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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies do you always insist on a social for a first meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to have the social in the hotel room, then we can make the most of the night if the vibes there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always but mostly.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Absolutely !, we don't rule out play on the same day though

. After eight years here we have learnt the hard way that socials are a must, too many weirdos and utterly misleading photos on here

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Not really, never have been to me a pre request when comes to meeting but i went to a few socials and i do love the socials atmosphere

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By *utspanCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

We would prefer a social first, although a FaceTime call is our first approach before any meet, as you can get a good feeling from that. And eliminates fakes too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely !, we don't rule out play on the same day though

. After eight years here we have learnt the hard way that socials are a must, too many weirdos and utterly misleading photos on here

Literally this. Doesn't have to be drawn out. Quick coffee and a chat is good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would prefer a social first, although a FaceTime call is our first approach before any meet, as you can get a good feeling from that. And eliminates fakes too x"

That's a good shout

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

"Absolutely !, we don't rule out play on the same day though

. After eight years here we have learnt the hard way that socials are a must, too many weirdos and utterly misleading photos on here

Spot on. There has to be some chemistry too for us, a pretty face with no personality is a turn off!

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

Always without fail.

I arrange to meet and walk the dog along the harbour side. That way if someone doesn’t show up they haven’t wasted my time as Toby needs a walk anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet is always social only. No sex or sex chat.

If they get arsey or try to hint at sex stuff I won't meet them.

If a man can't accept "no" before we've even met there's not a chance in hell I'd trust him with anything.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I always have a social first, although I have been known to continue things straight after. The only exception would be in a club, then I've had chance to sit and chat first and seen them in person. I also feel safer in a private room in a club, as there are people nearby if there was an issue.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Ladies do you always insist on a social for a first meet?

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always without fail.

I arrange to meet and walk the dog along the harbour side. That way if someone doesn’t show up they haven’t wasted my time as Toby needs a walk anyway! "

Great idea.

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By *utspanCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

Yeah I'd say so. Then you can suss out if your compatible

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yep. Neutral, public location meet at least once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always start with a social. Vibe has to be right.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Always do a social first in a bar although they have been known to finish up in a bed on a few occasions.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Absolutely

If they don't want to,I move on.

I love the social side of here and it's safer as a woman to meet in public 1st.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Ladies do you always insist on a social for a first meet?

I do yes, it's safer that way. Also deters the fuk n run merchants...

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Absolutely

If they don't want to,I move on.

I love the social side of here and it's safer as a woman to meet in public 1st."

100%

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

"First meet is always social only. No sex or sex chat.

If they get arsey or try to hint at sex stuff I won't meet them.

If a man can't accept "no" before we've even met there's not a chance in hell I'd trust him with anything. "

Well said. Same for me x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I always have a social first but sometimes it has turned into more.Bit usually it's a chat and see if there is any chemistry .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, meet in a pub, few drinks & see how the conversation goes...

Then maybe some fun..

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I may not be a lady, but I prefer to have a social first.

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I prefer a social as well

More so the lady/couple can see that i'm genuine and also someone that they may wish to be more adult with another time

Both sides free to walk away with no hard feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, always a social first to gauge the attraction and chemistry! Plus I like to make sure they look the same in real life as they do on face pics sent.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

Yes social first.

I’ve had some great chats and been convinced that we’d get on, only to find the chemistry just wasn’t there

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Ladies do you always insist on a social for a first meet?

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don’t like socials - too datey for me.

I prefer the safety and spontaneity of club meets

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes and I make it clear that there will be no play involved. You never entirely know if you are going to like a person until you have met them in the flesh so that way there is zero expectations on either party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes prefer a social first. Also rather guarded about face photos when chatting and like to cam first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always want a social. For me I found women interesting and and makes me understand the person more before jumping into bed with them.

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss

Always a social sometimes two has to be chemistry

M n c x

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We ALWAYS have a social first.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

No but i do like a social meet, relaxes people & helps with any nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and I make it clear that there will be no play involved. You never entirely know if you are going to like a person until you have met them in the flesh so that way there is zero expectations on either party x"

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By *haky 80Man
over a year ago

Wellington

Well as a guy on here, I’m more than happy to meet up for a social first, in fact I say it in the first message I send, doesn’t get me anywhere tho lol

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

At least 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only …

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I like a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a woman but I only have socials first and would only have socials first. Doesn’t make sense meeting someone you don’t vibe with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a woman but I only have socials first and would only have socials first. Doesn’t make sense meeting someone you don’t vibe with. "

Besides I don’t put out until the 3rd date.

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By *trawberry MojitoWoman
over a year ago

over the hill & far away, like Princess Fiona.

I do yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Doesn’t matter how attractive a guy is via photo I can’t tell if I want to fuck him without meeting. I’ve had guys I find hellishly attractive with no spark, and guys who have surprised me by making me wet within seconds of sitting down to chat. All about the spark, and I can’t get that from messaging x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Most definitely, I always wear nice underwear just in case though

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Most definitely, I always wear nice underwear just in case though

Fancy having lunch?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Definitely.. and rarely play on the same day either.

Been on here ( on and off) for a while and learnt that profiles/people aren't always what they seem!

I have met lots of lovely people on here and friends with some for a few yrs.

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Absolutely !, we don't rule out play on the same day though

. After eight years here we have learnt the hard way that socials are a must, too many weirdos and utterly misleading photos on here

hilariously soooo true

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I always have a social before play. I've been very glad of that on occasion, if they've been a bit dodgy on the social at least they don't know where I live.

I also like that if I get stood up I've not put as much effort in as I would if I was planning on having sex, so it feels less of a waste.

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