FabSwingers.com forum: No strings club buddy

By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

I like to go to clubs but mainly go fairly local.

I would like to experience more clubs further afield so I am looking for a fem club buddy to share the experience with.

We don't have to play together if we are not feeling it but looking for a fun person to share the UK club scene with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it have to be a woman?

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By *ondcpl4meetCouple
over a year ago

North of the river

"Why does it have to be a woman?"

It's cheaper lol

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By *ucyLasticsWoman
over a year ago

North West

Exactly. Cheaper if you have a woman with you. I would call that using some poor woman

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By *ucyLasticsWoman
over a year ago

North West

Exactly. Cheaper if you have a woman with you. I would call that using some poor woman

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By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

Most clubs have a limit on single men.

It opens up the options of where you can go and the type of nights.

You my end up swapping with a couple even though this person may not wish to play with myself.

Yes it may be cheaper as pointed out my other members but not the reason for the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. Cheaper if you have a woman with you. I would call that using some poor woman"
why using... if she's going anyway and has a companion. It might work in her favor?? Plus a free lift there and back... half price hotel room... sounds like a win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your best bet would be to find a likeminded male. Just make sure you get yourself on guest lists early to avoid disappointment.

You could even make a couples profile on here if you get on well enough and get meets that way.

A lot of couples that are into swapping want to swap with other real couples. That’s part of the fun and they would be able to tell you aren’t a genuine couple easily.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Most clubs have a limit on single men.

It opens up the options of where you can go and the type of nights.

You my end up swapping with a couple even though this person may not wish to play with myself.

Yes it may be cheaper as pointed out my other members but not the reason for the post.

So you're trying to circumvent the limits on single men which are in place to keep the numbers sensible.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

So could be a friend with benefits?

If there was someone who fits your bill ?

I have seen both guys and gals put up they’d like someone to go with ? Usually because they need a lift ?

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By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

"Your best bet would be to find a likeminded male. Just make sure you get yourself on guest lists early to avoid disappointment.

You could even make a couples profile on here if you get on well enough and get

A lot of couples that are into swapping want to swap with other real couples. That’s part of the fun and they would be able to tell you aren’t a genuine couple easily."

Yes I take your point about the genuine couple. In this situation I would would say we are just friends though.

I was due to go a club with a female friend recently but I hadn't thought of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your best bet would be to find a likeminded male. Just make sure you get yourself on guest lists early to avoid disappointment.

You could even make a couples profile on here if you get on well enough and get

A lot of couples that are into swapping want to swap with other real couples. That’s part of the fun and they would be able to tell you aren’t a genuine couple easily.

Yes I take your point about the genuine couple. In this situation I would would say we are just friends though.

I was due to go a club with a female friend recently but I hadn't thought of that."

Another option would be arranging a meet at a club with female member and going as her plus 1.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Why does it have to be a woman?"

You get noticed as a guy in clubs, when you’re in the company of a woman

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Your best bet would be to find a likeminded male. Just make sure you get yourself on guest lists early to avoid disappointment.

You could even make a couples profile on here if you get on well enough and get

A lot of couples that are into swapping want to swap with other real couples. That’s part of the fun and they would be able to tell you aren’t a genuine couple easily.

Yes I take your point about the genuine couple. In this situation I would would say we are just friends though.

I was due to go a club with a female friend recently but I hadn't thought of that."

Don’t sweat it mate; I’ve been to clubs as a ‘couple’ with female friends, played with other couples, and none of them queried our ‘genuine’ status

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By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

"So could be a friend with benefits?

If there was someone who fits your bill ?

I have seen both guys and gals put up they’d like someone to go with ? Usually because they need a lift ? "

Yes I would prefer the friends with benefits, even up for a swinging relationship. Just put no stir us as it is less pushy and also that is also what someone may be looking for

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I’m looking for similar but not just a club buddy

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Most clubs have a limit on single men.

It opens up the options of where you can go and the type of nights.

You my end up swapping with a couple even though this person may not wish to play with myself.

Yes it may be cheaper as pointed out my other members but not the reason for the post.

But if your not playing with the lady you attend with you'll essentially be the lone single man walking around being a wanking zombie on a couples night

Don't you think every single guy would want to get into a couples night

Lots of couples will only swap with other genuine couples they aren't interested in fuck Buddy couples, as there's not the same emotional connection knowing my husbands fucking your wife as it would be him fucking the girl you gave a lift too

Plus if you behaved inappropriately and you got banned she'd also be banned as your a 'couple'

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I doubt your chances as a random dude off the Internet enticing a lady to be your club buddy. Lots of single ladies do fine on their own and many we've met travel to clubs with another lady or as a group of ladies.

However a good place to find a future club buddy may be a club. Obviously you'll share an intrest in clubs. If you get along great, feel safe and comfortable in each others company, then maybe she'll want to continue the experience at other clubs or nights with you.

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