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"In the bedroom yeah but if someone shouted it at me in Tescos, I might have an issue." Damn, I need to reschedule then! C | |||
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"I'm not a slut tho I hate the word, as far as I'm concerned it always has negative connotations. " Some people like to feel like a slut sometimes, some people want to fuck someone slutty, but I agree it’s generally not a term of endearment. | |||
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"I'm not a slut tho I hate the word, as far as I'm concerned it always has negative connotations. Some people like to feel like a slut sometimes, some people want to fuck someone slutty, but I agree it’s generally not a term of endearment." Hence why I said for lack of a better term. | |||
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"In the bedroom yeah but if someone shouted it at me in Tescos, I might have an issue." Hahaha | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word " Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. " I was just about to comment similar-it definitely feels like an insult to me- there's a few words to describe women who enjoy a freer sex life that I find derogatory, but none for men. The sight of an erect penis doesn't necessarily have me desperate for more, but there are other sensory things that might make my pulse quicken a bit- such as scent or eye contact | |||
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"Love to be called it But they a time and a place Ie during the act and after the act till they leave yes In a message or the street or something no " Absolutely agree, not a term I would use generally But then I've had women ask me to call them a slut while I've been fucking them, so it's a really unusual, context based term. | |||
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"I think Vixen is a better term for a lady who enjoys sex, if a lady’s into being humiliated then Slut may do it for them but as others have said it may be an age thing. But as always each to their own and as long as no one’s offended then it’s all good" When I hear the vixens getting pounded by the dog foxes in the middle of the night they certainly don’t sound like they are enjoying it | |||
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"I think Vixen is a better term for a lady who enjoys sex, if a lady’s into being humiliated then Slut may do it for them but as others have said it may be an age thing. But as always each to their own and as long as no one’s offended then it’s all good When I hear the vixens getting pounded by the dog foxes in the middle of the night they certainly don’t sound like they are enjoying it " That made me laugh ?? | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. " Is this something you would find empowering? | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. Is this something you would find empowering?" Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it. | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word " For me, hugely. It’s a word that was used to bully me both in childhood and by husbands. I’m not a slut for other people though. I’m reclaiming my own sexuality, not exploring someone else’s. | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word For me, hugely. It’s a word that was used to bully me both in childhood and by husbands. I’m not a slut for other people though. I’m reclaiming my own sexuality, not exploring someone else’s." Well said | |||
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"How many women enjoy being a slut? I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough? Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too! I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there. I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?" maybe lustfully wanton is a better phrase to use | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. Is this something you would find empowering? Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it. " I guess I don't understand it as I don't feel I've lost anything that needs to be reclaimed | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. Is this something you would find empowering? Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it. I guess I don't understand it as I don't feel I've lost anything that needs to be reclaimed " It's not reclaiming in that sense - it's taking a word that historically men have used to degrade women and turning it around to be positive. | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. " Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail " Or you could Google it for yourself... | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail Or you could Google it for yourself... " Will you take every cock presented to you in any hole available? | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail Or you could Google it for yourself... Will you take every cock presented to you in any hole available? " Go away, Dan | |||
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"Been a slut since found out about sex, don't bother me if called it, find it empowers me " I like woman like you | |||
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"I've always been very sexual and enjoy having plentiful and different sexual experiences, which usually involves having sex with lots of different people. I just love sex. I've been called a slut most of my life, I don't mind, I'm perfectly comfortable being one. Xx" Same here and I've got broad shoulders so shout it my way if needed .... | |||
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"I love being called a slut in the bedroom because that's actually how I behave & I love it. Being called one randomly not so much Mrs x" Yes…context is important with so many words that find their correct place in the bedroom. | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. " .................................. Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts". | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. .................................. Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts"." That’s a problem with men, not language. | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. .................................. Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts". That’s a problem with men, not language." .................................. It may well be, but most women dont endorse such language or promote the associations made by such terms in a wider context. | |||
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"How many women enjoy being a slut? " Why confine the question to women? | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. .................................. Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts". That’s a problem with men, not language." Yep. | |||
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. " What are they????? x | |||
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"I like whore more " Mmmmmm I like your style x | |||
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"I like whore more Mmmmmm I like your style x Thanks " xx | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. .................................. Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts"." I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. .................................. Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts". I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case " Again, I'll point out that I used that word for lack of a better, regularly used and accepted, alternative | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. .................................. Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts". I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case Again, I'll point out that I used that word for lack of a better, regularly used and accepted, alternative" I find the word "woman" suits me just fine. I know and understand that for many women the word slut is acceptable even celebrated but personally I'm not sure why my womanhood needs to be further classified by how much I enjoy sex and who with. That being said the people who enjoy using the word should continue to and ignore the likes of me | |||
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"In the bedroom yeah but if someone shouted it at me in Tescos, I might have an issue." This….. | |||
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"How many women enjoy being a slut? I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough? Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too! I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there. I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?" I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring. | |||
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater " You are far sexier than her though | |||
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater You are far sexier than her though " You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa! | |||
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater You are far sexier than her though You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa! " Right that's it we are going on a date then | |||
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"How many women enjoy being a slut? I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough? Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too! I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there. I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way? I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring. " Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men? And I don't get what's empowering about that | |||
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater You are far sexier than her though You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa! Right that's it we are going on a date then " Alright I feels tidy. I’ll get my coat then. | |||
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater You are far sexier than her though You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa! Right that's it we are going on a date then Alright I feels tidy. I’ll get my coat then. " Can I come too x | |||
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. " I think it is very much a generational thing. My granny used to call people who did bot keep their used clean ‘sluts’. Later I gather the term moved on from being one of tardiness and laziness to one of promiscuity and indiscretion. These days I think it is interchangeable with hotwife since housekeepers, household appliances and cleaning services make being a traditional ‘slut’ more challenging | |||
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"How many women enjoy being a slut? I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough? Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too! I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there. I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way? I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring. Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men? And I don't get what's empowering about that " Many people on here have many different ways of feeling empowerment. We don’t have to understand it. Just celebrate the fact they can have somewhere like this to get what they need. As long as it’s not morally reprehensible - and you all know what I mean. That’s what I love about fab! | |||
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"How many women enjoy being a slut? I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough? Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too! I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there. I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way? I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring. Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men? And I don't get what's empowering about that Many people on here have many different ways of feeling empowerment. We don’t have to understand it. Just celebrate the fact they can have somewhere like this to get what they need. As long as it’s not morally reprehensible - and you all know what I mean. That’s what I love about fab!" Exactly. If it doesn’t flick your switch, it’s not for you, and that’s all there is to it. All you need to know and understand is it flicks the switches of others. | |||
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" And for females i think it’s seen as away to bring others down when secretly they are maybe jealous that you don’t have the same “commitments” as them " Oh for goodness sake...so secretly, every woman just wants to be a slut? | |||
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"It’s such a Subjective question to be honest though! As most peoples on the meaning will vary quite a bit. The word itself still seems for some to be routed in the past as some sort derogatory word for admitting that you simply enjoy anything other than Vanilla sex For some guys it’s still only used as a self defence mechanism when they think they’re too good to be turned down by the opposite sex And for females i think it’s seen as away to bring others down when secretly they are maybe jealous that you don’t have the same “commitments” as them " No idea what the last part means. | |||
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