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Wife not interested in swinging - Any relate?

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By *ecret_Passion777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could show her your profile on here. That might help.

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By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London

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By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London


"You could show her your profile on here. That might help."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shes vanilla and your not so it's never going to work out. Get a new wife mate.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

She may be tremendously pleased to learn that you are newly single

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"So over the past few months I’ve subtlety been trying to persuade my Mrs to indulge in the swinging/cuckolding scene, as our sex life is non-existent so needs something passionate doing!

But she’s not interested at all it seems, she’s not the least bit ‘kinky’ or sexual or anything. It’s so frustrating, because I’m not ready to become a monk just yet.

I’ve even said if she ever has nights out with the girls, I’ll give her a ‘hall pass’, meaning she can get off with some bloke if the fancy takes her and some bloke tries chatting her up.. but she’s says she’s not interested in all those kinds of things.

Anyone else here that her occasionally frustrated because your partner is just so vanilla, when you have hornier desires inside? "
if she has zero interest in sex with you what makes you think she’s going to want it on here with random strangers ?

Have you tried speaking to her to find out why she isn’t interested in sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youre profile says you're not married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youre profile says you're not married? "

His profile says a lot of things

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Your profile says newly single. These kind of posts Anoy me

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

So are u single or still with your partner op ?.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So over the past few months I’ve subtlety been trying to persuade my Mrs to indulge in the swinging/cuckolding scene, as our sex life is non-existent so needs something passionate doing!

But she’s not interested at all it seems, she’s not the least bit ‘kinky’ or sexual or anything. It’s so frustrating, because I’m not ready to become a monk just yet.

I’ve even said if she ever has nights out with the girls, I’ll give her a ‘hall pass’, meaning she can get off with some bloke if the fancy takes her and some bloke tries chatting her up.. but she’s says she’s not interested in all those kinds of things.

Anyone else here that her occasionally frustrated because your partner is just so vanilla, when you have hornier desires inside? if she has zero interest in sex with you what makes you think she’s going to want it on here with random strangers ?

Have you tried speaking to her to find out why she isn’t interested in sex ? "

That sounds like a good suggestion until you realise that recent studies have shown that more than half of the British people are unwilling to discuss sexual matters. Us Fabsters are the lucky exception.

It all comes back to the simple equasion. Do you stay in a sexless marriage to provide a stable home for the children or wander off to chance having good illicit sex with someone else and risk blowing the whole thing up.

Whatever way it is approached, it will be very difficult to acheive.

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

You really need to come off here and sort your marriage out first, I can only speak for myself and your wife’s situation might be completely different.

If over the years I have found myself having no interest in sex with my husband it’s always had nothing to do with him, it’s a me problem, I’m either stressed or exhausted or I’m feeling out of shape and unattractive. Now if my husband then suggested we should have sex with other people during this time (and we weren’t already living this lifestyle) I would feel like my fears were confirmed, I am out of shape, I am unattractive and he wants to have sex with better looking women, in turn making me worse. Do you see where I’m coming from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says newly single. These kind of posts Anoy me"

OP, you did not think this through did you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could show her your profile on here. That might help."

Lool

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You could show her your profile on here. That might help."

It might as he has no veris so presumably is still faithful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny she seemed plenty into sex earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could show her your profile on here. That might help.

It might as he has no veris so presumably is still faithful. "

Telling people he’s newly single and looking is fine as long as he doesn’t get his dick wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny she seemed plenty into sex earlier "

My guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So over the past few months I’ve subtlety been trying to persuade my Mrs to indulge in the swinging/cuckolding scene, as our sex life is non-existent so needs something passionate doing!

But she’s not interested at all it seems, she’s not the least bit ‘kinky’ or sexual or anything. It’s so frustrating, because I’m not ready to become a monk just yet.

I’ve even said if she ever has nights out with the girls, I’ll give her a ‘hall pass’, meaning she can get off with some bloke if the fancy takes her and some bloke tries chatting her up.. but she’s says she’s not interested in all those kinds of things.

Anyone else here that her occasionally frustrated because your partner is just so vanilla, when you have hornier desires inside? if she has zero interest in sex with you what makes you think she’s going to want it on here with random strangers ?

Have you tried speaking to her to find out why she isn’t interested in sex ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shes vanilla and your not so it's never going to work out. Get a new wife mate. "

Looks like he took your advice judging by his profile change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are you married or not? Your profile and this thread is all very confusing and misleading.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Someone just hoisted a massive red flag on their account ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youre profile says you're not married? "

Haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

In a 9 hour period the Op has now become single hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You started this thread 9 hours ago and now you're newly single???

That escalated quickly, huh?!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Took less than 9 hours to end your entire marriage to her I see

Poor wifey

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


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Confused op. According to your profile you’re just out of the marriage?

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I have the same problem but if I know folk it’s be honest with them from the beginning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater

Can be the other way around, stating the obvious. Wife has that urge to swing, husband simply does not have that urge at all at all. As I've seen

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