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By *allwelshcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

How do you communicate with people after first few messages on here?

Do you keep it on here, find that harder to arrange meets with tbh?

Do you use a messenger service like kik that doesn't involve numbers? This is Our preference.

Or do you use WhatsApp or just give them number? Must be honest not giving out Mrs number without few meetings first.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I knew the person really well then I wouldn't give out my number. I would keep it to fab messages and then possibly Kik once a bit of trust had been built up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Burner phone.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Depends. Most of it we preffer to keep on fab.

For some after a meet we don't mind moving it to phone / text / WhatsApp if we get on. If we end up as really good freinds (which has happened) then whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture of ways some I only message on here and some I will use Kik or WhatsApp

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"How do you communicate with people after first few messages on here?

Do you keep it on here, find that harder to arrange meets with tbh?

Do you use a messenger service like kik that doesn't involve numbers? This is Our preference.

Or do you use WhatsApp or just give them number? Must be honest not giving out Mrs number without few meetings first.

Thanks "

We only use telegram as you don’t need to share numbers but can call, voice note and video call. Only discovered it when WhatsApp was down last year but not used anything else to arrange meets since.

Mr C

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

If both parties feel the flow of the conversation is too slow on here I am always open to moving usually to kik, I never suggest it but have sometimes been given numbers to continue on Whatsapp but I think there is a lot of trust needed to start giving out your number. I suppose you get a feel for who to trust with other formats of chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The messaging system here is a bit clunky and set up to an email address that doesn't really get looked at or alerts from as it's the junk mail address used for signing up to likely spammers.

Kik is Okay but so far no one that's contacted us via that has actually showed up

WhatsApp went really well for our first meet but like previously stated you need to get a good vibe to warrant giving out your number.

Second PAYG SIM would also work in my phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been talking to someone on Kik recently and it was slow as f... I don't know if it was the server or the other person's phone. The reason I prefer using an app is because you can block an app whereas you can't with phone calls. I've had people ring me in the middle of the night, pissed up and it's not on. I rarely give out my number because of this unless they've passed the sanity test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have an older iPhone with a pay as you go Sim and WiFi connection then use WhatsApp.

Works for us.

The number can’t be tracked across other social media because it’s never exposed to it.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

A nice stamped addressed envelope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have an older iPhone with a pay as you go Sim and WiFi connection then use WhatsApp.

Works for us.

The number can’t be tracked across other social media because it’s never exposed to it. "

Many people are surprised when strangers they fuck pop up on their Facebook Friend suggestions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only chat here. I've never given ppl from fab, access to my kik or WhatsApp. Some guys don't like it but it's my choice

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By *byeguysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Paisley

We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham Centre


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click."

Exactly this. Plus we find that single guys that won’t give out their number usually won’t because they don’t want a partner to find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you communicate with people after first few messages on here?

Do you keep it on here, find that harder to arrange meets with tbh?

Do you use a messenger service like kik that doesn't involve numbers? This is Our preference.

Or do you use WhatsApp or just give them number? Must be honest not giving out Mrs number without few meetings first.

Thanks "

Kik for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click."

If you’ve used your phone number on any other social media such as Facebook then you can be identified by it.

When we first started this journey we did just this and a guy we met for a social quoted a lot of personal stuff to us that he shouldn’t have known and had obviously got from our FB accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use what's app as it's just easier to group chat, knowing who is speaking, we recently downloaded telegram but hardly use it. I don't see an issue giving my number out, it's easily blocked if needed.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click.

Exactly this. Plus we find that single guys that won’t give out their number usually won’t because they don’t want a partner to find out!"

Or they don't want creepy couples calling them in the early hours begging for a shag. Or giving out his number to strangers to call him.

Not all men are cheating.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click.

Exactly this. Plus we find that single guys that won’t give out their number usually won’t because they don’t want a partner to find out!

Or they don't want creepy couples calling them in the early hours begging for a shag. Or giving out his number to strangers to call him.

Not all men are cheating."

And as WhatsApp is owned by Metta that number you give out can also link directly to your FB and Instagram accounts and blocking them from calling you is often a bit pointless at that stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click.

If you’ve used your phone number on any other social media such as Facebook then you can be identified by it.

When we first started this journey we did just this and a guy we met for a social quoted a lot of personal stuff to us that he shouldn’t have known and had obviously got from our FB accounts. "

I've had this too.....freaked me a bit and made me come off here for a while

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It stays on fab usually until we have met and then only if we get on I will take the conversation off here. Only 1 oerson from fa has my number x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"It stays on fab usually until we have met and then only if we get on I will take the conversation off here. Only 1 oerson from fa has my number x"

This.

Although I have given my number to 3 people in 8 yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only message on here. We don’t use any of the other messaging apps and would never give our numbers out.

It’s not ideal but we like to keep this and our real lives completely separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click.

If you’ve used your phone number on any other social media such as Facebook then you can be identified by it.

When we first started this journey we did just this and a guy we met for a social quoted a lot of personal stuff to us that he shouldn’t have known and had obviously got from our FB accounts.

I've had this too.....freaked me a bit and made me come off here for a while"

It worried us briefly till we found out he was married and a he was a copper so figured he had more to lose if he was outed than we did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will update if ever get beyond a Fab message.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Its not just drug dealers with two phones

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click.

If you’ve used your phone number on any other social media such as Facebook then you can be identified by it.

When we first started this journey we did just this and a guy we met for a social quoted a lot of personal stuff to us that he shouldn’t have known and had obviously got from our FB accounts.

I've had this too.....freaked me a bit and made me come off here for a while

It worried us briefly till we found out he was married and a he was a copper so figured he had more to lose if he was outed than we did. "

You really only need to look at the recent log of Met Officers in the dock and under investigationcurrently to answer that one.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham Centre


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click.

Exactly this. Plus we find that single guys that won’t give out their number usually won’t because they don’t want a partner to find out!

Or they don't want creepy couples calling them in the early hours begging for a shag. Or giving out his number to strangers to call him.

Not all men are cheating."

Obviously not all men are cheating and they are the ones who are happy to give their number out. In our 20 years of swinging no one has ever said to us that they won’t give their number because they’re concerned about creepy couples calling them at night or giving out their number. It’s normally some rubbish about it being a shared phone, or there is something wrong with their phone, or they’ve lost their phone, dog ate their phone, aliens stole their phone. The usual rubbish that gives the genuine guys a bad man.

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

WhatsApp on a second cheap pay monthly smarty sim

Personal WhatsApp if we become friends

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a "Swingmobile".

If we chat here and things go well, we swap numbers for WhatsApp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t mind using WhatsApp. What’s the worst someone can do with my number? Call me? Their numbers can be blocked later if there’s issues or we don’t click.

Exactly this. Plus we find that single guys that won’t give out their number usually won’t because they don’t want a partner to find out!

Or they don't want creepy couples calling them in the early hours begging for a shag. Or giving out his number to strangers to call him.

Not all men are cheating.

Obviously not all men are cheating and they are the ones who are happy to give their number out. In our 20 years of swinging no one has ever said to us that they won’t give their number because they’re concerned about creepy couples calling them at night or giving out their number. It’s normally some rubbish about it being a shared phone, or there is something wrong with their phone, or they’ve lost their phone, dog ate their phone, aliens stole their phone. The usual rubbish that gives the genuine guys a bad man. "

Aliens stole their phone.

Now that one is true.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I use an anonymous email.

Gbat

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