FabSwingers.com forum: Accommodating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you decide if you will accommodate? Any tips and advice welcome. Thanks

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Do you want strangers in your bed?

Do you have neighbours that are nosy?

Do you have family that like to turn up unexpectedly

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

I had a bad experience one time after accommodating. She kept turning up unannounced for a few weeks afterwards. I’d have friends around, or family over and she’d just pull up and be asking who I have over, saying I better not be having other women in the house.

The best part, we only had a coffee and a kiss when she came round.

Now, I like to meet somewhere neutral for the first few meets. That way I can fully asses whether or not I want to let someone know my exact address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you decide if you will accommodate? Any tips and advice welcome. Thanks "

Depends on your lifestyle. I've got children so I won't accommodate.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I live alone

Neighbours don't complain with noise

I have a bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never to some stranger on a sex site.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We always have a social first and if we want to meet them again then we are happy to accommodate. We would certainly not give out our address to someone we have never met before

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"How do you decide if you will accommodate? Any tips and advice welcome. Thanks "

We don't advertise that we can accom as can't have frequent meets here (nosy neighbours). We do though, but only after a good social or if we have met before. We always insist on a social as too many weirdos and misleading pics on here !, ALWAYS check them out first before inviting home !!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I don't wish to mix my home life with my fab life which is why I don't accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet somewhere neutral for the first few times - a bar or cafe for a social, or hotel for something more sensual.

I've had a couple of bad experiences, so need to get to know people before I feel comfortable inviting them home. No particular rules for when that happens, just follow your instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t want men in my house or in my bed.

I don’t want men to know my address.

I don’t accommodate

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

We do but feel it’s different as a couple. I absolutely wouldn’t if was a single woman. We’ve been really lucky though

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

This is an interesting one… in fact a bit of a double standard to be honest. Because a lot of couples/women expect a man to accommodate in his own home but aren’t willing to do the same or even compromise by meeting in a neutral venue like a hotel at the very least.

The assumption is if a guy can’t or won’t accommodate then automatically they’re cheating on their partner which a lot of the time is far from the case.

There’s a number of different reasons why someone doesn’t want to or can’t have someone from this site in their home. If I could accommodate it certainly wouldn’t be with someone that I hadn’t met previously in a neutral venue or a social setting such as a party or club but that’s just me…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's easy we've small children so it's a no, but if we hadn't I don't think I would unless it's someone we'd met a few times prior, ultimately I wouldn't want a stranger in my house.

Plus I've extremely nosey neighbours.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't as I live with my partner ,he's here too and we keep our home just for us .

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is an interesting one… in fact a bit of a double standard to be honest. Because a lot of couples/women expect a man to accommodate in his own home but aren’t willing to do the same or even compromise by meeting in a neutral venue like a hotel at the very least.

The assumption is if a guy can’t or won’t accommodate then automatically they’re cheating on their partner which a lot of the time is far from the case.

I don’t expect a man to accommodate. In fact, even if he does - I’m not going to a strange man’s house!

Hotel or club only

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

I would always meet away from home, I'm happy to give a reasonable idea where I am so people can decide about travelling. I think you can get the measure of people fairly quickly over a pint or a coffee. Most that agree to a social meet will understand, but I had to walk away from one meet she was obviously going to be trouble. A bullet dodged.

Don't give a toss about what the neighbours think, the house is detached so as long as the windows are closed it's okay. I wondered a few times about the noises from the hot tub!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The assumption is if a guy can’t or won’t accommodate then automatically they’re cheating on their partner which a lot of the time is far from the case.

I don’t expect a man to accommodate. In fact, even if he does - I’m not going to a strange man’s house!

Hotel or club only

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

"How do you decide if you will accommodate? Any tips and advice welcome. Thanks "

If your prepared to fuck with them.........

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Never usually accom on first meet

Meet somewhere neutral.

If they’re not a bunny boiler I’m happy to have people round ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a upstairs flat so if it's going to be a late meet I tend to not bother Other than that I'm pretty open to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the same rules for anyone who I invite to my home, irrespective of where I meet them. As my view is that people are people, just where you meet them varies.

Instinct plays a huge part for me. Hence my need for chat and a social meet/date/whatever term you want to use to gauge chemistry etc. in person

The only somewhat bad experience I've ever had was with a guy not from fab.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Once I've met away somewhere for a coffee then yes if I think they OK and I have a empty house ! As for neibours I actually enjoy that they look! Have one set next door but one who have known maybe 40 years are so nosey! I like to keep them guessing! If I get dropped back home after a meet they say I won't kiss I say please do! Need to give the neibours something to talk about ! X

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