FabSwingers.com forum: What Should A Single Man Wear To A Meet?

By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

Ladies, couples do you expect smart dressed in a shirt?

Or is a smart shirt ok? A tshirt? How about a vest? Or shorts? Be naked upon your arrival?

Men does it matter what a woman is wearing to a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Killer heels. Always worked for me!

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Thong and spinning bow tie.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Clothes

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By *ltimateGemWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

At 35, have you never met women before?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Decorum and respect.

The clothes will then echo that.

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"At 35, have you never met women before?"

Never have i ever.. haha of course i have. Im askin for your preferences

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"At 35, have you never met women before?"
cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

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"Ladies, couples do you expect smart dressed in a shirt?

Or is a smart shirt ok? A tshirt? How about a vest? Or shorts? Be naked upon your arrival?

Men does it matter what a woman is wearing to a meet?

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slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.

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By *ltimateGemWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Much prefer a man that can think for himself. Now, that does impress me.

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
over a year ago

From a galaxy far far away

What you are wearing in your profile picture is lovely x

Personally i have a shirt thing...slowly unbuttoning to reveal a chest is just so sexy..

.so a nice shirt...and trousers/jeans...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady. "

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles.

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over a year ago

"Ladies, couples do you expect smart dressed in a shirt?

Or is a smart shirt ok? A tshirt? How about a vest? Or shorts? Be naked upon your arrival?

Men does it matter what a woman is wearing to a meet?

slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail. "

Kinda knackered if you're not slim tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles."

"What clothes are most likely to get me shagged? "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles.

"What clothes are most likely to get me shagged? ""

Something with money pinned on?

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

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"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles."
I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves. "

And those that don’t need help, are confident?

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

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"Ladies, couples do you expect smart dressed in a shirt?

Or is a smart shirt ok? A tshirt? How about a vest? Or shorts? Be naked upon your arrival?

Men does it matter what a woman is wearing to a meet?

slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.

Kinda knackered if you're not slim tho

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go modern or comfort fit then all chinos and shirts come in all fits. Go to propper menswear shops and they will make sure you look good leaving their shop. Their best form of advertising is making sure you look good.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

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"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.

And those that don’t need help, are confident?"
no everyone needs a bit of help now and again. There is nothing wrong with asking for help.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.

And those that don’t need help, are confident?no everyone needs a bit of help now and again. There is nothing wrong with asking for help. "

Agreed with asking for help if you don’t know.

Problem is often you get help from people who don’t realise the last thing to discover water is fish.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

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"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.

And those that don’t need help, are confident?no everyone needs a bit of help now and again. There is nothing wrong with asking for help.

Agreed with asking for help if you don’t know.

Problem is often you get help from people who don’t realise the last thing to discover water is fish."
what, sorry but I have never heard that saying in my life.

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By *eepshaftRyanMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Confidence.. not to be confused with cockiness.

Dress to impress and smell nice.. and just be you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail. "

You say you work in retail, but it could be on the fish counter at Morrison's for all we know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoes

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

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slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.

You say you work in retail, but it could be on the fish counter at Morrison's for all we know!"
23 years in menswear in Ireland

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.

If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?

Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?

Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.

And those that don’t need help, are confident?no everyone needs a bit of help now and again. There is nothing wrong with asking for help.

Agreed with asking for help if you don’t know.

Problem is often you get help from people who don’t realise the last thing to discover water is fish.what, sorry but I have never heard that saying in my life. "

Yup.

Hey just fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.

You say you work in retail, but it could be on the fish counter at Morrison's for all we know!23 years in menswear in Ireland "

The OP is from Birmingham, having shoes in the correct feet is a bonus there.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

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slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.

You say you work in retail, but it could be on the fish counter at Morrison's for all we know!23 years in menswear in Ireland

The OP is from Birmingham, having shoes in the correct feet is a bonus there. "
so go into a proper menswear shop and he'll be dressed properly

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Much prefer a man that can think for himself. Now, that does impress me. "

Ah, we do think for ourselves except that what we think often fails to meet women’s expectations. So we play the game of trying to figure out your expectations by asking. If thinking doesn’t work and telepathy fails, what are we men to do?!

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

I find it funny how it turned into a questioning my confidence and my dress sense ??

Thanks for those who tried to protect my honour

Really wasnt asking for it as advice for me personally lol.

Was more of a i wonder what people prefer kinda post. But thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so go into a proper menswear shop and he'll be dressed properly "

To most it'll sound very old fashioned and "menswear" will make many think of John Inman answering the phone in a deep voice!

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By *untocum1000TV/TS
over a year ago

newmarket

"Killer heels. Always worked for me!"
.....agree with jennie !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever they are most comfortable in is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 35, have you never met women before?"

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady. "

He would do better to impress them then.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Much prefer a man that can think for himself. Now, that does impress me. "

Great response.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer a man to wear whatever he us comfortable in and if I can then make him wear a smile...even better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Much prefer a man that can think for himself. Now, that does impress me. "

Maybe he just thought it an interesting enough subject to begin a forum post.

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Don’t have last nights Curry splashes down the front of you and all will be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t have last nights Curry splashes down the front of you and all will be good

Are you talking through experience?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"At 35, have you never met women before?

Never have i ever.. haha of course i have. Im askin for your preferences"

Ask the woman you're meeting.

Us women are all completely different individuals. Shocking I know

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Much prefer a man that can think for himself. Now, that does impress me.

Maybe he just thought it an lame enough subject to begin a forum post. "

FTFY

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Clean and smart works for me. I don't mind shirt or t-shirt if its ironed and fits well. I do dislike ripped jeans (i'm sorry i'm over 50 & always think i've thrown better away)....

For me its the confidence, not arrogance that a man brings to a meet.

LMP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does really bother me what he wears because he won't be wearing it for long. X

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I’ve always dressed smart except when I answered the hotel room door in a towel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys in jeans & T. Shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like guys in jeans & T. Shirts

That's my general attire when not at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mankini!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like guys in jeans & T. Shirts

That's my general attire when not at work

Sounds good me..

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Smart casual!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like guys in jeans & T. Shirts

That's my general attire when not at work

Sounds good me..

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

His birthday suit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skin-tight superhero outfit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im all for "wear what you feel most comfortable in" i dont feel comfortable in trousers or suits, it isnt me and isnt my style. So i wouod wear what i feel comfortable but smart in which would be a nice pair of dark smart jeans, a nice smart polo top and a smart "going out" jumper top. And a pair of brown boot shoes. If someone doesnt like your style and wants something different, then they arent for you..

Its like saying i want a female to wear 4" heels as i find them "sexy and smart" yet she may not feel comfortable wearing them...

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By *illingToHelpMan
over a year ago

Oldham or South Shore

Guys, don’t dress to impress. Doing so usually means wearing something that you feel uncomfortable in. Plus, you’ll be constantly thinking; “are they impressed?” and that just brings on unneeded anxiety.

Instead, dress to feel confident. Who cares if they’re impressed? Don’t let another person dictate how worthy you are. If what you’re wearing makes you feel like a handsome bad ass, that confidence will shine out of you.

Feel empowered, don’t feel judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you usually wear that you’re comfortable in. Clothes are coming off anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hold ups and heels

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

Dependent on the type of meet…… I’d wear a condom.

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Skin-tight superhero outfit."

Don’t go there. That’s my USP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip flops & Speedos 100%, nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A condom

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