.

..................................

Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".

That’s a problem with men, not language."

Yep.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I've cammed with quite a number of women on Flingster who have wanted me to call them slut, whore, or other degrading names. Having been brought up to be nice to people it's not the easiest thing in the world! However I'm surprised by the member of women who get turned on by this.

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West


"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word

Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. "

What are they????? x

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Sadly this word for many has been used in negertive. Way

But for me the letter stand for .

Sexually liberated unhibited temptress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like whore more

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West


"I like whore more "

Mmmmmm I like your style x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like whore more

Mmmmmm I like your style x"

Thanks

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West


"I like whore more

Mmmmmm I like your style x

Thanks "

xx

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.

..................................

Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts"."

I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case

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By *omptation OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.

..................................

Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".

I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case "

Again, I'll point out that I used that word for lack of a better, regularly used and accepted, alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to someone that loves been called a slut and she knows she is a good slut

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Nothing hotter for me than feeling like I’m behaving like a slut and also being called a slut whether it’s hubby or the other guy I’m fucking.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

My partner calls me Ho, it's funny more than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it... with the right person and in right moment.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.

..................................

Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".

I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case

Again, I'll point out that I used that word for lack of a better, regularly used and accepted, alternative"

I find the word "woman" suits me just fine.

I know and understand that for many women the word slut is acceptable even celebrated but personally I'm not sure why my womanhood needs to be further classified by how much I enjoy sex and who with.

That being said the people who enjoy using the word should continue to and ignore the likes of me

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….


"In the bedroom yeah but if someone shouted it at me in Tescos, I might have an issue."

This…..

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By *alypsoWoman
over a year ago

Hinckley


"How many women enjoy being a slut?

I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?

Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!

I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.

I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available

So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?"

I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called a slut (by the right man) I’m the bedroom, via txt, over the phone face to face…. Used in the right txt for me is a massive turn on

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control

Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control

Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater "

You are far sexier than her though

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control

Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater

You are far sexier than her though "

You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control

Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater

You are far sexier than her though

You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa! "

Right that's it we are going on a date then

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"How many women enjoy being a slut?

I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?

Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!

I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.

I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available

So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?

I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring. "

Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men?

And I don't get what's empowering about that

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

I love being used for sex so I think that makes me a slut

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control

Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater

You are far sexier than her though

You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa!

Right that's it we are going on a date then "

Alright I feels tidy. I’ll get my coat then.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control

Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater

You are far sexier than her though

You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa!

Right that's it we are going on a date then

Alright I feels tidy. I’ll get my coat then. "

Can I come too x

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Have met women who would love to be free of the shackles that life has put on them, be good, girls don't behave like that etc.

It's ingrained and they find it hard to let go.

I do my best it's hard but I get pleasure from helping them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. "

I think it is very much a generational thing. My granny used to call people who did bot keep their used clean ‘sluts’. Later I gather the term moved on from being one of tardiness and laziness to one of promiscuity and indiscretion.

These days I think it is interchangeable with hotwife since housekeepers, household appliances and cleaning services make being a traditional ‘slut’ more challenging

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

We would love to find a bedroom slut to share and enjoy. Perhaps even a slutty kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delight will fully admit that she is a slut in the bedroom.

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"How many women enjoy being a slut?

I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?

Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!

I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.

I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available

So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?

I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring.

Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men?

And I don't get what's empowering about that "

Many people on here have many different ways of feeling empowerment. We don’t have to understand it. Just celebrate the fact they can have somewhere like this to get what they need. As long as it’s not morally reprehensible - and you all know what I mean. That’s what I love about fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s so exciting when you lose control of your body and know you want more than you should, that you’d let them do anything and thank them after xx

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"How many women enjoy being a slut?

I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?

Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!

I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.

I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available

So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?

I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring.

Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men?

And I don't get what's empowering about that

Many people on here have many different ways of feeling empowerment. We don’t have to understand it. Just celebrate the fact they can have somewhere like this to get what they need. As long as it’s not morally reprehensible - and you all know what I mean. That’s what I love about fab!"

Exactly. If it doesn’t flick your switch, it’s not for you, and that’s all there is to it. All you need to know and understand is it flicks the switches of others.

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By *aka12345Couple
over a year ago

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Very much a proud horny slut right here hehe x mrs k x

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By *ooking for SubmissivesMan
over a year ago

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It’s such a Subjective question to be honest though!

As most peoples on the meaning will vary quite a bit.

The word itself still seems for some to be routed in the past as some sort derogatory word for admitting that you simply enjoy anything other than Vanilla sex

For some guys it’s still only used as a self defence mechanism when they think they’re too good to be turned down by the opposite sex

And for females i think it’s seen as away to bring others down when secretly they are maybe jealous that you don’t have the same “commitments” as them

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


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And for females i think it’s seen as away to bring others down when secretly they are maybe jealous that you don’t have the same “commitments” as them

"

Oh for goodness sake...so secretly, every woman just wants to be a slut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s such a Subjective question to be honest though!

As most peoples on the meaning will vary quite a bit.

The word itself still seems for some to be routed in the past as some sort derogatory word for admitting that you simply enjoy anything other than Vanilla sex

For some guys it’s still only used as a self defence mechanism when they think they’re too good to be turned down by the opposite sex

And for females i think it’s seen as away to bring others down when secretly they are maybe jealous that you don’t have the same “commitments” as them

"

No idea what the last part means.

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I enjoy being called a slut in the right situation eg if my husband is watching me with another guy he will often call me a slut which is super hot. I wouldn’t be as impressed with him coming in from work and hitting it with “ hi slut I’m home” I also wouldn’t mind my partners referring to me as a slut during sex but wouldn’t be keen on it being used in an opening message x

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By *ooking for SubmissivesMan
over a year ago

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No not at all,

but I do think that there are occasions where people who are stuck in ruts and loveless marriages or still stick to more traditional values will judge other being a bit more free spirited by their own morals.

Even though a small part of them would love to have that freed without being judged

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