FabSwingers.com forum: Meets

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

There are too many of you, as simple as that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"There are too many of you, as simple as that. "
most be lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?"

It’s not really, if you know how to the play the game

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?

It’s not really, if you know how to the play the game

That as well- so clubs, socials, being in the right place at the right time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also those that give all men on here and bad rep.. and trust me i find it just as much a struggle to find genuine guys x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

The majority of men on here are not swingers the are looking for an easy fuck so the site is saturated with men so it no longer functions as a swinger site unless you are a couple

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many men and too many twats who spoil it for decent men so you can hardly blame the women. Luck I guess

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Too many men on here, too many messing around behind their partners backs, too difficult finding genuine guys... and so on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?

It’s not really, if you know how to the play the game

That as well- so clubs, socials, being in the right place at the right time. "

Which is what I meant

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks everyone just going to keep trying lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Thanks everyone just going to keep trying lol

You're lucky, if your location is correct, as you have at least one great club on your doorstep. And I think quite busy organised socials scene, if swingers club is too much.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?"

Have reasonable expectations ,treat everyone with respect and be yourself (if you dont you will get found out lol ) attend socials , clubs etc let people get to know you ... its not hard at all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are alot I'd genuinely nice guys on here who are actually here for a good time, however there are alot that are here because they think they'll get a quick fuck

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Because it’s not dial a shag. It’s a swinging site. Too many men thinking the former.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Definitely not just here for a quick fuck I like the social side to love going for food and drinks and getting to know someone and banter is a must

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also those that give all men on here and bad rep.. and trust me i find it just as much a struggle to find genuine guys x "

Same here!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Genuine one here x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not had any meets off here in a long time. Still don’t posts threads about it though.

Seems to be every other day lately.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I’ve not had any meets off here in a long time. Still don’t posts threads about it though.

Seems to be every other day lately. "
Great

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

it's the law of numbers lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"it's the law of numbers lol "
true

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

It’s not hard for men to get meets..

I’ve always found meets easy to find..

Maybe it’s about a guys approach?

This truly isn’t rocket science

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Because it’s not dial a shag. It’s a swinging site. Too many men thinking the former. "

Exactly…

Swinging is about making friendships and connections, not trying to get a shag asap..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so op a simple sum ... 100 men 1 woman leaves you with assuming that one of those men is a match (often not) 99% losing out .... and thats why 99% of men find it very hard ...

i can get over 500 messages a week and from that 500 still not get a match.

and with men joining at a fast rate it will only continue to get worse i suspect more couples and woman leave daily than those that join so pretty bleak for men on fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it’s not dial a shag. It’s a swinging site. Too many men thinking the former.

Exactly…

Swinging is about making friendships and connections, not trying to get a shag asap..

but there are parts of swinging where couples and women are just looking for shags with no connection swinging is a wide and veried scene its not what a few think it is .... when they say its a sex site i say yes but its a swingers sex site

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"so op a simple sum ... 100 men 1 woman leaves you with assuming that one of those men is a match (often not) 99% losing out .... and thats why 99% of men find it very hard ...

i can get over 500 messages a week and from that 500 still not get a match.

and with men joining at a fast rate it will only continue to get worse i suspect more couples and woman leave daily than those that join so pretty bleak for men on fab"

It’s only bleak for guys who don’t know how to chat to people..

It’s the same in any walk of life, some guys just know how to chat to women..

I’ve many female friends on here and some of the messages they get on here are laughable..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"so op a simple sum ... 100 men 1 woman leaves you with assuming that one of those men is a match (often not) 99% losing out .... and thats why 99% of men find it very hard ...

i can get over 500 messages a week and from that 500 still not get a match. I know how to talk to people I am good at that lol

and with men joining at a fast rate it will only continue to get worse i suspect more couples and woman leave daily than those that join so pretty bleak for men on fab

It’s only bleak for guys who don’t know how to chat to people..

It’s the same in any walk of life, some guys just know how to chat to women..

I’ve many female friends on here and some of the messages they get on here are laughable..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so op a simple sum ... 100 men 1 woman leaves you with assuming that one of those men is a match (often not) 99% losing out .... and thats why 99% of men find it very hard ...

i can get over 500 messages a week and from that 500 still not get a match.

and with men joining at a fast rate it will only continue to get worse i suspect more couples and woman leave daily than those that join so pretty bleak for men on fab

It’s only bleak for guys who don’t know how to chat to people..

It’s the same in any walk of life, some guys just know how to chat to women..

I’ve many female friends on here and some of the messages they get on here are laughable..

this is true too... but there are alot who treat women fine on here who still get nowhere ... there is a bit of luck for some i think the best way for guys today is clubs ... but the last 2 vists to clubs we've made we notice alot of couples are now ignoring men more so than before .

like you say how you comunicate is key totally agree

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you bro. I'm talking to two at the moment both saying the same thing.

-stood up

-man child men

-man can't keep their promises

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?"

Second post in 2 days saying the same thing.

Just posted on another thread where a guy has done the basics and is doing well. No magic formula, he's just doing the work.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?

Second post in 2 days saying the same thing.

Just posted on another thread where a guy has done the basics and is doing well. No magic formula, he's just doing the work."
I am trying to put the work in too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

It's a numbers game too many men not enough single women & couples

For every guy to get 1 meet a year, women would need to be doing at least 2 meets a week which is very unlikely to happen hence why most guys on here won't have any luck

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a numbers game too many men not enough single women & couples

For every guy to get 1 meet a year, women would need to be doing at least 2 meets a week which is very unlikely to happen hence why most guys on here won't have any luck

Seeing the high volume of posts and statuses about flaky guys not turning up, I'd suggest the opposite. The number of couples and single women meeting would actually be higher if the quality of single guys was better.

If all the effort put into 'rate my profile posts' and complaining about hard it is as a single guy got channeled into getting veris and attending clubs or socials the landscape would be very different......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?

Second post in 2 days saying the same thing.

Just posted on another thread where a guy has done the basics and is doing well. No magic formula, he's just doing the work. I am trying to put the work in too"

What was it Yoda said about try and do?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?"

whatever made you think it would be easy?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

It took me a year to find the right couple. That was over three years ago and we are still meeting regularly and I've had other good meets too. You just need to keep trying, be visible and have a sensible and clear profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men off here just want the sex and nothing else.

Not even a social aspect to it.

Then they ignore until the next time they want to get their dick wet .

I wouldn’t meet another bloke off here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You've got four veries op

So you're doing ok

I guess it depends how often you want to meet .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Men off here just want the sex and nothing else.

Not even a social aspect to it.

Then they ignore until the next time they want to get their dick wet .

I wouldn’t meet another bloke off here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men off here just want the sex and nothing else.

Not even a social aspect to it.

Then they ignore until the next time they want to get their dick wet .

I wouldn’t meet another bloke off here

You don’t count cos you aren’t a wanker

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Because we put meets up, and we get offers for every other day, time and place. Other than what's on offer.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Men off here just want the sex and nothing else.

Not even a social aspect to it.

Then they ignore until the next time they want to get their dick wet .

I wouldn’t meet another bloke off here

You don’t count cos you aren’t a wanker "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many reasons. Most men are far too pushy. Far to many single men. Far to many dick pics. Because there is so much choice, women can aim higher than dating life. Certain guys have no issues, eg black guys (loads of women want BBC, fit bodies with big cocks are always popular.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heswingerMan
over a year ago

the steel city sheffield

"Also those that give all men on here and bad rep.. and trust me i find it just as much a struggle to find genuine guys x "
I’d gladly meet you Rosie but sadly I’m too old

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread