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By *rivatecouple30s OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle and Edinburgh

I’m looking for some genuine tips from anyone who (like me) has been straight forever but now would love the idea of playing with a lady.

It’s been a kink of mine for a while now and I really want to experience it. Anyone who can imagine where my head’s at right now please reply or drop me a DM. Thanks xx

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Hi OP. I would highly recommend having socials. Lots of socials with ladies who you’re interested in. I find I only play with women I really get on with and become good friends with. I need to Vibe on many levels. It can be daunting so it’s great knowing you can laugh together if it doesn’t work sexually

I hope that helped. Good luck lovely. Enjoy it, it’s an amazing feeling

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By *rivatecouple30s OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle and Edinburgh

Thank you so much, that’s such good advice xx

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By *athyperkinsCouple
over a year ago

Lifton


"I’m looking for some genuine tips from anyone who (like me) has been straight forever but now would love the idea of playing with a lady.

It’s been a kink of mine for a while now and I really want to experience it. Anyone who can imagine where my head’s at right now please reply or drop me a DM. Thanks xx"

No advice but I am in same boat! Had a social recently and plan to meet again and take it further but it's daunting for sure! T x

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Guys trying for the first time have the same pressure and anxiety.

I had a very understanding couple and they were willing to go at my pace..

Enjoy it you two, and others that are curious, men or women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi OP. I would highly recommend having socials. Lots of socials with ladies who you’re interested in. I find I only play with women I really get on with and become good friends with. I need to Vibe on many levels. It can be daunting so it’s great knowing you can laugh together if it doesn’t work sexually

I hope that helped. Good luck lovely. Enjoy it, it’s an amazing feeling "

Awesome advice, don't over think it just go with the flow and enjoy yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner is in the same boat (and I wholeheartedly support her in her endeavours) but, bloody hell its tricky finding someone, especially someone local …

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

L always said she knew she was bi.

Her first time had her in tears.

First time she had been with another person since we had been married.

Secondly she felt a release on her sexuality.

Unfortunately, I suspect she is trying to catch up on time missed.

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By *efinitely worth it...Woman
over a year ago

East Riding of Yorkshire

Hi OP, no advice to give but I'm also curious and feeling ready to meet a woman/couple. I think I'll feel more comfortable with a man there, at least I'll know what to do with him

I also think socials help break the ice. Hope you explore your desires, I'm sure you'll be popular, great pics too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have put myself down as bi, perhaps a little curious, always wanted to know how another woman feels and whilst playing in a couples room yesterday with hubby it naturally progressed into me exploring her body, oh my goodness, I can see what all the fuss is about, I literally had no idea what to do with her though, totally winged it she was amazing and so patient with me. Hoping it's something to try again sometime, especially as Mr P enjoyed the view.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Hi OP, no advice to give but I'm also curious and feeling ready to meet a woman/couple. I think I'll feel more comfortable with a man there, at least I'll know what to do with him

I also think socials help break the ice. Hope you explore your desires, I'm sure you'll be popular, great pics too x"

I've never met up with a woman alone, like you I initially felt more comfortable meeting a couple because at least I know what I'm doing with one of them!

OP I've met some lovely couples who have let me explore my bi side. I've found it impossible to find a single woman on here with the same level of understanding, and I can understand them not wanting to be someone's experiment!

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By *eversayNeverCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not much advice to offer unfortunately.

Just wanted to add that, although the search is often quite tricky, it’s totally worth it when you find another girl you get sexy vibes with.

Totally worth it!!

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Go with the flow you will know if you want to play with her x

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We are looking to dip our toes in with just online chat to start with?? Try and build a connection?? Would just be GG chat with Jeni, although Im sure she will inform me later of any goings on!

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Hi OP. I would highly recommend having socials. Lots of socials with ladies who you’re interested in. I find I only play with women I really get on with and become good friends with. I need to Vibe on many levels. It can be daunting so it’s great knowing you can laugh together if it doesn’t work sexually

I hope that helped. Good luck lovely. Enjoy it, it’s an amazing feeling "

Got to be some of the best advice we have read. So well put xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I considered myself straight up to the age of about 42, having always admired the female body I'd never thought I was bi though. Our first encounter with a couple where she was bi just flowed, I explored her the same way I like to be played with, do what comes natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the flow don’t put any pressure on yourself I recently went through feeling bicurious so I started meeting up with other girls it really helps if you just go with the flow dont add any pressure to yourself it is a nerve racking thing to do at first but I surprised myself and really enjoyed it good luck cx

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss


"I considered myself straight up to the age of about 42, having always admired the female body I'd never thought I was bi though. Our first encounter with a couple where she was bi just flowed, I explored her the same way I like to be played with, do what comes natural. "
I was the same until 50 and exactly that was amazing I now consider my self bi sexual ??

Regards c xxx

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By *rivatecouple30s OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle and Edinburgh

I feel invigorated after all your responses thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it goes well for you and you end up having fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who popped their bi cherry today, my best advice would be to find a couple or woman you really get on with. We chatted for a while, I asked lots of questions and they answered them all. They were very understanding. We met for a social to see if we clicked face to face. Then we arranged today. It was amazing. Hope this helps. Happy to chat privately if you need to.

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By *haved and SmoothCouple
over a year ago

North East


"I’m looking for some genuine tips from anyone who (like me) has been straight forever but now would love the idea of playing with a lady.

It’s been a kink of mine for a while now and I really want to experience it. Anyone who can imagine where my head’s at right now please reply or drop me a DM. Thanks xx"

I would say dont think about it to much in advance, my first time with a lady was unexpected and realy worked for me…..id not say im bi but just like to enjoy life in whatever form it comes xxx

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"I feel invigorated after all your responses thank you xx"

That’s the main thing. It’s good to know there are people feeling/have felt the same as you, keep us updated xx

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

This is an interesting thread and hopefully useful to the OP. My first time with a woman was completely unplanned, after a night out with a friend we slept in the same bed and it just happened, what a great experience that I wanted more of.

My attraction to women though seems to drift in and out. I can not be with a woman for a couple of years and suddenly it becomes the most important thing in my life. Once I have had my female fix those feelings can lay dormant for quite a long time. Not sure if anyone else is like this ?

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