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By *erks_Voyeur OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading

A lovely couple have invited me to meet them in a hotel bar with a view to retiring for coffee and a show in their room - as long as we 'click'.

I am reasonably sociable and passably presentable but still a little nervous of doing/saying the wrong thing.

Has anyone been in this situation and can share any disasters for me to avoid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a degree it's like any other scenario - you can't guarantee that you will get along. But you can do your best to not be offensive or upset them.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

imagine them naked - its supposed to help get you the job

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Chat to both of them

Keep it light to start with - don't open with "so can I cum on her face then"

Offer to buy a round.

If it seems like you've been chatting about the weather, downton and funny meet stories for ages it's fine to ask if they'd like things to go any further.

A touch on the arm when making conversation is fine, but keep your hands to yourself!

Don't let the conversation get too saucy if it's a family place and bear in mind that they are staying there and won't.thank you if, when they go down to breakfast, all the staff stop AMD stare at the couple who's friend was loudly talking about ball gags and bukake...

Good luck.

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By *tra vidaCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Be yourself and don't even think about trying to be anything else. Be sexy, open and chilled.

We sometimes have a problem with guys trying to be too nice and desperate not to say the wrong thing. Ask them questions and by being focused on them your inhibibitions will fall.

And enjoy, it's exciting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try and relax and be yourself, turn up with an open mind. Remember that just because you're the single guy it's not all about you having to impress them, it's give and take

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By *erks_Voyeur OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading

Great stuff - cheers all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great stuff - cheers all"

Just go along and - to use a well worn cliche - be yourself. And remember - it's a two way street. Just because they are letting you into their relationship for a short while, does NOT mean you have to do all the 'giving'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be yourself, relax and just chat...if ot doesn't go anywhere you havven't lost anything if it does bonus! Chat to both, be respectful and listen to their wants so if it does go further thn a coffee you know their limits!

Relax and enjoy!!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Just try and relax and be yourself, turn up with an open mind. Remember that just because you're the single guy it's not all about you having to impress them, it's give and take "

+1

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By *tra vidaCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

And???

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