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What is classifed as normal for guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been chatting to various people about what is classifed as normal for guys in relation to sex and so thought i would open this to a wider audience for more feedback from guys and fems. When u play how many times would u expect the guy to cum and if more than once how long does it take on average to recover and get going again. Also what is the max times u have cum in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i meet someone i like each meet to bring something different, i dont expect a guy to cum any amount of times nor do i think theres a normal time to be given for recovery between session

id like to think im adult and experienced enough to realise we are all different and as such we perform in our own way

its rather like asking whats a normal blow job and how long is it normal to stay down there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cum 6times aday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i cum 6times aday "

pah.....i can do that in 10 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i cum 6times aday

pah.....i can do that in 10 mins "
yes but u r a women we r multi talented xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive cum 6 times a day when youve been in chatroom lol your naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a proper wanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good point well made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive cum 6 times a day when youve been in chatroom lol your naughty "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

six times a day i m impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am a wanker lol allways horny

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

When I'm with a lady the last thing on my mind is coming. That's just the icing on the cake we share for dessert after the fun of a starter and several other dishes to work through and enjoy first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i cum 6times aday "

I recommend a vitamin supplement course mate, that's verging on the dangerously unhealthy.

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

How about including in this the time it normally takes to have sex?

I mean one guy may come 5 times which sounds impressive, but if it only takes 2 mins each time...it ain't so impressive!

I would really be interested to know how much actual humping time is involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shame you re not closer

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"When I'm with a lady the last thing on my mind is coming. That's just the icing on the cake we share for dessert after the fun of a starter and several other dishes to work through and enjoy first "

Me too, you could say it's the last thing I want to happen! No rush to get there if you are enjoying the journey....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i last ages ive now sussed it so i can cum quick or slow i guess its just because of all the wanking i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a sesh on Saturday with my wife and our 2 friends. I came the first time after a good while, but didn't cum again during the rest of the whole 11HR fest. Unusual for me really but I believe the pressure of wanting to keep the night going actually helped rather than hindered.

I don't think there IS a normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no way of measuring normal as everyone is diffrent. Isnt normal boring? I would rather be memorable myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no way of measuring normal as everyone is diffrent. Isnt normal boring? I would rather be memorable myself."

Im the same on that its the best way to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm with a lady the last thing on my mind is coming. That's just the icing on the cake we share for dessert after the fun of a starter and several other dishes to work through and enjoy first "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only measure is: Did both parties enjoy it ... ? We're all so different that your question is impossible to answer.

Would a woman into bukkake like it if you came only once? Compare this to a lady into tease and milking ... prolonging the orgasm.

Your best bet is to work towards finding a situation that you both love

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By *hobos46Man
over a year ago

Royston

It varies, obviously, on how tired/horny you are and/or who you're with.

My last meet lasted an hour (because that's all the time I had) and I came twice. The time before that (last week) the session lasted three hours and I came three times.

I would like to point out both ladies came MANY more times than I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i last ages ive now sussed it so i can cum quick or slow i guess its just because of all the wanking i do "

You've obviously too much time on your hands.

You'd be better off making models out of matchsticks or doing jigsaw puzzles before you send yourself blind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average male orgasm lasts for 6 seconds.............after that who cares!!! And they say romance is dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than telly reading this ha ha ha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being normal is very overrated be an individual and stand out from the crowd x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if there wasnt dirty pics and cams on here id wank once aday so i blame females for my wanking 6 times aday

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Whats a normal blow job and how long is it normal to stay down there?

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa


"I think if there wasnt dirty pics and cams on here id wank once aday so i blame females for my wanking 6 times aday"

Don't u have a job?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are wanking 6 times a day that job should be in the sperm bank lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the circumstances. Some girls only come once, so I'll finish up.

Some come twice, and continue to keep the talk kinky afterwards, so there might be more.

I'm governed by how long and often they want to, but I'll usually need 30 mins inbetween, which can be filled with foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont expect anything but a good time..regardless of the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol wank during breaks

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"i last ages ive now sussed it so i can cum quick or slow i guess its just because of all the wanking i do

You've obviously too much time on your hands.

You'd be better off making models out of matchsticks or doing jigsaw puzzles before you send yourself blind! "

Too much something on his hands... dunno if it's time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So a guy that can cum and cum upto 8 to 10 times in a 4/5 hr period and be hard the whole time is not normal then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a proper wanker "

Mmmm yum yum you are lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm me thinks a few exaggeraters in here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as a good time is had by all concerned then that is all I ask for. I'm not impressed by repeaters or heavy cummers. I'm no sexual athlete myself. I enjoy a few orgasms in a session but I take quite a time to recover myself.

Don't have any expections that guys have to live up to other than they are respectable and discreet and sensible and we all get on and enjoy and giggle

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By *amnationsedgeMan
over a year ago

Ashborne

A very hard thing to judge, I've been able to go three hours without a break and not cum but for that reason I don't consider myself the average man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hhrrmmpphh. Only 6 times a day , I do that when I'm asleep, lose count when I'm awake!! Hard to text when ur blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers lol as im working at the minute will have knock 5 out tonight as ive had 1 this morning tempted to go in the bathroom and knock one out but not sure the lass downstairs would be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok then after you have cum what is your recovery time, i think 30 mins is about normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum to quick is embarrassing, takes me about 5 min, but I can do this certainly 6 times. not much cum after the second time. I take about 10 min after 2nd time too. :s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cum to quick is embarrassing, takes me about 5 min, but I can do this certainly 6 times. not much cum after the second time. I take about 10 min after 2nd time too. :s"

Soz that sounds normal to me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go all night under certain conditions.

All I need is :

- toast

- brews

- m&m's

- oxygen

- a back brace

- scuba mask and snorkel

- tic tacs

- flannel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cum to quick is embarrassing, takes me about 5 min, but I can do this certainly 6 times. not much cum after the second time. I take about 10 min after 2nd time too. :s

Soz that sounds normal to me, "

realty I thought I was very quick and a turn off for ladies as many guys say they last 30 min to a few hour. I was always ashamed about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cum to quick is embarrassing, takes me about 5 min, but I can do this certainly 6 times. not much cum after the second time. I take about 10 min after 2nd time too. :s

Soz that sounds normal to me, "

realty I thought I was very quick and a turn off for ladies as many guys say they last 30 min to a few hour. I was always ashamed about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cum to quick is embarrassing, takes me about 5 min, but I can do this certainly 6 times. not much cum after the second time. I take about 10 min after 2nd time too. :s

Soz that sounds normal to me,

realty I thought I was very quick and a turn off for ladies as many guys say they last 30 min to a few hour. I was always ashamed about it."

Yeah you used the correct word,,,,, say,,,,lol yes on times any guy could go all night without coming, or can multi cum over hours,

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By *orks funMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

do it once do it right

if you can spend three hours shaggin.....you not doin it right in the first place !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of sex assuming "normal" probably refers to "vanilla" missionary mount/ straddle and ride to orgasm /dismount type contact.

Such a vague term - probably in the context of this site it refers to heterosexual vanilla missionary style humping.

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