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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East

Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Keyboard warriors x

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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East


"Keyboard warriors x"

Hilarious aren’t they

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By *uitedSuitorMan
over a year ago

Halifax / Leeds

We've had this on our couples profile too! It gives us guys such a bad name and a desperate image. I guess some guys think this site is a list of 'desperate' women...

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By *hris211978Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I don’t have experience of the men but I can tell you that there are plenty of women who can be road and just not very nice on here too. Such a shame to be like that as we are all here to be social and have a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."

Most of my rejected nut jobs come from guys who proposition me on here with a profile saying they're straight. When I say I don't meet straight guys, unless it's part of a couple, 9/10 dummies are well and truly spat!

I think it's part of an incel mentality. Like they're owed sex. Weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.

Most of my rejected nut jobs come from guys who proposition me on here with a profile saying they're straight. When I say I don't meet straight guys, unless it's part of a couple, 9/10 dummies are well and truly spat!

I think it's part of an incel mentality. Like they're owed sex. Weird."

Nailed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really don't get abusive messages from guys. Generally they're all either too shit for a reply or taken nicely when we reject.

We've blocked guys for a bit now as the standard was fucking dire, but yeah I think you've been unlucky.

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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.

Most of my rejected nut jobs come from guys who proposition me on here with a profile saying they're straight. When I say I don't meet straight guys, unless it's part of a couple, 9/10 dummies are well and truly spat!

I think it's part of an incel mentality. Like they're owed sex. Weird."

We only asked them not to send dick pics and that was it, as if their dick was something we needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."

Its just the sad ones that can't handle a knock back that do that kinda thing they need to grow up as they are the people that give all the single guys on here a bad name

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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East


"We really don't get abusive messages from guys. Generally they're all either too shit for a reply or taken nicely when we reject.

We've blocked guys for a bit now as the standard was fucking dire, but yeah I think you've been unlucky. "

Nar, second one in the last week or so. Last one said Mrs C was past it anyway

Mr

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By *ungislanderMan
over a year ago

Highlands and islands

The lack of respect from some people on here is Shocking if they get knocked back. And if there response is vile probably dodged a bullet.

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

It's actually ridiculous how often I hear 'men' doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."

We deleted a message from a guy because A) it had the usual zero effort and was likely a copy and paste job, and B) we just weren't interested in his profile anyway.

Jeez he got so shitty because we deleted his message without replying. Blocked.

If guys make an effort in a message to be genuine and talk to us as a couple, not an opportunity, if we aren't interested they'll have at least earned a polite response from us.

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By *ezzie_xWoman
over a year ago

london

I get these too. Especially when some guy doesn’t read my profile and does the exact opposite of what I’ve asked. Then get arsey when I pull them up on it!

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."

Don’t let it get to you, I know it’s frustrating. Block anyone who is abusive, the fact they can’t message you will annoy them even more haha.

And Mrs C is definitely not past it! Hope you guys are well xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have had offensive messages from couples too so it is not just men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t have experience of the men but I can tell you that there are plenty of women who can be road and just not very nice on here too. Such a shame to be like that as we are all here to be social and have a good time. "

Agree with this, had my fair share of rude women rejections as well...

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By *inkyguymkMan
over a year ago

Pattaya, Thailand

There's always a few bad eggs in any box, and believe it or not, they don't all share the same sex chromosomes.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Don't understand it either! My profile clearly states that "I dont meet men 1 on 1, ever!" But because Im Bi in MMF 3sums some guys seem to feel that Im obligated to be attracted to them. Got this in response to a polite no thank you....

"I have looked at your pic’s. No wander she won’t go near you and you can only get it with ugly guys and doesn’t It bother you that you can give her an STI only through dirty sex, with an ugly bloke. You will go to the Devils camp"

Reported and blocked! But really WTF guys, we're better than this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly never get abusive messages. I also never pull anyone up on their message. I would just delete it.

Not sure why certain profiles get abuse and others get none it does make me wonder….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also seen this pathetic behaviour.

I see it as a positive

Like I’ve had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insecurity I guess? Anyhow whatever it is it isn’t flattering and is instantly blocked lol

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's not just single guys. We've received that treatment from couples and single women too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use as a filter = lucky escape = block

but its not just guys the amount of abuse from other couples when told no thanks was alot ....

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Insecurity I guess? Anyhow whatever it is it isn’t flattering and is instantly blocked lol "

I had a cheeky peek at your profile. The exact words that went through my head were, "holy shit, what a gorgeous couple!"

Your bio is straightforward, well written, quirky and sexy.... It's completely beyond me why anyone would send abuse to a lovely couple like you guys????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.

Most of my rejected nut jobs come from guys who proposition me on here with a profile saying they're straight. When I say I don't meet straight guys, unless it's part of a couple, 9/10 dummies are well and truly spat!

I think it's part of an incel mentality. Like they're owed sex. Weird."

Absolutely agree!

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

To be honest, I dont understand it. By calling them names do they think women will change their mind?

It wouldnt surprise me if they cant even think haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."

Wounded Ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on...we all like a toot of horn at times... onk' onk'

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

It’s like bingo sometimes when you say no. Just luck which message you’ll get.

I don’t bother saying no often now and just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me giggle. Just because we are here doesn't mean we are game for everyone

Mrs x

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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East


"It's not just single men. "

In our experience it’s all we’ve came across but can imagine there’s plenty others that do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance like everybody must be stuck up becusee they don't want them. You can't hurt their fragile egos how dare you say no. ????

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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East


"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.

Don’t let it get to you, I know it’s frustrating. Block anyone who is abusive, the fact they can’t message you will annoy them even more haha.

And Mrs C is definitely not past it! Hope you guys are well xx"

Haha ah shit fancy bumping into you two in the forums and aye I know she’s banging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have very few issues, I'm wondering if it's how we initially respond.

There are of course a few with an undesirable attitude.

The worst we had was a well verified Woman.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"We have very few issues, I'm wondering if it's how we initially respond.

There are of course a few with an undesirable attitude.

The worst we had was a well verified Woman. "

I’ve noticed that the nastiness is far worse when I decline someone on my single profile than on my couple profile with my other half.

Once rather amusingly by the same guy within a couple of days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have very few issues, I'm wondering if it's how we initially respond.

There are of course a few with an undesirable attitude.

The worst we had was a well verified Woman.

I’ve noticed that the nastiness is far worse when I decline someone on my single profile than on my couple profile with my other half.

Once rather amusingly by the same guy within a couple of days.

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That just shows them for what they are.

Feeling it's kind of behind closed doors messaging one on one with a Woman, as opposed to the possibility of a Man also seeing the messages.

Weak.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Because they spend all day and night in their wankin chariot and think they are The alpha and how dare someone turn them down.

Or they are just...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Male pride/egos are extreme fragile

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

They probably think it's like the Caravan Club (Inbetweeners)

We just shag anyone and anything and get angry when it's not true

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By *issA_MrMMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"We really don't get abusive messages from guys. Generally they're all either too shit for a reply or taken nicely when we reject.

We've blocked guys for a bit now as the standard was fucking dire, but yeah I think you've been unlucky. "

Same for us. We’ve blocked single guys again, saves on the cock pics galore too A xx

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