FabSwingers.com forum: Men 50 and above

By *ase4122 OP Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Everyone is entitled to set there preferences as they see fit. Stop taking that personally is what I would say. There may be 61 year old women on here that may ask you the same question OP!!!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't think there are many women under the age of 40 crying into their porridge because they can't contact me. I didn't join the site until I was 52 and my age has never been an issue.

Tick the box in advanced search that says looking for the age I am and you won't have to worry about those who arent looking for 50 year olds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?"

But it is completely fine for you to specify a maximum age of 60?????

Everyone has a personal choice - live with it!

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Personally there nothing unappealing about a man over 50,just depends on the man ,some get sexier with age R x

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

sex bi the sea

"Personally there nothing unappealing about a man over 50,just depends on the man ,some get sexier with age R x"

I’ve been told I’m sexy

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

A lot of the issue I'd say is quite a few men who claim to be in their 50s are actually well in their 60s or older it's one of the reasons I cut down my age preferences I got fed up of men way outside my preferences lying about their age. If I like someone outside the ages I set I can make first contact if I want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?"

What happens to women bin their 60s that makes them unappealing to you? Their reasons are probably similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older guys x

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By *ase4122 OP Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Everyone is entitled to set there preferences as they see fit. Stop taking that personally is what I would say. There may be 61 year old women on here that may ask you the same question OP!!!!"

Calm down Karen! Was a genuine question.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Doesnt bother me, im fucking the guy not a number

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Everyone is entitled to set there preferences as they see fit. Stop taking that personally is what I would say. There may be 61 year old women on here that may ask you the same question OP!!!!

Calm down Karen! Was a genuine question.

As is mine to you !

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer guys up to around 6-8 years older than me. However, there may be the occasional guy a year or three older that I might still be attracted to so I leave my age range open to 50. I fully expect it over the next few years to increase again to 55. That’s all. Never deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing. I love older men, I find them incredibly attractive

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By *acey87Woman
over a year ago

watford

I’m the opposite haha! Love older men! They appreciate women more in bed I find!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m the opposite haha! Love older men! They appreciate women more in bed I find! "

Love the pic in your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all hear to meet new people and have fun - but in doing so we still can make choices

OP your original question whilst with good intentions, will make no difference

People read a profile etc and make their own mind up about age/shape/size etc - just dont worry about it - just be yourself

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer guys up to around 6-8 years older than me. However, there may be the occasional guy a year or three older that I might still be attracted to so I leave my age range open to 50. I fully expect it over the next few years to increase again to 55. That’s all. Never deep.

Well said

there is hope for us all lol

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

One of the best sets of meetings we have ever had was with a 54 year old man when my wife was 47 and a 65 year old when my wife was 60. But we don't care if people have limits. They can do as they wish on here.

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By *ase4122 OP Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I’m the opposite haha! Love older men! They appreciate women more in bed I find! "

Ther is finally hope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?"

Men are allowed their preferences but women aren't lol

In your eyes what happens to a woman at 60 that makes them so unappealing?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

How old are the people's who's profile you are referencing? Are you seeing a lot of women in their fifties who won't meet men in their fifties?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?

Men are allowed their preferences but women aren't lol

In your eyes what happens to a woman at 60 that makes them so unappealing?"

Be interested to see if he calls you Karen !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is entitled to set there preferences as they see fit. Stop taking that personally is what I would say. There may be 61 year old women on here that may ask you the same question OP!!!!

Calm down Karen! Was a genuine question.

And his response was genuine as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?

Men are allowed their preferences but women aren't lol

In your eyes what happens to a woman at 60 that makes them so unappealing?

Be interested to see if he calls you Karen !

Always the same with these age topics.

I don't get it, plenty of men over 50 who do extremely well on here which in itself proves that age isn't even a factor when it comes to meeting most people

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Some beautiful ladies on this thread that like the older guy!

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By *kmaleMan
over a year ago

Bedford

"Doesnt bother me, im fucking the guy not a number

Will remember that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It becomes even more difficult when a hot couple in their 50s get in touch with us..Mr finds the lady very sexy but Mrs wants to find a 40 something to play with, as she already has one in the 50s lol

Then when she approaches the 40s couple I get the same cold shoulder in reverse..

Each to their own obviously but can be difficult getting the right balance... everyone has a preference and needs to feel comfortable

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"Doesnt bother me, im fucking the guy not a number

That's great to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t get it up.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?"

-Ageing aside, everybody is entitled to be with their peers if they want to! And you are looking for women from 18 to 60 - so what is so 'unappealing' about women over 60??-

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By *ase4122 OP Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?

I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?

-Ageing aside, everybody is entitled to be with their peers if they want to! And you are looking for women from 18 to 60 - so what is so 'unappealing' about women over 60??-"

Think you and many others are missing my point. Regardless of my own preferences, it's a genuine question out of curiosity.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"--Ageing aside, everybody is entitled to be with their peers if they want to! And you are looking for women from 18 to 60 - so what is so 'unappealing' about women over 60??--

Think you and many others are missing my point. Regardless of my own preferences, it's a genuine question out of curiosity."

--I have answered your question though (people were always going to point out the obvious irony!)... I pointed out the ageing process and age-related peer needs - which can be an experience/character/mental thing.

Regarding the physically-ageing issue (the most obvious one I think) I expect that you only have to think of why you've limited women to 60 to climb into people's shoes here. From your vantage point they are not that much older!

When I turned both 40 then 50 I found it a pain on these sites too, but people who don't want to go too much older people have to put the number somewhere.

You chose 18 as a start point for women (so you might consider the "I don't really want someone my Dad's age" for some young women perhaps?) and 60 as your limit. The same question obviously begs... why 60 exactly? Because you find the idea less attractive I'll wager. Why 18? Because you find the idea attractive! --

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

For me it's because they can often be bald, fat, grumpy and entitled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta love the snarky replies right OP?

You're right though, 50 (sometimes 55) is a maximum for the vast majority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly over weight & don’t make an effort

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Gotta love the snarky replies right OP?

You're right though, 50 (sometimes 55) is a maximum for the vast majority."

--What majority? Those over 50 themselves?

What about the limit the other way - the minimum age? A lot of older people actually start at 50 (or something close to their age), but I wager you don't see their profiles at all!

The joke here is that he's asking for 18 to 60 without thinking about why he's done that himself. --

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

The majority of 50+ men on here just don't look after themselves. And they seem to have lost the ability to talk to women, some of the strangest "requests" I've had have been from older guys.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

All this knowledge of majorities, some people must really get around on here!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"For me it's because they can often be bald, fat, grumpy and entitled

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"For me it's because they can often be bald, fat, grumpy and entitled

Bald - tick

Grumpy - can be

Fat - nope

Entitled - couldn't be further from the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares, maybe they're wrong and would actually love to meet guys over 50 and have missed out but that's their mistake to make.

They have made their choice so respect it, even if it's "wrong".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He needs more candles on his birthday cake. His love of quality and his respect for things increases. He enjoys the greater things in life. He makes contact with me on Fab and I fall in love with him. He has to spend half of the night going to the toilet. He has less control of his bottom gasket. He has a more mature outlook on things such as Stilton and buying food at Waitrose and Marks and Spencer. This is just my opinion, do you have a problem with that as since I met him I'm not as interested in boys.

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By *cotsguy888Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm 51 and doing fine, if anything I get told I look 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit subjective is age. I've met many people in their twenties that are hugely unfit and sexually incompetent. I've also met people well into their sixties that would embarrass even fitty twenties.

I also appreciate that you need to filter somewhere. 18-60 just says to me you really don't care who you liaise with (spread betting as far as you can). There are lifestyle differences between the decades and selecting an up and down by 5-10 years increases your odds of being compatible without being too restrictive.

The biggest danger is over thinking the whole thing.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Bit subjective is age. I've met many people in their twenties that are hugely unfit and sexually incompetent. I've also met people well into their sixties that would embarrass even fitty twenties.

The biggest danger is over thinking the whole thing."

--Nah I don't buy that, '18 to 99' is mayyybe not caring, but not '18 to 60' surely. Putting that as a 50 year-old man just means you clearly want to shag an 18yo if you can and not someone over 60! He is basically stating his claim with this forum thread. And that's entirely his prerogative 100%. You're surely not suggesting he takes his maximum age down to 50?

The best is surely that he keeps it as is, as it's simply what he wants. He didn't ask to change it, he just wants to hear reasons why many of those younger women stop at 50. --

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

18- however old , older men seem to love a younger , albeit 50yr old girl dressed up rude !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?"

Been an older lady mine doesn't

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Shows the ladies inexpensive great sex begins at 50 no desire to fuck a younger lady no matter how attractive give me bbw mature lady any day.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

It is what it is, it's their profile so their rules. Meeting in clubs alleviates this as no-one knows your age, it's all on appearance. For the record we're both over 50 but look after ourselves and are fitter than many in their 30's and 40's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an over 50 filter - but I'm not attracted to all of them.

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

51 here and enjoying life x

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I only meet over 50’s your age isn’t the problem

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By *ipster8Man
over a year ago

South Lincs

46 this year so moving out of the max 45 year age bracket.

Sounds like I’ve got just 4 years till it’s all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean by saying that lots of womens profiles say no over 50s m8.I've never had a problem with it .each to their own etc. There's plenty of good looking woman and couples on here who are looking for guys like us . Age is only a number lol .

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Negativity is far more of a turn off than age OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually much prefer older men and had the reverse set on my single profile to prevent under 45s contacting me.

Just my preference as I prefer their life experiences and am a sucker for salt and pepper hair lol

It’s how I met my partner/Dom and he is incredibly hot and older so don’t think all women feel the same and give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve set a calendar to start complaining about being 50 in 2 years time.

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By *acystaceyWoman
over a year ago

Ceredigion

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?"

What annoys me is the very many men who lie about their age to get past the age range!

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

I have no interest in older women, or men making it PC.

But younger women Mmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually much prefer older men and had the reverse set on my single profile to prevent under 45s contacting me.

Just my preference as I prefer their life experiences and am a sucker for salt and pepper hair lol

It’s how I met my partner/Dom and he is incredibly hot and older so don’t think all women feel the same and give up"

Great comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?

What happens to women bin their 60s that makes them unappealing to you? Their reasons are probably similar

Excactly x

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

I’m over 60 now so men over 50 are young things!!

It’s not about the age though it’s about a well cared for sexy man with a naughty young mind. Sadly many over 50s don’t really live up to that and look like a much older person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All.about personality here for me..love women of all ages as long they enjoy a nice glass of wine and good conversation as well as a naughty session. Lots of women like older but is only but a number. Young at heart here

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By *ickerladMan
over a year ago

wem

I’m 80 but always been told I’d pass for 65 - always looking out for youngish ladies who’re interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being over 50 doesn't stop me as plenty of women prefer it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 64yrs old I find it hard to meet anyone but there was a couple down my way who put up will meet 18to70 what's that all about there is still some fit woman in there 70s that would put woman in there 40s to shame why have a ferrari when you can have a Morris minor.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they was in there early 20s wanting to meet single men 18to70 I'd be happy to meet someone 65to 75 at least she'd know what she wants lol

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I only meet over 50’s your age isn’t the problem "

You look absolutely wonderful xx

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?

What annoys me is the very many men who lie about their age to get past the age range!"

As do a number of women, I have met women on here in their mid 60s whose profile age is mid to high 50s

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Nothing wrong with 50+ plus fellas or ladies

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By *oliday slutCouple
over a year ago

tenerife

"I see alot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. In a woman's eyes what happens to a man at 50 that makes them so unappealing?"
why are you only looking for women up to 60 ? What's wrong with over 60s ? People in glass houses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the issue I'd say is quite a few men who claim to be in their 50s are actually well in their 60s or older it's one of the reasons I cut down my age preferences I got fed up of men way outside my preferences lying about their age. If I like someone outside the ages I set I can make first contact if I want.

This! There are so many men claiming they are 50ish looking way older and probably are! I may be dismissing some chances, but I'm OK with that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily over 50.

Age has definitely had an impact, but still active, and always hopeful.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"I see a lot of women's profiles age range stops at 50. "

I see men putting an upper limit of 60 on their profile. Why did you choose to do that? Serious question.

Gbat

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

This! There are so many men claiming they are 50ish looking way older and probably are! I may be dismissing some chances, but I'm OK with that ."

I'm 51, but often get told I look younger.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Age is no barrier to us as such. We go with how well we connect and attraction. Older playmates have the benefit of experience and are good fun and well mannered.

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

63 here.... *waves* ...age is just a number.. have fun everyone...whatever you get up to

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