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"This has sprung out of personal conversations I had with guys in the last few weeks...I wonder, do all of you women get actively excited to see your man with another guy? Or do some/few of you just participate in a bisexual trio with two men just to please your husband's kink and it doesn't do anything for you? Sort of, out of reciprocation for his helping you with your bisexual kinks with other women?" Its not their kink. It's their sexuality | |||
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"This has sprung out of personal conversations I had with guys in the last few weeks...I wonder, do all of you women get actively excited to see your man with another guy? Or do some/few of you just participate in a bisexual trio with two men just to please your husband's kink and it doesn't do anything for you? Sort of, out of reciprocation for his helping you with your bisexual kinks with other women? Its not their kink. It's their sexuality" It's just a kink, judging from what comes out of some men's mouths about their shenanigans with other men...but even so, that's not the focus of my discourse. I asked about how women feel seeing their bisexual men in action because sometimes I have been told by swinger husbands that "the wife wouldn't like to see me with another man, even though I love it"...And that generates all sorts of curious questions in my head..."Have you two actually spoken about a bisexual trio with another man and she said she would be disgusted by you if she saw you with another guy? Would she stop having sex with you? Divorce you? Would she just idly go through the motions or seeing man-to-man sex until the time came for her to be fucked by the two men?" Or is it just men being scared to reveal their sexuality to their swinger wives? I can't know that because I am not in people's heads...I'm just intrigued by the difference between swinger wives who get their vaginas moist by the bare sight of two men together and swinger wives who--allegedly-- wouldn't want to see their men at all with another man... | |||
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"This has sprung out of personal conversations I had with guys in the last few weeks...I wonder, do all of you women get actively excited to see your man with another guy? Or do some/few of you just participate in a bisexual trio with two men just to please your husband's kink and it doesn't do anything for you? Sort of, out of reciprocation for his helping you with your bisexual kinks with other women? Its not their kink. It's their sexuality It's just a kink, judging from what comes out of some men's mouths about their shenanigans with other men...but even so, that's not the focus of my discourse. I asked about how women feel seeing their bisexual men in action because sometimes I have been told by swinger husbands that "the wife wouldn't like to see me with another man, even though I love it"...And that generates all sorts of curious questions in my head..."Have you two actually spoken about a bisexual trio with another man and she said she would be disgusted by you if she saw you with another guy? Would she stop having sex with you? Divorce you? Would she just idly go through the motions or seeing man-to-man sex until the time came for her to be fucked by the two men?" Or is it just men being scared to reveal their sexuality to their swinger wives? I can't know that because I am not in people's heads...I'm just intrigued by the difference between swinger wives who get their vaginas moist by the bare sight of two men together and swinger wives who--allegedly-- wouldn't want to see their men at all with another man..." Some women aren't at all attracted to or by the thought of 2 men together. Even the opposite of attracted. So they would not be happy to discover their husband/ partner is bi. | |||
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"Jane would love to see me fucked by another bloke, and I mean a hairy arsed manly bloke, not a lovely pre-op, feminine looking and sounding, male to female transsexual. Not in this life time I keep telling her. Frank" That’s a shame | |||
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"My gf is really keen to see me suck a guy " You both look hot! Could be fun | |||
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"We are both bi and were open with each other about our bisexuality very early on in the relationship. I am not doing this to just please john, i really cant wait to play with a bi cpl and watch him in action . We have a amazing relationship which is very open and no secrets so in answer to your question no i am not doing it to please john. I really want to see him playing with another man " Does he enjoy seeing you with another woman? | |||
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"since when has sexuality been a kink sorry but you cant dress that up as such .. people need to own their sexuality rather than make it a kink or a road to pussy when with a bi couple .... we are both bi and by bi i mean for real ie both bi since teens so to us its normal and a massive turn on for both ... one golden rule we have if one say's no we both say no so we never take a hit just to please each other ...but lucky for us theres very little sexual wise to say no to so eassy to spot a fab bi guy who use's bi as a ticket to pussy and thats to say man on man first and that involves kissing ...most soon dont want to meet when male on male kissing and fucking are involved ...." I'm fully bi. Probably just as interested in receiving cock as playing with the lady in a couple. | |||
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"Sad but true my now ex husband kept quiet about being gay when we were married.after 8 years of marriage i found out and that was the end of that.divorced in 2005" not sure how that relates to this post ????? | |||
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"Hooking up with gay and bisexual men is not that straight forward, I’m 52, my partner also 52, I work as a personal trainer and I am in the gym 6 days a week. Life in the straight world is easier on men, but on Grindr or any other gay/bi dating app, unless you have a body like a Calvin Klein model it is tough. Gay and bisexual men get labelled as fat, just because they don’t have a six pack. It’s kinda crap tbh. " What about Bears? If you use the Reply + quote button we know which post you are replying to. | |||
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"Sad but true my now ex husband kept quiet about being gay when we were married.after 8 years of marriage i found out and that was the end of that.divorced in 2005" But you still enjoy the occasional bisexual trio with Norm. I asked him about you actually, whether you fancied participating in a trio | |||
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"Being bisexual isn’t a kink. Sexual orientation isn’t a choice either" | |||
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"We are both bi and were open with each other about our bisexuality very early on in the relationship. I am not doing this to just please john, i really cant wait to play with a bi cpl and watch him in action . We have a amazing relationship which is very open and no secrets so in answer to your question no i am not doing it to please john. I really want to see him playing with another man Does he enjoy seeing you with another woman?" Yes he does. We are both bisexual and want to share everything together as a cpl. | |||
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"We are both bi and were open with each other about our bisexuality very early on in the relationship. I am not doing this to just please john, i really cant wait to play with a bi cpl and watch him in action . We have a amazing relationship which is very open and no secrets so in answer to your question no i am not doing it to please john. I really want to see him playing with another man Does he enjoy seeing you with another woman? Yes he does. We are both bisexual and want to share everything together as a cpl. " | |||
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"My gf is really keen to see me suck a guy " would. Love to be sucked by a man and suck my first cock | |||
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"This goes back to how we’re made to think .. On here women claim to be bi, when many aren’t interested in it, they do it in clubs for attention or to please Hubs ..( not all before you jump on me).. But so many guys are scared to admit being bi as it’s not as acceptable as a woman being bi ( even in this day and age).. So many guys with straight on their profile that message me .. Some think it would put some people off meeting then .. such a shame people can’t be themselves.." This is so true....... | |||
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"I get super turned on seeing Mr with another guy, I also love pleasing a guy with Mr. Personally I wouldn’t do anything to please someone else if I wasn’t comfortable with it too. All down to personal preference but don’t knock it until you have experienced it. Mrs " | |||
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"I once fucked a guy in front of his wife she just sat on the sofa fully clothed and just watched us, she never said a word until we had finished then she said would you like a cup of tea now,it was all a bit strange declined and hastily left." I would have too, how awkward!! | |||
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"I'm in a really odd position. My wife who is bisexual herself isn't turned on by my bisexuality or kinks. She is however completely supportive of my going out to meet others, male or female to scratch my sexual and kinky itches. The trouble is because she doesn't get turned on at all she also isn't interested or want any involvement beyond a social, so it doesn't feel right to me to go and do it, it feels immoral somehow and so I rarely do. Its difficult to articulate it, but without her involvement it feels wrong and I just don't enjoy it like I want to. I'm not really sure what the solution is to be honest, she can no more change her nature than I can change mine - but I wish it were different because in every other way we have a great marriage " Understandable for you to feel this way but at least she has given you the option. | |||
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"I'm in a really odd position. My wife who is bisexual herself isn't turned on by my bisexuality or kinks. She is however completely supportive of my going out to meet others, male or female to scratch my sexual and kinky itches. The trouble is because she doesn't get turned on at all she also isn't interested or want any involvement beyond a social, so it doesn't feel right to me to go and do it, it feels immoral somehow and so I rarely do. Its difficult to articulate it, but without her involvement it feels wrong and I just don't enjoy it like I want to. I'm not really sure what the solution is to be honest, she can no more change her nature than I can change mine - but I wish it were different because in every other way we have a great marriage Understandable for you to feel this way but at least she has given you the option." Absolutely, I see the frustrations of many on this site and know I'm technically in a better position as them; but the truth is if I cannot come home after a meet and share the details to an interested wife like I would for any other evening out, I'm in no better position than those having to meet others behind their partners backs. I do believe life is not the same if you cannot share it. | |||
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"Mrs isntturned on by m on m action but as a sexual submissive...she loves to please and if she sees me happy enjoying cock...well that makes her happy. And she likes to please the other guy too....so yeah we do enjoy sharing cock." I just wanted to say your profile picture is fantastic, the lady has a great bum | |||
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"I'm in a really odd position. My wife who is bisexual herself isn't turned on by my bisexuality or kinks. She is however completely supportive of my going out to meet others, male or female to scratch my sexual and kinky itches. The trouble is because she doesn't get turned on at all she also isn't interested or want any involvement beyond a social, so it doesn't feel right to me to go and do it, it feels immoral somehow and so I rarely do. Its difficult to articulate it, but without her involvement it feels wrong and I just don't enjoy it like I want to. I'm not really sure what the solution is to be honest, she can no more change her nature than I can change mine - but I wish it were different because in every other way we have a great marriage Understandable for you to feel this way but at least she has given you the option. Absolutely, I see the frustrations of many on this site and know I'm technically in a better position as them; but the truth is if I cannot come home after a meet and share the details to an interested wife like I would for any other evening out, I'm in no better position than those having to meet others behind their partners backs. I do believe life is not the same if you cannot share it." I think you are overthinking it. Many men go out with their mates to watch football, car racing and other such boring sports. Their wife doesn't want to hear about it but she's perfectly happy for her man to go out and have fun. | |||
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"I'm in a really odd position. My wife who is bisexual herself isn't turned on by my bisexuality or kinks. She is however completely supportive of my going out to meet others, male or female to scratch my sexual and kinky itches. The trouble is because she doesn't get turned on at all she also isn't interested or want any involvement beyond a social, so it doesn't feel right to me to go and do it, it feels immoral somehow and so I rarely do. Its difficult to articulate it, but without her involvement it feels wrong and I just don't enjoy it like I want to. I'm not really sure what the solution is to be honest, she can no more change her nature than I can change mine - but I wish it were different because in every other way we have a great marriage " Does she have to be turned on? My Mrs is sexually sub and loves to please and she is at her happiest when people around her are having fun. She ma6 not be turned on over some kinks but she does like to get involved and please others. We got frustrated by bi men on this site that we got a hotel and arranged a meet with five...four turned up and must say there were plenty of guys to keep the Mrs busy and happy while I too enjoyed what was on offer!!!! Maybe she feels left out of the loop so to speak.....bi mmf porn I have seen the woman always looks like a spare wheel. Not always a fun position to be in for anyone. | |||
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"Seen a few posts about it being a 'kink' - certainly more lifestyle than a kink, something that I take a great pleasure when there's 3 people involved with a MMF threesome - get equally turned on by men and females in a threesome but bizarrely only by females when one on one" Entirely agree with your honest summarising and pleasures of bi MMF | |||
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"This has sprung out of personal conversations I had with guys in the last few weeks...I wonder, do all of you women get actively excited to see your man with another guy? Or do some/few of you just participate in a bisexual trio with two men just to please your husband's kink and it doesn't do anything for you? Sort of, out of reciprocation for his helping you with your bisexual kinks with other women?" I absolutely love watch my husband with other men, it's a huge turn on for me xx | |||
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"It turns us both on watching each other Bisexual mm play before full attention to me " Sounds like a great way to get started tease with wife with a show | |||
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"since when has sexuality been a kink sorry but you cant dress that up as such .. people need to own their sexuality rather than make it a kink or a road to pussy when with a bi couple .... we are both bi and by bi i mean for real ie both bi since teens so to us its normal and a massive turn on for both ... one golden rule we have if one say's no we both say no so we never take a hit just to please each other ...but lucky for us theres very little sexual wise to say no to so eassy to spot a fab bi guy who use's bi as a ticket to pussy and thats to say man on man first and that involves kissing ...most soon dont want to meet when male on male kissing and fucking are involved ...." I think any man who derives any level of pleasure from sexual contact with another man is bisexual or homosexual, of course, and it is unimportant whether they don’t want to kiss or fuck or hold hands or whatever. | |||
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"i am one " A fit one too. | |||
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"thx lol" He’s a handsome chap too. | |||
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"since when has sexuality been a kink sorry but you cant dress that up as such .. people need to own their sexuality rather than make it a kink or a road to pussy when with a bi couple .... we are both bi and by bi i mean for real ie both bi since teens so to us its normal and a massive turn on for both ... one golden rule we have if one say's no we both say no so we never take a hit just to please each other ...but lucky for us theres very little sexual wise to say no to so eassy to spot a fab bi guy who use's bi as a ticket to pussy and thats to say man on man first and that involves kissing ...most soon dont want to meet when male on male kissing and fucking are involved .... I think any man who derives any level of pleasure from sexual contact with another man is bisexual or homosexual, of course, and it is unimportant whether they don’t want to kiss or fuck or hold hands or whatever. " Hmmm… if you closed your eyes / were blindfolded and received an anonymous blow job or had anal sex I suspect you would derive sexual pleasure from it… As many things sexual in this life, things are rarely black and white and it is unfortunate that Fab doesn’t allow for other types of sexuality to be defined. I’m not attracted to men but know a handsome bastard when I see one, appreciate a good looking cock, I find orgies, group sex, gang bangs, DP and DVP sexually intoxicating. Seeing men and women fuck is exciting, a bunch of guys stood around stroking themselves ready to fuck, unashamedly naked and hard is just amazing. Working with a husband to pleasure his wife, balls slapping together, the feel of our cocks moving together inside her is absolute sexual bliss. Bi-curious?… probably not, maybe just a hetero-flexible hedonist but there’s no category for that… | |||
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"since when has sexuality been a kink sorry but you cant dress that up as such .. people need to own their sexuality rather than make it a kink or a road to pussy when with a bi couple .... we are both bi and by bi i mean for real ie both bi since teens so to us its normal and a massive turn on for both ... one golden rule we have if one say's no we both say no so we never take a hit just to please each other ...but lucky for us theres very little sexual wise to say no to so eassy to spot a fab bi guy who use's bi as a ticket to pussy and thats to say man on man first and that involves kissing ...most soon dont want to meet when male on male kissing and fucking are involved .... I think any man who derives any level of pleasure from sexual contact with another man is bisexual or homosexual, of course, and it is unimportant whether they don’t want to kiss or fuck or hold hands or whatever. Hmmm… if you closed your eyes / were blindfolded and received an anonymous blow job or had anal sex I suspect you would derive sexual pleasure from it… As many things sexual in this life, things are rarely black and white and it is unfortunate that Fab doesn’t allow for other types of sexuality to be defined. I’m not attracted to men but know a handsome bastard when I see one, appreciate a good looking cock, I find orgies, group sex, gang bangs, DP and DVP sexually intoxicating. Seeing men and women fuck is exciting, a bunch of guys stood around stroking themselves ready to fuck, unashamedly naked and hard is just amazing. Working with a husband to pleasure his wife, balls slapping together, the feel of our cocks moving together inside her is absolute sexual bliss. Bi-curious?… probably not, maybe just a hetero-flexible hedonist but there’s no category for that… " Definitely this. And to add, I'd love a female partner in crime as in a relationship or a fwb | |||
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"i am one " You're a wife of a bisexial man? | |||
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