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By *oungman2197 OP   Man
over a year ago

ll

How do you get recognised by couples? Want to join a couple but have trouble organising anything

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You need to make sure you're selling yourself to the best of your ability, do you think you're doing that?

Do you attend clubs and social events, get yourself mixing in the scene?

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By *erncoupleCouple
over a year ago

newquay


"How do you get recognised by couples? Want to join a couple but have trouble organising anything "

Make sure you send a message taylored to them showing you have thoroughly read their profile. Give them as much info about yourself. Make sure your profile has plenty of info and pics.

Just remember there are hundreds of guys to every couple / lady on fab all messaging trying to get noticed so try to stand out from the crowd.

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By *ustmethistimeCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands


"How do you get recognised by couples? Want to join a couple but have trouble organising anything "

A decent well presented profile always help.

Showing effort goes a long way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile, when messaging us actually knowledging us both x

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By *r and Mrs 81Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Always address messages to both never presume you are talking to one or the other,,, be chatty not hey nice pics lol x

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By *hreesumguysCouple
over a year ago

leicester


"How do you get recognised by couples? Want to join a couple but have trouble organising anything "

Send dick picks. Saying are you free lmao

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Age might also play a part for some. For us you're outside of our preferred range. Also, the profile says nothing that would entice us

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Don't send a dick pic and ask for fun ?? and realise that the male might be the one reading the message so although calling Mr4 sexy does give him a ego boost etc etc etc ....but sadly single males are many and we are few so simple maths in the end ..

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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham

Go to a club and mingle.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

In my case was conection , chemestry and atraction

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By *otBrunetteHimCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Don’t act like a “lad” be respectful to both, not just thinking it’s about the female half.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"How do you get recognised by couples? Want to join a couple but have trouble organising anything "

Your OP is longer than your profile... how do you expect to have any success if you can't even be bothered to write a profile?

It's hard for single men on here anyway, especially youngsters.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

As an experienced swinger..

Stay well clear of couples..

Stick to singles .. far more fun..

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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham

When messaging a couple only ever address the female half, they love this. Always but always send a dick pic in your first message. Text speak is an essential. Asking to meet right away is a massive turn on for the ladies, as is telling them you're passing through for a couple of hours in your truck. Finally, if a couple put that they are not looking for single guys on their profile, send them a message because you never know you could be the one to turn them. Good luck.

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By *ustmethistimeCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands


"As an experienced swinger..

Stay well clear of couples..

Stick to singles .. far more fun..

"

But the OP really wants to play with couples....

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"As an experienced swinger..

Stay well clear of couples..

Stick to singles .. far more fun..

But the OP really wants to play with couples...."

Obviously..

But I was just giving my opinion, which is what forums are for..

Wasn’t causing any offence, just passing on my experience.

The fantasy is definitely better than the reality..

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By *oungman2197 OP   Man
over a year ago

ll

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By *oungman2197 OP   Man
over a year ago

ll

Thanks everyone for your replies, will be updating my profile and taking all the comments on board

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Thanks everyone for your replies, will be updating my profile and taking all the comments on board "

Well done on updating your profile, not everyone takes advice and follows it but you have, a step in the right direction.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot


"As an experienced swinger..

Stay well clear of couples..

Stick to singles .. far more fun..

"

Not from my experience.. prefer couples, from experience it’s hubby vetting men for his naughty wife, more of a safety for women having hubby keeping an eye out

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Quite a few are put off when people refer to themselves as "professional"

In our view it just comes across as a load of pretentious self proclaimed nonsense.

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By *morouscoupledevonCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"Quite a few are put off when people refer to themselves as "professional"

In our view it just comes across as a load of pretentious self proclaimed nonsense."

This is a deal breaker for us too

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Professional what??? ??

For us talking as if there’s only one person about to read is a quick delete, also not reading our profile is a great way to show the lack of time some invest.

Let’s face it we aren’t into gangbangs as a couple and yet recently we were invited to travel 300 miles for the pleasure of others, oh and if we wanted to leave the fella at home…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A well written profile

Speak to both parties not just the female

Face/body pic attached (no dick pics)

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Quite a few are put off when people refer to themselves as "professional"

In our view it just comes across as a load of pretentious self proclaimed nonsense.

This is a deal breaker for us too"

I think they expect to get paid for their made up swinging profession.

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By *ustmethistimeCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands


"Quite a few are put off when people refer to themselves as "professional"

In our view it just comes across as a load of pretentious self proclaimed nonsense."

Agree totally.

It seems to us that some people just have no idea.

This is fair enough, but there is loads of advice available on these Forums, all that is needed is a little bit of effort.

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By *oungman2197 OP   Man
over a year ago

ll

When I refer to myself as a professional I am not referring to swinging. I am a young professional in my work outside of this site. Hope this helps

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"When I refer to myself as a professional I am not referring to swinging. I am a young professional in my work outside of this site. Hope this helps "

It's your profile to word how you wish, you can't please everyone so you just carry on being you

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We're a couple with a differant approch. We put a meet or status uo if we're looking. Maybe approch couples who are 'activly' looking. And offer what they are after. If they offer, Weds at 1pm. Don't message saying you can do Thursday at 3pm.

First public pic you have is a close up cock pic. I'd put that in freinds, to show on request. We don't need it, shoved in our face.

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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have some good pics and veri's on your profile.

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