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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think personality is more important, secondly and obviously there has to be an attraction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wish there was more people like you on here juliexxmark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tons mate. take a look around

seriously tho. you would normally look past stuff like that in a totally different setting. people are here to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry but I want nice looks mostly. Personality doesn't really come into it. This is for one on one meets.

However if it's group play then respectful, hard and not smelly is my criteria.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer people who are honest and don't seek to meet under false pretences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for looks first but they have to have a good personality too

I need a good mix of the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think personality is more important, secondly and obviously there has to be an attraction "

totally agree x

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Looks 1st n sexual attraction mixed with a good personality

Anything else is a bonus

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

always have to have some kind of attraction

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have the presence and personality of an equal then anything is possible....

Everything else is secondary to that.

Wolf

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

There are many things people look for..to me there must be a physical attraction I am not attracted to older men larger guys bald guys people shorter than me or bi men.. the list is long.

yes maybe its shallow . I smile at the profiles that say age size etc doesnt matter to me that shows desperation.

Thank goodness some guys fancy older women Phew !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This ain't the place to be looking for women or cpls looking for relaxed fun. If you are not a Brad Pitt type then you can fuck off according to the vast bulk on here. Even the posters on here for most part go for looks exclsuively, despite being very very average in their own looks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This ain't the place to be looking for women or cpls looking for relaxed fun. If you are not a Brad Pitt type then you can fuck off according to the vast bulk on here. Even the posters on here for most part go for looks exclsuively, despite being very very average in their own looks x"

their bodies, their rules.... I guess

It's more important to get-along with someone and have that sense of mutual co-operation above anything, or the rest counts for nothing

Wolf

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I go for looks first but they have to have a good personality too

I need a good mix of the two"

I'm with you NN!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This ain't the place to be looking for women or cpls looking for relaxed fun. If you are not a Brad Pitt type then you can fuck off according to the vast bulk on here. Even the posters on here for most part go for looks exclsuively, despite being very very average in their own looks x"
i look nothing like Brad Pitt but I do ok

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark"

I had a message from a married man asking what difference did his marital status make as this was just nsa sex. The implication being we should rut like hogs because we're on a site like this and as long as a cock was offered we should just spread em.

Reality check: this is fantasy, and as such I for one will contine to choose playmates based on their attractiveness.

If that makes me shallow, I can live with that, if men want any hole they'll just have to part with their cash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice pair of jugs can swing it for me

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark

I had a message from a married man asking what difference did his marital status make as this was just nsa sex. The implication being we should rut like hogs because we're on a site like this and as long as a cock was offered we should just spread em.

Reality check: this is fantasy, and as such I for one will contine to choose playmates based on their attractiveness.

If that makes me shallow, I can live with that, if men want any hole they'll just have to part with their cash. "

Totally agree just cz were all on here for same thing it's your choice who and who not to play with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to single guys there is no bigger turn off for us than a "Rugby player build"! This usually translates to tubby. Although most rugby players are athletic especially in League.

With regards to meeting couple we are far more inclined to meet varying shapes as personality matters more for cpl2cpl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my guys cuddly , i haven't got a great body far from it, but i have been told that i have a sexy aura from the other side of the room (glasses needed). Sex is sex and in Swinging if you can make a women cum and moan and visa-versa then it is a match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes to single guys there is no bigger turn off for us than a "Rugby player build"! This usually translates to tubby. Although most rugby players are athletic especially in League.

With regards to meeting couple we are far more inclined to meet varying shapes as personality matters more for cpl2cpl."

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"When it comes to single guys there is no bigger turn off for us than a "Rugby player build"! This usually translates to tubby. Although most rugby players are athletic especially in League.

With regards to meeting couple we are far more inclined to meet varying shapes as personality matters more for cpl2cpl."

Omg that is SO true.. huge turn off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes to single guys there is no bigger turn off for us than a "Rugby player build"! This usually translates to tubby. Although most rugby players are athletic especially in League.

With regards to meeting couple we are far more inclined to meet varying shapes as personality matters more for cpl2cpl."

oh what a lovely couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark

I had a message from a married man asking what difference did his marital status make as this was just nsa sex. The implication being we should rut like hogs because we're on a site like this and as long as a cock was offered we should just spread em.

Reality check: this is fantasy, and as such I for one will contine to choose playmates based on their attractiveness.

If that makes me shallow, I can live with that, if men want any hole they'll just have to part with their cash. "

I couldn't have said it better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer people who are honest and don't seek to meet under false pretences."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark

I had a message from a married man asking what difference did his marital status make as this was just nsa sex. The implication being we should rut like hogs because we're on a site like this and as long as a cock was offered we should just spread em.

Reality check: this is fantasy, and as such I for one will contine to choose playmates based on their attractiveness.

If that makes me shallow, I can live with that, if men want any hole they'll just have to part with their cash.

I couldn't have said it better..."

Reality check ladies, you can be cery picky on here as many men have zero standards, but yu will look and sound absurd if you are body fascists about who you meet whilst being rather large and attractive yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets face it, it's a woman's world on here and they can pick and choose at will. Why shouldnt they go for the attractive blokes if that's whats being offered ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets face it, it's a woman's world on here and they can pick and choose at will. Why shouldnt they go for the attractive blokes if that's whats being offered ? "

Ye, thats true, why not, but must hurt to know most men would not look at them once in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Reality check ladies, you can be cery picky on here as many men have zero standards, but yu will look and sound absurd if you are body fascists about who you meet whilst being rather large and attractive yourselves "

You have to love a man who try's to put women down and cocks up his spelling in the process..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets face it, it's a woman's world on here and they can pick and choose at will. Why shouldnt they go for the attractive blokes if that's whats being offered ? "

An attractive bloke to me is one who is easy going, enjoys a laugh, can speak sensibly, is confident in himself but not arrogant or pushy, appreciates that life gets in the way sometimes and has a bit of sex appeal (and that's not anything to do with looks but how he presents himself). As long as he's vaguely reasonable looking (imo) I'm happy.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

why would i fuck a good looking guy whos an arse hole,rude , or had a personality by pass ? why on earth would i want to meet ANY person like that ???? sorry but person has to capture my mind and attention along with being an attraction. however ,attraction is very subjective thing and person id find attractive ,others wont and visa versa . i also find more you know the person(sense of humour,confidence ect ) and what they are like the more attractive they become . not that were ugley in first place but inner beauty takes person from what could be considered average looks to much much more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

while not reading anything posted below...i dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets face it, it's a woman's world on here and they can pick and choose at will. Why shouldnt they go for the attractive blokes if that's whats being offered ?

Ye, thats true, why not, but must hurt to know most men would not look at them once in the real world"

This is fantasy land not real world. Have fun and be good. I personally wouldnt meet anyone I wasnt attracted to both physically and mentally. I dare to think how many men and woman have orgasmed and then immediately thought "I dont want to be here anymore"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Lets face it, it's a woman's world on here and they can pick and choose at will. Why shouldnt they go for the attractive blokes if that's whats being offered ? "

Exactly I know I'm certainly not most guys cup of tea but faced with the choice of a tubby, balding, 40+ year old or a tall, dark, hot 21 year old with the body to die for I know which option I'd choose (and did so many times)

Saying that though personality will still win it as long as they don't look like shrek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" why would i fuck a good looking guy whos an arse hole,rude , or had a personality by pass ? why on earth would i want to meet ANY person like that ???? sorry but person has to capture my mind and attention along with being an attraction. however ,attraction is very subjective thing and person id find attractive ,others wont and visa versa . i also find more you know the person(sense of humour,confidence ect ) and what they are like the more attractive they become . not that were ugley in first place but inner beauty takes person from what could be considered average looks to much much more . "

I agree with this especially the bit about inner beauty enhancing a person's looks, and it's what I meant about sex appeal not being about looks, but about how someone is in themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" why would i fuck a good looking guy whos an arse hole,rude , or had a personality by pass ? why on earth would i want to meet ANY person like that ???? sorry but person has to capture my mind and attention along with being an attraction. however ,attraction is very subjective thing and person id find attractive ,others wont and visa versa . i also find more you know the person(sense of humour,confidence ect ) and what they are like the more attractive they become . not that were ugley in first place but inner beauty takes person from what could be considered average looks to much much more .

I agree with this especially the bit about inner beauty enhancing a person's looks, and it's what I meant about sex appeal not being about looks, but about how someone is in themselves."

But how can you tell what the inner beauty is when the majority of messages from guys on here are usually binned as "they're not my type"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But how can you tell what the inner beauty is when the majority of messages from guys on here are usually binned as "they're not my type" "

Because it's done on first impressions and if that inner beauty shows during the attention span they gain in a recipient it's an added bonus.

Wolf

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


" why would i fuck a good looking guy whos an arse hole,rude , or had a personality by pass ? why on earth would i want to meet ANY person like that ???? sorry but person has to capture my mind and attention along with being an attraction. however ,attraction is very subjective thing and person id find attractive ,others wont and visa versa . i also find more you know the person(sense of humour,confidence ect ) and what they are like the more attractive they become . not that were ugley in first place but inner beauty takes person from what could be considered average looks to much much more .

I agree with this especially the bit about inner beauty enhancing a person's looks, and it's what I meant about sex appeal not being about looks, but about how someone is in themselves.

But how can you tell what the inner beauty is when the majority of messages from guys on here are usually binned as "they're not my type" "

the majority of messages from guys are "wanna fuck " one liners or the guy obviously hasnt read profile and preferences lol ! so no wonder binned !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But how can you tell what the inner beauty is when the majority of messages from guys on here are usually binned as "they're not my type"

Because it's done on first impressions and if that inner beauty shows during the attention span they gain in a recipient it's an added bonus.

Wolf"

Now we all know if Shrek sent a message which was articulate, well though, descriptive and revealing that inner beauty 999 times out of 1000 it would be binned without even being read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But how can you tell what the inner beauty is when the majority of messages from guys on here are usually binned as "they're not my type"

Because it's done on first impressions and if that inner beauty shows during the attention span they gain in a recipient it's an added bonus.

Wolf

Now we all know if Shrek sent a message which was articulate, well though, descriptive and revealing that inner beauty 999 times out of 1000 it would be binned without even being read."

so what does that tell you about maximising your social exposure to others on the site in order for them to gain the maximum insight into a person's character?

Forum or chatroom?

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inner Beauty aka 10 inches plus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of members dont use the forums. Most just sit and watch in chat I expect but I get your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark"

You can have fun and still have preferences and standards

Being on this site doesn't mean 'gagging for it so will take what you are offered' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark

You can have fun and still have preferences and standards

Being on this site doesn't mean 'gagging for it so will take what you are offered' lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark

You can have fun and still have preferences and standards

Being on this site doesn't mean 'gagging for it so will take what you are offered' lol"

Sad thing is preferences and standards are often soon out the door if a guy thinks he will get his oats. Nature of the beast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inner Beauty aka 10 inches plus? "

Couldn't care less what size a guy's dick is. I tend not to be interested in guys that mention it because it's obviously something they think is important and is therefore a bit of a clue that we probably won't suit each other!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Lets face it, it's a woman's world on here and they can pick and choose at will. Why shouldnt they go for the attractive blokes if that's whats being offered ?

Ye, thats true, why not, but must hurt to know most men would not look at them once in the real world"
wow, you're a charmer aren't you?!

Going back to the OP, I'd say personality and looks for me. If they are 'Brad Pitt' it means sod all to me if they cant hold a conversation and make me laugh.

Yes, I know there are plenty of men who wouldnt look at me twice walking down the street, but Im not too bothered. At the end of the day, the majority of people on this site are after pleasure and fun. Some dont care who or how they get it. Others have a bit of dignity. I enjoy a good perv, doesnt mean Im going to shag a brad pitt look a like with a personality of piers morgan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inner Beauty aka 10 inches plus?

Couldn't care less what size a guy's dick is. I tend not to be interested in guys that mention it because it's obviously something they think is important and is therefore a bit of a clue that we probably won't suit each other! "

What about couples and women that mention it on their profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But how can you tell what the inner beauty is when the majority of messages from guys on here are usually binned as "they're not my type" "

Because of the Neanderthal type approach of 95% of guys who message me, they come across as having IQs that barely stretch to double digits and since I think sex appeal is mostly about how you come across...ta dum! In the bin :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" why would i fuck a good looking guy whos an arse hole,rude , or had a personality by pass ? why on earth would i want to meet ANY person like that ???? sorry but person has to capture my mind and attention along with being an attraction. however ,attraction is very subjective thing and person id find attractive ,others wont and visa versa . i also find more you know the person(sense of humour,confidence ect ) and what they are like the more attractive they become . not that were ugley in first place but inner beauty takes person from what could be considered average looks to much much more .

I agree with this especially the bit about inner beauty enhancing a person's looks, and it's what I meant about sex appeal not being about looks, but about how someone is in themselves.

But how can you tell what the inner beauty is when the majority of messages from guys on here are usually binned as "they're not my type"

the majority of messages from guys are "wanna fuck " one liners or the guy obviously hasnt read profile and preferences lol ! so no wonder binned !

"

So true, only been on here a few weeks and it can be so monotonous with the wanna fucks - delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the whole inner beauty aspect really has had its time...especially when it concerns weight.I have to really like whoever im with (on the meet)...i meet varying types, I just know some people like this, some people like that.

anyyway...a wet tight pussy always gets me...i dont really check much else...god am shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the whole inner beauty aspect really has had its time...especially when it concerns weight.I have to really like whoever im with (on the meet)...i meet varying types, I just know some people like this, some people like that.

anyyway...a wet tight pussy always gets me...i dont really check much else...god am shallow"

I agree with you that some people like one thing, and some people prefer another...me, I respond best to how people are rather than how they necessarily look, but everyone is different so my approach is not someone else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think personality is more important, secondly and obviously there has to be an attraction "

I agree!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its getting the right balance for me looks start it off personality holds the intrest to take it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a man of simpls tastes but I have to like what I eat and if it looks shit on a plate then I gets left. Same with fucking if it dosnt look good then im not going there. Choice thing isnt it.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Im a man of simpls tastes but I have to like what I eat and if it looks shit on a plate then I gets left. Same with fucking if it dosnt look good then im not going there. Choice thing isnt it."
exactly!

Some people like liver, I dont. Some people like mushy peas I dont. I love squid, some people dont!

Its all down to taste/preference, but also being polite about it. As for some who think that because they have a good body or look good, means they are entitled to a shag on here they need to go on that beautiful people site instead! Imagine us fat mingers having standards/type!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Its getting the right balance for me looks start it off personality holds the intrest to take it further."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple we had a good chat with and felt things may be promising but we should have asked for pics first as when we got them even tho the profile said m/f I'm pretty sure it was m/tv which if that's your thing its fine its just not ours and if it wasn't tv.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice personality is a must but who fucks a personality? A hot body is needed to make me hard every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a married fat bloke......close to the bottom of the list of what women want on here...but that does not and will not change my standards....I know what I like and only look to meet women that match my criteria

I am not everyone's cup of tea physically but I'm one of the guys that have the personality and presence to get a woman disgustingly horny.....first tick in the box for me has to be someone I find attractive but if after chatting she isnt doing for me mentally I will take it no further

Imo looks gets you in the door personality keeps you there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice personality is a must but who fucks a personality? A hot body is needed to make me hard every time. "

just out the tanning salon...mannn am still hott..fancy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fuck a personality as well as everything else. It comes through in sex its part of the person just because some looks good doesnt always mean they can get down and dirty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo looks gets you in the door - personality keeps you there..."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark

I had a message from a married man asking what difference did his marital status make as this was just nsa sex. The implication being we should rut like hogs because we're on a site like this and as long as a cock was offered we should just spread em.

Reality check: this is fantasy, and as such I for one will contine to choose playmates based on their attractiveness.

If that makes me shallow, I can live with that, if men want any hole they'll just have to part with their cash.

I couldn't have said it better...

Reality check ladies, you can be cery picky on here as many men have zero standards, but yu will look and sound absurd if you are body fascists about who you meet whilst being rather large and attractive yourselves "

You don't get it do you?

This...is...fantasy! You have already told me my profile was frightful, completely missing the point, but that's fine as we're not looking for each other.

Everyone uses the site for their individual needs. Some are really looking for a partner, others really don't care as long as their itch is scratched, we're all different.

Where you get off telling people they shouldn't have choices is beyond me. Every post you add speaks volumes about you.

Another point that escapes you is "fat, unattractive" women don't start threads about not getting meets etc...it's usually "attractive" single men who then resort to insults when rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there any people out there not worried how important these things and are just about having funxxmark

I had a message from a married man asking what difference did his marital status make as this was just nsa sex. The implication being we should rut like hogs because we're on a site like this and as long as a cock was offered we should just spread em.

Reality check: this is fantasy, and as such I for one will contine to choose playmates based on their attractiveness.

If that makes me shallow, I can live with that, if men want any hole they'll just have to part with their cash.

I couldn't have said it better...

Reality check ladies, you can be cery picky on here as many men have zero standards, but yu will look and sound absurd if you are body fascists about who you meet whilst being rather large and attractive yourselves

You don't get it do you?

This...is...fantasy! You have already told me my profile was frightful, completely missing the point, but that's fine as we're not looking for each other.

Everyone uses the site for their individual needs. Some are really looking for a partner, others really don't care as long as their itch is scratched, we're all different.

Where you get off telling people they shouldn't have choices is beyond me. Every post you add speaks volumes about you.

Another point that escapes you is "fat, unattractive" women don't start threads about not getting meets etc...it's usually "attractive" single men who then resort to insults when rejected.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Inner Beauty aka 10 inches plus?

Couldn't care less what size a guy's dick is. I tend not to be interested in guys that mention it because it's obviously something they think is important and is therefore a bit of a clue that we probably won't suit each other! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see there are a few ladies with their heads outside of their ass.

I am insulting women a hell of a lot less than many abuse men who are far more attractive than they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality does it every time for me, but as said before there has to be some physical attraction too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to see there are a few ladies with their heads outside of their ass.

I am insulting women a hell of a lot less than many abuse men who are far more attractive than they."

Since when has attractiveness been a measure of how people deserve to be treated?

Act like an arse, get treated like an arse, regardless of how you look. Behave in an unappealing way and you'll be unappealing, even if you are Brad Pitt.

I also suspect that by "abuse" you actually mean "won't fuck". Everyone has individual choice about who they will or will not meet. If that works for them, great. If not, they need to re-evaluate their standards and approach.

You sound bitter and that makes you unattractive, no matter how you look.

If these "attractive" men can do so much better off the internet, they are free to do so. They're not going to change how things are here.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Good to see there are a few ladies with their heads outside of their ass.

I am insulting women a hell of a lot less than many abuse men who are far more attractive than they.

Since when has attractiveness been a measure of how people deserve to be treated?

Act like an arse, get treated like an arse, regardless of how you look. Behave in an unappealing way and you'll be unappealing, even if you are Brad Pitt.

I also suspect that by "abuse" you actually mean "won't fuck". Everyone has individual choice about who they will or will not meet. If that works for them, great. If not, they need to re-evaluate their standards and approach.

You sound bitter and that makes you unattractive, no matter how you look.

If these "attractive" men can do so much better off the internet, they are free to do so. They're not going to change how things are here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to see there are a few ladies with their heads outside of their ass.

I am insulting women a hell of a lot less than many abuse men who are far more attractive than they.

Since when has attractiveness been a measure of how people deserve to be treated?

Act like an arse, get treated like an arse, regardless of how you look. Behave in an unappealing way and you'll be unappealing, even if you are Brad Pitt.

I also suspect that by "abuse" you actually mean "won't fuck". Everyone has individual choice about who they will or will not meet. If that works for them, great. If not, they need to re-evaluate their standards and approach.

You sound bitter and that makes you unattractive, no matter how you look.

If these "attractive" men can do so much better off the internet, they are free to do so. They're not going to change how things are here."
couldnt agree more

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

personality counts for a lot - theres some 'dolls' who look so overmade-up that it puts me off messaging right for the start

I dont want to go home with a fake tan even if its free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of an odd one this really. We look at profiles and if the pics immediately make us say no, then you're saying we're shallow because we're supposed to be on here for just the fun?

For us the fun has to be with people we are attracted too, and because the reason for this sites existence is a physical one, surely we should be physically attracted to the people we want fun with?

On a further note, once we find ourselves drawn to a profile, we then try to get to know the people...which can in turn lead to a no due to them not being our type on a personal level.

We begrudge no person who says no to us as we have our criteria and the have theirs. Surely that's the way to look at this rather than fretting as to why folk aren't diving in with each other the moment anyone says hi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice personality is a must but who fucks a personality? A hot body is needed to make me hard every time. "

Me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think personality is more important, secondly and obviously there has to be an attraction

totally agree x"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is there has to be an attraction but attraction comes in many forms, I'm sorry but no matter how nice a person is I could not kiss someone I found ugly, and I don't see that as shallow or having my head up my arse, for me the kissing and foreplay is the best part of sex and how can I look into the eyes of someone who I found a physical turn off while kissing him, I also like lots of eye contact while giving a guy a blow job, to look into their eyes and watch their face as I suck their cock is a big turn on for me and to be blunt it wouldn't have the same effect if a ugly face was looking back at me

So yes to me looks are important but that does not mean I want some 25 year old ripped model type, I'm realistic enough to know I couldn't pull someone like that, I just want someone who's attractive to me not the rest of the world

And I'm pretty sure most feel the same, how many really do just go off personality how many really would have sex with someone they found nothing physically attractive about at all just because they make you laugh?

I don't think it's wrong to want to be stimulated physically while playing with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...personality and a level of looks enough to say 'yeah why not', but not a stinky attitude, that's for sure

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...personality and a level of looks enough to say 'yeah why not', but not a stinky attitude, that's for sure

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I also like lots of eye contact while giving a guy a blow job, to look into their eyes and watch their face as I suck their cock is a big turn on for me and to be blunt it wouldn't have the same effect if a ugly face was looking back at me

"

I could wear a mask... they're easily available at the moment

Wolf

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

Everyone on here is different. However, the one common theme is surely that we all want to be treated with respect and politeness. Yes, this site is to meet people to have sex with, in whatever form your preference, both in physical attributes and personality. We strongly believe in the adage of treating people as you would in the vanilla world, yes, looks are the visual attention gainer, but make us laugh or like you as people, you stand a better chance of success. Howvere we are not conceited enough to think that we are for everyone and we are respectful of that. Everyone has different reasons and look for different things from this.....it's finding folk that share our philosophy, those that don't we politely decline.

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