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By *inkycream OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

My biggest problem, I’m sure I’m not alone the number of ladies putting on the show for there guys, leaves you empty when you find yourself in this situation.

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By *isstheGo-GoatCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

You should never do something you don’t want to do! This is all about having fun if my wife didn’t want to interact with the women I would hate for her not to tell me. There is plenty of fun to be had with our girl on girl. This is just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should never do something you don’t want to do! This is all about having fun if my wife didn’t want to interact with the women I would hate for her not to tell me. There is plenty of fun to be had with our girl on girl. This is just my opinion. "

Very much this, I love watching my wife but everything is her decision on who she plays with and it's for her enjoyment as much as mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples are just crap.

It's not your fault OP, it's theirs. X

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm straight ,but feel that sometimes men still expect/assume that I'm bi.

I've had couples message and basically state he wants to see his Mrs with a woman ,I'm like that's great but I'm straight so not sure why you're telling me.

I have couples blocked now.

Single men also have tried to slip into a conversation that they have a v bi FB that they'll bring if we meet....I block those types too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand this either, the Mr wouldn't be bothered if I played with the woman or didn't as long as I enjoyed myself.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should never do something you don’t want to do! This is all about having fun if my wife didn’t want to interact with the women I would hate for her not to tell me. There is plenty of fun to be had with our girl on girl. This is just my opinion. "

Absolutely - there's gotta be openess (is that a word?) And honesty to make things fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want, never do something your not comfortable with

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

I can’t comment on bisexual women, but I’m bisexual (male) but live as a gay man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always tell if the girl is doing it for the guy... I feel it and stop playing, discuss it before leaving.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"You can always tell if the girl is doing it for the guy... I feel it and stop playing, discuss it before leaving."

Exactly this.

My wife is bisexual (and meets women on her own). Whilst I enjoy seeing her with another woman, I can take it or leave it. I don't have to watch and honestly, she likes going off in to other rooms for some private girl time anyway. I'm not really into shows being put on and shes not into putting them on either. I'm either fully involved or I'm not if that makes sense.

There's only once in all our time we have enjoyed the lifestyle that we felt a lady was doing it for her fella and not herself. It wasn't enjoyable. The lady ultimetly got upset and it ended there and then. In our defence it was when we where still new to it all and still learning but we learnt and made sure to never be in that position again. We find its not an issue with established couples but we tend to be wary around new couples or ladies and let them make the first move now.

It's worked well for us.

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By *obbiKentMan
over a year ago

maidstone

always admired fit, toned guys, swinging open the door to explore this awareness. It's all about the attraction for me, so I guess I am genuinely pansexual

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Putting on a show doesn’t mean they are not bisexual. Like so many gay, lesbian, bi and trans, I remember going to pride it was a protest movement, against (then) clause 28 (section) and now in the 21st we can serve in the

Military, get married. I’m not going to invalidate another persons sexual orientation because it doesn’t conform to outdated stereotypes.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

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