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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seem to have a habit of finding people on here who then decide to leave or hide their profile straight after meeting for a social. That’s if they don’t back out before hand. Getting fed up of it, I’m just a normal person, with a normal life and I try to be totally honest in my chats before hand

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

Seems a bit harsh! Maybe you’re just unlucky or you have a knack of picking the wrong ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to have a habit of finding people on here who then decide to leave or hide their profile straight after meeting for a social. That’s if they don’t back out before hand. Getting fed up of it, I’m just a normal person, with a normal life and I try to be totally honest in my chats before hand "

I know exactly how you feel, same thing happens to me, makes me feel shouldn't be here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop meeting for a social, get right to it. NSA all the way!!!

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Might be your attracted to guys who think a social is sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to have a habit of finding people on here who then decide to leave or hide their profile straight after meeting for a social. That’s if they don’t back out before hand. Getting fed up of it, I’m just a normal person, with a normal life and I try to be totally honest in my chats before hand "

Think it happens to a lot more people than they let on

Just carry on being you and if people don’t like it then try not to worry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to have a habit of finding people on here who then decide to leave or hide their profile straight after meeting for a social. That’s if they don’t back out before hand. Getting fed up of it, I’m just a normal person, with a normal life and I try to be totally honest in my chats before hand "

There's nothing wrong with you ..fab is just full of idiots

Pick yourself up dust yourself down hold your head high and move forward

It's there loss not yours

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Tbh I doubt you've been doing anything wrong you seem quite a catch judging by your pictures so don't take too much into it not everyone ends up being a complete match so you've most likely been lucky rather than regretting it later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to have a habit of finding people on here who then decide to leave or hide their profile straight after meeting for a social. That’s if they don’t back out before hand. Getting fed up of it, I’m just a normal person, with a normal life and I try to be totally honest in my chats before hand

There's nothing wrong with you ..fab is just full of idiots

Pick yourself up dust yourself down hold your head high and move forward

It's there loss not yours "

Yep this 100%

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stop meeting for a social, get right to it. NSA all the way!!!"

Fine if that’s what’s discussed from the start. Then don’t say meet to get to know you and cancel last minute due to guilt

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Stop meeting for a social, get right to it. NSA all the way!!!

Fine if that’s what’s discussed from the start. Then don’t say meet to get to know you and cancel last minute due to guilt"

Unfortunately there are a lot of people who are fantasists on here; men, women & ‘couples’. They like the chase but don’t have the nerve to follow through with it. Those that do actually turn up for a social might not feel a connection with you in person, but that’s life. It certainly won’t be you. Just keep your chin up and remain optimistic about meeting someone compatible

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop meeting for a social, get right to it. NSA all the way!!!

Fine if that’s what’s discussed from the start. Then don’t say meet to get to know you and cancel last minute due to guilt

Unfortunately there are a lot of people who are fantasists on here; men, women & ‘couples’. They like the chase but don’t have the nerve to follow through with it. Those that do actually turn up for a social might not feel a connection with you in person, but that’s life. It certainly won’t be you. Just keep your chin up and remain optimistic about meeting someone compatible "

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By *lder guy50Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Can't gleam a lot from your pictures but from what I can see you look very nice. So bit baffled too

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By *inkyguymkMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

It just comes as part & parcel of fab I'm afraid Lizzie. Don't take it personally.

Please believe me, it happens to everyone on here, and I mean everyone.

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