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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Speaking to a couple on here this morning swapped some pics chatted about what we liked etc and we're getting on fine and then got a message saying another rude male on here without his wife knowing WHAT THE FUCK ???? We are so pissed off is it ok the say who they are on here ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

Your message reads like you wrote it in a hurry while angry. Got the start of it then the grammar fell apart a bit. Could you have another go at it as presently we cannot make sense of it other than you seem very upset.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

So the male of the couple you were messaging told you he is cheating on his wife ?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

What part did your wife play in the conversation

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Yes we are upset as they said we were not genuine and we most definitely are

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why did they say you are not genuine ?

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Not a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the ongoing posts we think we have it now.

We have far too much experience, if there is such a thing, of single men with an MF profile and it is tiring and frustrating. We consider ourselves good at judging such things but not flawless. It can help in future if both of you communicate together and apart via the same account and state which you are at the time. Everyone writes differently and when one attempts to impersonate the other it shows far more easily than you'd think. We're not saying you did this though the other couple may have thought it and simply been upset, feeling that yet another single man was up to the usual tricks.

There's not much we've found you can do about it other than block them and take a note of their names. We play a version of minesweeper at clubs and socials avoiding the people we've blocked.

Good luck.

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By *nsomniacMan
over a year ago

chester


"Speaking to a couple on here this morning swapped some pics chatted about what we liked etc and we're getting on fine and then got a message saying another rude male on here without his wife knowing WHAT THE FUCK ???? We are so pissed off is it ok the say who they are on here ???"

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Did the message accuse the male of your couple of being on here without his wife's knowledge ? I'm a bit confused.

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By *ingle_docMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Irritating, but if they’re particularly impulsive are they really for you?

Don’t name and shame.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

No you can't name & shame them just block & move on

Things like this are a daily occurance on here, them saying your not genuine has no substance, could they be hiding that they infact weren't genuine, who knows which is why the no naming rule is in place

Block block block

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By *kmaleMan
over a year ago

Bedford

Too many idiots on here making it harder for those of us that are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking to a couple on here this morning swapped some pics chatted about what we liked etc and we're getting on fine and then got a message saying another rude male on here without his wife knowing WHAT THE FUCK ???? We are so pissed off is it ok the say who they are on here ???"
report it. obviously a single guy pretending to be a couple to get laid or for wank material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP in answer to your question do not name and shame on the forum as its against site rules.

NBVN x

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

You’ll be in trouble if you name and shame..

And why get so angry about people on a swinging site?

Most couples you chat to are full of shit ..

Sometimes you find a rare genuine one, always speak to the female on a phone call first ..

This isn’t worth getting wound up about, plenty more serious things in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking to a couple on here this morning swapped some pics chatted about what we liked etc and we're getting on fine and then got a message saying another rude male on here without his wife knowing WHAT THE FUCK ???? We are so pissed off is it ok the say who they are on here ???"

What are you pissed off about?

Did you turn them down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we are upset as they said we were not genuine and we most definitely are "

We got this a few weeks back all going fine then out of the blue sorry don’t think you’re genuine then blocked. After us sending live pics too.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Frustrating op but don't name and shame or you could be banned

Just block and forget them .

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Shrug it off and move on. There's not much else you can do.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Just block them and move on.

There are a lot of couple profiles that are actually men so they’ve, wrongly, seen something in your messaging that made them think you are one of those.

It happens. You don’t know them so does their opinion really matter?

Just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s annoying but not to the point where you change your whole profile to hilight it OP.

They were strangers, their opinion shouldn’t matter to you that much.

Put it down to experience and move on.

Your reaction to this could potentially put others off contacting you, it’s just not worth it.

Viv

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By *r and Mrs 81Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

I mean I wouldn't be so angry they didn't owe you anything if infact they were genuine themselves see it as a lucky escape. Think you need to calm and move along

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

That's fabs for you. Just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough people have already said block them, allow yourself to calm and move on. It's all good advice though to be fair, We're not even sure you are here anymore as you haven't answered any of the questions they have been asking.

Good luck and happy Fabbing.

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By *nsomniacMan
over a year ago

chester


"Enough people have already said block them, allow yourself to calm and move on. It's all good advice though to be fair, We're not even sure you are here anymore as you haven't answered any of the questions they have been asking.

Good luck and happy Fabbing."

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Too many idiots on here making it harder for those of us that are genuine "

nope idiots ruin it for themselves others need to stop using that as an excuse ... your responsible for yourself stop blaming others ...what you do or dont do is what matters

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Enough people have already said block them, allow yourself to calm and move on. It's all good advice though to be fair, We're not even sure you are here anymore as you haven't answered any of the questions they have been asking.

Good luck and happy Fabbing."

I am curious why you have revived this thread from over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had someone say we must be fake and just a guy as we weren’t available to meet within the next couple of weeks

Just ignore and move on! It makes us angry and frustrated the life out of us but it’s a small price to pay for the amazing people that are on here

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We’ve been called fake a couple of times but it’s usually their reaction to us not wanting to meet within the hour or accept their friend request. We just delete and move on to the next one

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