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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?

Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.

Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?

Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?

I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.

Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in, a bit if constructive criticism is always helpful.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're in, a bit if constructive criticism is always helpful.

Mrs"

Not from me. Looks good here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd welcome any feedback on ours too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages from men offering to fuck me. All I have to do is tick the 'Looking for men' box.

Any tips from the men on how I improve this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get messages from men offering to fuck me. All I have to do is tick the 'Looking for men' box.

Any tips from the men on how I improve this? "

I'd like to know how to avoid this along with the dick pics, the no effort messages (hi or x). I like to think I'm quite clear what I'm looking for in my profile lol

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We seem to have stagnated and wonder if it’s time to refresh the profile. We’ve been told that some people don’t know if we are genuine because of the way our profile is written!

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By *untime40Man
over a year ago

Greenwich


"We'd welcome any feedback on ours too "

Hi you have nice pics and good discription of what your about and after looks good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from men offering to fuck me. All I have to do is tick the 'Looking for men' box.

Any tips from the men on how I improve this?

I'd like to know how to avoid this along with the dick pics, the no effort messages (hi or x). I like to think I'm quite clear what I'm looking for in my profile lol"

Some men read. I know this because my 'looked at me' count could be 150 but I only got 30 messages. So 120 did read and got scared.

Unfortunately many don't so there's nothing you can do to avoid dick pics apart from block men and go looking.

I sometimes reply to the "hi" messages and get a lovely conversation going. The 1 word men are often really decent blokes but after no replies their confidence has gone and they don't see the point in typing out a decent message only to be ignored.

My advice would be to reply to 'hi' sometimes as you might find someone lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah always up for advice good or bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets see then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always looking for good advice

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By *ewby01327Man
over a year ago

Daventry

Always happy to take advice

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We're in too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from men offering to fuck me. All I have to do is tick the 'Looking for men' box.

Any tips from the men on how I improve this?

I'd like to know how to avoid this along with the dick pics, the no effort messages (hi or x). I like to think I'm quite clear what I'm looking for in my profile lol

Some men read. I know this because my 'looked at me' count could be 150 but I only got 30 messages. So 120 did read and got scared.

Unfortunately many don't so there's nothing you can do to avoid dick pics apart from block men and go looking.

I sometimes reply to the "hi" messages and get a lovely conversation going. The 1 word men are often really decent blokes but after no replies their confidence has gone and they don't see the point in typing out a decent message only to be ignored.

My advice would be to reply to 'hi' sometimes as you might find someone lovely. "

I think I'm one of those decent guys that write a long introduction message only to not have it read or profile looked at it, fairly certain just saying "hi" will have no effect. Don't think my profile is the problem, hope not anyway, please feel free to view and comment on it. Just wish someone would tell us how to get our messages at least read out of the 100s the recipient will get.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The problem with giving advice is that is not a one size fits all. I put effort into my bio and pics and forum engagement and I don't send messages at all. I prefer others to find me through all the above but that won't suit anyone with a different mindset or lacking in patience.

Lots of profiles end up as box ticking exercises because of what others say in advice threads and are no longer unique to that person.

There's no point having an amazing window display if you have an empty shop or shoddy goods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're in too!"

Great profile, nothing to add.

Mrs

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By *he_massangerMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

A lot of time and effort has been spent on this profile, looks great. No changes needed.

I'm so fed up with mine.

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By *lan100100Man
over a year ago

Preston

I'd love some advice from a woman on mine

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By *lbethereMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?

Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.

Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?

Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?

I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.

Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc). "

Looks good, something tells me you want be able to reply to everyone tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I could use some help I’ve only meet one person since I’ve been on here I don’t get hardly any replies to my messages I send I know my about me is quite short but I really don’t know what to put into it any advice from anyone would really help me thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi I could use some help I’ve only meet one person since I’ve been on here I don’t get hardly any replies to my messages I send I know my about me is quite short but I really don’t know what to put into it any advice from anyone would really help me thanks x"

A bit more about you. What you're looking for and if your comfortable why you can't accommodate (many assume you have a partner and might not be ok with that). Other than that it's good.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Bit of a controversial one here but I’m going to say it anyway….

Let’s be real, women can put as little or as much effort into their profile to give all the information required, doesn’t matter as most will still be flooded with messages regardless…

As for us blokes, we can spend an eternity adjusting our profiles, saying what we have to offer, what we’re looking for etc, then construct a really good message which proves you’ve read the profile beforehand and still receive nothing but airtime. Hate to say it but I feel like threads of this nature can be rather counterintuitive…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?

Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.

Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?

Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?

I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.

Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc).

Looks good, something tells me you want be able to reply to everyone tho "

To those asking advice? Not at all. Plus my opinion is subjective. Doesn't mean what I think is an improvement means it is for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love some advice from a woman on mine "

Nice profile. Can't really give you any advice except getting a vari (although I met someone last week who wasn't verified so no biggie) which I know in itself is a challenge. Maybe a local group social?

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Feel free to take a look at my profile. I doubt I will change anything though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d be interested to know your thoughts please?

I do tinker with it but Dora doesn’t.

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By *lbethereMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?

Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.

Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?

Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?

I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.

Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc).

Looks good, something tells me you want be able to reply to everyone tho

To those asking advice? Not at all. Plus my opinion is subjective. Doesn't mean what I think is an improvement means it is for everyone "

Everyone’s opinion is subjective, but a few really miss marks, again only opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?

Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.

Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?

Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?

I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.

Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc). "

Can a couple hijack this thread and ask for advice? Especially from one of our own (Essex) xx

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Advice more than welcome, always trying to better myself.

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By *lue1Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

It’s fine. Maybe a couple of other photos one with clothes on

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By *lue1Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

It’s fine. Maybe a couple of other photos one with clothes on

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By *lue1Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

Personally you need to talk about what you like enjoy ect basically talking about living at home and house prices ect wouldn’t draw my attention

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By *lan100100Man
over a year ago

Preston


"I'd love some advice from a woman on mine

Nice profile. Can't really give you any advice except getting a vari (although I met someone last week who wasn't verified so no biggie) which I know in itself is a challenge. Maybe a local group social? "

Yea that's the hardest part lol.

Thanks

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By *ere70Man
over a year ago

Rovinj Istria

can i have dome advice pls? new on fab and new in this part of world...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i have dome advice pls? new on fab and new in this part of world... "

Is your last pic a screenshot of porn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having returned to fab and done a complete profile rehaul, I'm always happy to take comments !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in! I do wonder what people think of my profile.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We need to re-do our one so advice welcome (please be kind lol)

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need to re-do our one so advice welcome (please be kind lol)

xx"
you should talk to single guys!

Seriously, my only comment would be to add a few more pics of Mr, so they appear on page 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice always welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need to re-do our one so advice welcome (please be kind lol)

xx"

I read yours from top to bottom and I don't see any issue with it. You've described everything it looks like. Although you could add what you both enjoy doing when playing?? And some turn offs??

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Thank you I’ll make sure we look at those tips when updating it.

xx

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By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield

Love for advice on how to stop the arse end of humanity thinking I would fuck them or give out my personal details to them especially when they are claiming they be my best fuck ever with their three whole inches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need to re-do our one so advice welcome (please be kind lol)

xx"

Great profile, agree with the above comment, add some pics of Mr or both together so there on the 1st page, I won't scroll through lots of pages to find one, if I don't see Mr in the pics it's a no reply from us

Mrs

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By *ucifer And MazikeenCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We are thinking of updating our profile but never know what to put so just end up leaving it as it is. It seems to work as it is.

What do you guys think leave it as is or try and shorten it down

Advice appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel mine is maybe too harsh but I’ll say how I feel

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By *ecker30Man
over a year ago

Northwich

I'd like some criticism. I don't seem to get much interest!

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Always open to criticism

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By *he_massangerMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

I would welcome some tips to improve mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i mean when ur a genuine nice guy ..send nice msgs ..it kinda sucks to be judged due to veris ect

everyine has their cup of tea ...just trying to find mine hehhee

i take any advice ...just dont wanna get my dick out like the rest of the guys or have a wank ....just to meet n have some regular fun with some locals ...

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By *uitedSuitorMan
over a year ago

Halifax / Leeds

I'm keen to hear some advice. Always interesting to hear another point of view

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

critique away, always good to know what works and what doesn't..

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Count me in

Be nice to hear another person/person's opinion.feedback is always good.

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By *angerousLiaisonsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

In x

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