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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So after a chat we've come to the conclusion that I (Shay) is much more into just FF play as I need to have a really great connection with males to let myself go after a troubling past.

Happy for R to fuck other women but I just can't do it with the guys unless there's a massive connection.

I guess I just want to know if this is okay in the swing community or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course it is.

Your body. You decide what you do with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Course it is.

Your body. You decide what you do with it.

"
I guess I assumed it would just put a lot of people off us

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Your in charge of your own destiny, you make the rules .. simples

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's fine, how you do things is entirely up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never ever have to justify yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course it is.

Your body. You decide what you do with it.

I guess I assumed it would just put a lot of people off us "

But you're not here to please other people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Course it is.

Your body. You decide what you do with it.

I guess I assumed it would just put a lot of people off us "

It might, you're never going to appeal to everyone

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s completely fine, as long as it works for you and probably works well for some couples too, everyone has their own dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after a chat we've come to the conclusion that I (Shay) is much more into just FF play as I need to have a really great connection with males to let myself go after a troubling past.

Happy for R to fuck other women but I just can't do it with the guys unless there's a massive connection.

I guess I just want to know if this is okay in the swing community or not "

I don't think fucking loads of other men is going to help your mental health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you swing how youwant to swing it has bugger all to do with others ...thats what make the scene so good is the choice the choice to be you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for everyone's replies, fairly new to the scene so just wanted to make sure!

Obviously if it wasn't generally accepted we would have discontinued the profile, but great to hear that it is

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Play however you wish, as long as everyone is in agreement. Some of the hardened swingers wouldn't be impressed, but they can do their own thing and we can all do our own thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Play however you wish, as long as everyone is in agreement. Some of the hardened swingers wouldn't be impressed, but they can do their own thing and we can all do our own thing "
very true seems to be a few more that are good and enjoy this than we thought

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for everyone's replies, fairly new to the scene so just wanted to make sure!

Obviously if it wasn't generally accepted we would have discontinued the profile, but great to hear that it is "

Don't try and be generally accepted, you never will be. There is always someone who'll tell you you're doing it wrong.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Every couple we have met does things slightly differently. There are no rules, just whatever you're comfortable with I hope you find what works for you both.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for everyone's replies, fairly new to the scene so just wanted to make sure!

Obviously if it wasn't generally accepted we would have discontinued the profile, but great to hear that it is

Don't try and be generally accepted, you never will be. There is always someone who'll tell you you're doing it wrong."
this is definately something we've realised haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every couple we have met does things slightly differently. There are no rules, just whatever you're comfortable with I hope you find what works for you both.

Mrs TMN x"
ah all this positivity is amazing

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

There are no set dynamics. As long as you are clear and upfront about your limits and what you are looking for then it's absoloutly fine! "Your body, your choice" is a good adage for this site. As is " Clear boundaries make for good meets"

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