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Off to a wedding, what's the best approach to getting some guy for the wife?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice more than welcome on this one. Myself and the OH are off to one of her ex colleagues weddings at the weekend, and with a rare opportunity for a night without kids I would like to make it a night to remember for her. She and I are both happy with her going with other guys, and have had minor experiences with friends in the past, but how do I/ we go about getting some fun in an environment such as a wedding reception? Any clues or hints gladly received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't risk spoiling a friends wedding as its her day and if someone kicks off then its unfair on the bride and groom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point! But wouldn't be that obvious, it goes without saying that we would be subtle and looking for obvious signs. I suppose that's really what I'm getting at, what are the signs to look for and give?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Certainly NOT looking to spoil the day in any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange a meet from here for after maybe?

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

look for the guy that turns up on his own and is either in a group of couples but obviously single....or better still, chat the wedding car/bus driver (lots of people now have vintage coaches/buses)He will have hours to wait around for the guests to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with the above suggestions, and also bear in mind that there is a lot of dancing at weddings so if you could encourage your OH to get up and boogie you should be able to read something of the body language of any on-lookers/dancing partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look for the guy that turns up on his own and is either in a group of couples but obviously single....or better still, chat the wedding car/bus driver (lots of people now have vintage coaches/buses)He will have hours to wait around for the guests to leave "

Totally agree with these suggestions as have helped me in the past....though was very unexpectedly blessed with a hot couple at my brothers wedding. The best man, his friend, had me back with his wife! Totally out of the blue but it was him who scouted me out for her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the tips, given me a few pointers that will hopefully help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weddings are great places to meet others... Especially for sharing. Lots of drinking, dancing and everyone is happy, usually horny and lots of hotel rooms to go around! In my experience anyway! The coach or wedding car driver is a great idea too!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

At around 9pm listen out for the guy propping up the bar telling everyone who walks up to buy a drink “my fucking bitch of a wife took the whole fucking lot the fat arsed cow… fuck it”. Get your missus to walk up to him and whisper “may I suck your cock please”.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your OH happy about gossip getting back to her old work mates? Or do they know you guys 'play' already?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They don't know, so I guess we would need to tread carefully

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"They don't know, so I guess we would need to tread carefully"

Fuck someone at a wedding and everyone will know by Monday morning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is looking more and more like a bad idea

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

As was send earlier far better to arrange a meet on here with someone local and not at the wedding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree arranged meet would be the better option but the OH isn't in to setting up meets its more of a spur of the moment thing, hence the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my swinging separate, so if I'm attending any function then I wouldn't entertain the idea of trying to have sex, especially as its not a swinging venue.

Depending on what times clubs will admit members in by, leave the wedding at 11pm ish and go to a club, they are usually open til 3am at the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible idea.

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

Look for singles staying in the hotel but not part of the wedding party.

Suggest having a break from the reception with a quiet drink as a couple at the hotel bar, see who you can make eye contact with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree arranged meet would be the better option but the OH isn't in to setting up meets its more of a spur of the moment thing, hence the OP"
so surprise her have someone waiting when u gt back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were staying at a hotel recently where there was a large wedding reception in the evening. Oh the temptation to send the wife into one of the groups of guys around the bar to see what she could get up to!

Have to tread very carefully though as you never know who's with their other half. It could be going very well until a very annoyed lady turns up and catches you flirting with a guy who said he was single purely based on a glimpse of stocking top and the suggestion of some fun..... You know how some guys think!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I was at a friends wedding a few years back and learned a cracking tip from a Canadian girl - who used this tip on me!!

The Canadians, if they fancy someone, simply write their room number inside a book of matches and give it to the guy/girl.

He/she knows the rest.

She did use a book of matches - yes. And much earlier, while we were chatting she had told me about this trick.

I hadn't seen it coming coz she was hot as fuck!

Hours later she handed me a book of matches - yeef'kin'ha!

I know it's rare to find a book of matches these days but I'm sure you could find something to suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We managed to squeeze an arranged meet in the middle of a family 60th at a hotel once, they thought we had nipped back to the room with a dodgy tummy!! Spent the rest of the party with knowing grins on our faces, hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Terrible idea."

why exactly is it a terrible idea maybe because you dont think its a good idea so it cant be a good idea lol.

We do spur of the moment things all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to know that I'm not alone on this. Was staring to question the whole idea. We're not out for upsetting anyone's night just some discrete fun on a rare night away together without the kids. Been some great tips and hopefully might get to use some. Thanks for the feedback

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over a year ago

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"I was at a friends wedding a few years back and learned a cracking tip from a Canadian girl - who used this tip on me!!

The Canadians, if they fancy someone, simply write their room number inside a book of matches and give it to the guy/girl.

He/she knows the rest.

She did use a book of matches - yes. And much earlier, while we were chatting she had told me about this trick.

I hadn't seen it coming coz she was hot as fuck!

Hours later she handed me a book of matches - yeef'kin'ha!

I know it's rare to find a book of matches these days but I'm sure you could find something to suit"

well, you learn something new everyday...maybe things have changed in the 9 years I have been over here....but I did not realise that that was what we Canadians did...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weddings and Funerals. Two events where personal vendettas/agendas should be left at home.

remember why you are there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weddings and Funerals. Two events where personal vendettas/agendas should be left at home.

remember why you are there."

can totally understand funerals but a wedding you are the to celebrate enjoy and have fun its not like they want to take someone against there will is it.

Its the same as anything at all with the swinging lifestyle its down to personal choice, good luck the op hope you find what you want.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Only one piece of advice - don't ask the groom...

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Arrange with someone on here for them to be in the hotel bar, and drift out of the wedding reception and meet up with them when it starts to wind down.

That way it keeps things separate from the function itself, and whoever you meet knows what to expect, which avoids potentially embarrassing situations - and as far as your OH is concerned, it could be a 'chance' encounter....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weddings and Funerals. Two events where personal vendettas/agendas should be left at home.

remember why you are there.

can totally understand funerals but a wedding you are the to celebrate enjoy and have fun its not like they want to take someone against there will is it.

Its the same as anything at all with the swinging lifestyle its down to personal choice, good luck the op hope you find what you want."
thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any last minute tips?

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"...well, you learn something new everyday...maybe things have changed in the 9 years I have been over here....but I did not realise that that was what we Canadians did...lol

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Neither did I until I was told it and experienced it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weddings and Funerals. Two events where personal vendettas/agendas should be left at home.

remember why you are there.

can totally understand funerals but a wedding you are the to celebrate enjoy and have fun its not like they want to take someone against there will is it.

Its the same as anything at all with the swinging lifestyle its down to personal choice, good luck the op hope you find what you want."

You following my posts???

I think most people at a wedding are there for the couple, to help celebrate, not on their own agenda of needing to fuck... or be desperate to be centre of attention.

Time and a place for everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weddings and Funerals. Two events where personal vendettas/agendas should be left at home.

remember why you are there.

can totally understand funerals but a wedding you are the to celebrate enjoy and have fun its not like they want to take someone against there will is it.

No not following your posts simply commenting on a thread.

There is no mention of been centre of attention, and i think you will find at most wedding parties there is sex between consenting adults at the end of the night and you can bet your bottom dollar it wont be the 1st 3some after a wedding party lol.

There is no mention from the op that he wants to dp his oh in the middle of a wedding party simply that he would like to chat flirt and see if anything comes around.

Like stated in my other post its the swinging lifestyle its down to personal choice and each to there own.

Its the same as anything at all with the swinging lifestyle its down to personal choice, good luck the op hope you find what you want.

You following my posts???

I think most people at a wedding are there for the couple, to help celebrate, not on their own agenda of needing to fuck... or be desperate to be centre of attention.

Time and a place for everything."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weddings and Funerals. Two events where personal vendettas/agendas should be left at home.

remember why you are there.

can totally understand funerals but a wedding you are the to celebrate enjoy and have fun its not like they want to take someone against there will is it.

No not following your posts simply commenting on a thread.

There is no mention of been centre of attention, and i think you will find at most wedding parties there is sex between consenting adults at the end of the night and you can bet your bottom dollar it wont be the 1st 3some after a wedding party lol.

There is no mention from the op that he wants to dp his oh in the middle of a wedding party simply that he would like to chat flirt and see if anything comes around.

Like stated in my other post its the swinging lifestyle its down to personal choice and each to there own.

Its the same as anything at all with the swinging lifestyle its down to personal choice, good luck the op hope you find what you want.

You following my posts???

I think most people at a wedding are there for the couple, to help celebrate, not on their own agenda of needing to fuck... or be desperate to be centre of attention.

Time and a place for everything."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any last minute tips?"

Guessing this might be a little late - but my number one tip would be to avoid the groom and the vicar!!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I dunno, the vicar might be up for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone in Stratford upon Avon tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one you've do this before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soo what happened?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bigger all happened, no opportunities, still had a good night despite the lack of any action

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