FabSwingers.com forum: Who brings the condoms?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On meets who you do think should bring the condoms?

Both?

Men?

Women?

Men you know what you prefer and what fits...

Ladies do you buy a range and hope you've got something suitable?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Both! Everyone should be respobsible for their own sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy should bring the condoms appropriate for their size and taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the onus is on the man to bring and use the condoms. But both parties should bring them to ensure everyone is safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always had plenty of our own.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

It's down to the gent. If we are inviting a male into our life, the least they can do is bring their own safety equipment.

Not surprisingly we have had a couple of guys who turn up without condoms and they got turned away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bring my own, people I meet have them. Winner

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

We always supply them

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I prefer to use my own, those durex invisible or skins super thin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring some

Too many instances of men saying they have some and when I get there they suddenly don't have any and try and either get me to do BB or expect me to suck them off and go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own but ultimately it's the guys responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer to use my own, those durex invisible or skins super thin. "

The question was raised due to another thread. Skins seemed a popular choice. I've always gone for durex and regular but that's not always appropriate or preferred so got me wondering. Do I need to vary my collection

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My opinion is it's everyone's responsibility. However if you need bigger, smaller than regular or you have a favourite brand as a man you should always be prepared.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"The guy should bring the condoms appropriate for their size and taste.

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always make sure we have some, even when going out solo. We have one lady who brings her own because she is allergic to certain ones.

I've seen one ladies profile where she basically tells the guy what ones to buy because she's allergic and he's gotta supply them!

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By *ocket rocket 2021Woman
over a year ago

Farnworth

"We always make sure we have some, even when going out solo. We have one lady who brings her own because she is allergic to certain ones.

I've seen one ladies profile where she basically tells the guy what ones to buy because she's allergic and he's gotta supply them!"

Not a problem though, is it?

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Should be both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always make sure we have some, even when going out solo. We have one lady who brings her own because she is allergic to certain ones.

I've seen one ladies profile where she basically tells the guy what ones to buy because she's allergic and he's gotta supply them!

Not a problem though, is it?"

I think it's equally her responsibility! Have a conversation about it, don't just demand he supply's them

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We always take condoms.

But as we're very firm on safe sex, there's something to be said for not doing that - if the guy doesn't bring condoms, he's probably not someone we want to play with.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I always take my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take my own I never assume he will have some

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I prefer to use my own, those durex invisible or skins super thin.

I had a reaction to the free ones supplied in a club, so I’ve always bought Skyns thereafter to make sure a condom really doesn’t spoil play….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We always take condoms.

But as we're very firm on safe sex, there's something to be said for not doing that - if the guy doesn't bring condoms, he's probably not someone we want to play with.

All of this but same with the lady I think...

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I walkways take my own because I like certain ones. Mr.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Think it’s the man’s responsibility personally

Failing to prepare is preparing to fail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men should

I take my own because I only use Skyns

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

If I'm using them I have to buy my own normally as mine are a tad girthy

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I bring just to be sure.

It really should be the male, as they should know what feel best on them.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Eurex extra strong. As I find less likely to break. I always bring play bag as mainly play in clubs. So it has lube, condoms, pin wheel, vibs, toy cleaners, wet wipes, blindfolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my own

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Both should bring some. The one with the cock will bring ones that are suited to their tastes. The one without will bring generic ones as a backup.

Safety is no accident

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

I always have condoms with me. And I expect the guy to have them too.

I only have generic ones though so if they want something more expensive thats up to them.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We make sure we bring some just incase the other party 'forgets'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We always took our own we don't trust anyone else and I'm allergic to latex.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Personally I have my own but I would say both parties should always have some on standby.

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

We alway take ours to a meet and only use our own in a club.

I’ve turned up and a meet before and the guy didn’t bring anything with him.

Hotwife

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I always have a few in my purse

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Both

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

For reference. My current ones that fit are EXS Jumbo 69mm

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Only one of the guys I've arranged to meet since joining Fab has turned up with condoms! Even though I always say that I play safe. The common answer on why they didn't bring any is "I forgot."

So if they don't like what condoms I have, we don't play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please keep replys on the thread. It's not an invite to pm me for a personal discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be the guys, but we always bring our own for the inevitable forgetful male

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only one of the guys I've arranged to meet since joining Fab has turned up with condoms! Even though I always say that I play safe. The common answer on why they didn't bring any is "I forgot."

So if they don't like what condoms I have, we don't play. "

Did they forget they were coming to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Both parties should be responsible for playing safely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a little purple velvet bag that we take on meets or a club with condoms ,little vibe, lube anything else we think we need its like our little survival kit xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone rather than both as there may well be more than two. If everyone brings which they prefer and then go from there.

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Only one of the guys I've arranged to meet since joining Fab has turned up with condoms! Even though I always say that I play safe. The common answer on why they didn't bring any is "I forgot."

So if they don't like what condoms I have, we don't play.

Did they forget they were coming to play"

Exactly! Some have been disappointed that I keep a stash and asked if they could go bareback anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both! Everyone should be respobsible for their own sexual health. "

If they don't have any it's cheeky to use mine and also they were expecting bareback so.... goodbye!

If they bring their own I make them use mine because theirs could be 10 years old and rotten.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Deliveroo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only one of the guys I've arranged to meet since joining Fab has turned up with condoms! Even though I always say that I play safe. The common answer on why they didn't bring any is "I forgot."

So if they don't like what condoms I have, we don't play. "

It's a tactic, I've had this done to me so many times, they either want to try and push you to go bare just suck them off and leave

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both should be prepared even at clubs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Deliveroo"

That's a new one

Just ordered some skyn ones via amazon they seem a popular choice among those with a penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of those wishing to get involved.

We are all responsible for our own health.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

We always bring them to meets and have some at home. We're not fussed if people don't bring theirs, only if they don't use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always bring them but I wouldn't be happy if a guy showed up to a meet without any

Mrs x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I always bring them.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

The man. He knows his size and would be the best person to select the appropriate brand suited to him and what he's packing.

Otherwise he will just get the standard durex from me, which may not work depending on what kinda trouser snake he's got.

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I take my own skyns if meeting others and we have plenty at home if someone is coming and find the majority of guys don’t stump up their own very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The man. He knows his size and would be the best person to select the appropriate brand suited to him and what he's packing.

Otherwise he will just get the standard durex from me, which may not work depending on what kinda trouser snake he's got. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always supply the necessary cocks and condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bring condoms. If he wants to wear one then that is fine. I once had a guy who lost his erection and as his Willy shrivelled, the condom got stuck inside me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On meets who you do think should bring the condoms?

Both?

Men?

Women?

Men you know what you prefer and what fits...

Ladies do you buy a range and hope you've got something suitable?"

I usually message saying "do I need to get condoms or are you bringing them" as soon as we've arranged a meet, I always have some but know men would rather whatever kind they prefer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring condoms with me

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Both

I always carry a stash to prevent the "oops I forgot" excuse - they look so disappointed when you whip out your supply!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Everyone!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I think both should, but I do always have a variety of brands with me so I'm bound to have something suitable if the guy I'm meeting forgets to bring some.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"The man. He knows his size and would be the best person to select the appropriate brand suited to him and what he's packing.

Otherwise he will just get the standard durex from me, which may not work depending on what kinda trouser snake he's got. "

Nah durex are horrid

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I do

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By *irate102Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Personally out of respect I always bring condoms. It's just the right thing to do to keep everyone happy and safe

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By *irate102Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Not that I've had any meets yet pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do; I always keep a few in an inside pocket in each of my handbags so that I can't forget them when changing from one handbag to another. I got carried away and ordered a large quantity some time ago, but sadly haven't used many yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is the bloke should always bring them, but it’s always nice for the woman to have back ups.

The mr

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Both

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I personally think both are responsible for bringing them, but me should be bringing the right ones for them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Both, but I'm not a condom store - if you have special requirements, bringing your own is the best bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in two minds about it - If I buy them, I KNOW that they are reputable, genuine, in date and haven't been tampered with...

If my meet gets them, he knows what size, type and style suits him best...

I would just say everyone should have them. x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I always bring some

Too many instances of men saying they have some and when I get there they suddenly don't have any and try and either get me to do BB or expect me to suck them off and go home"

Wow I wouldn't sleep with anyone with this attitude. I would be so fast out of the door, I would leave a dust cloud.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

I agree with all the women on her men should but they either don’t or ‘forget’ if I have then I know they are good and I have some.

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol

If I were a woman, I’d struggle to understand a guy “forgetting” condoms. In theory nice for both to be responsible, but onus is on the guy in my opinion.

It also makes a huge difference to “performance”. An ill fitting condom is crippling. “Mysize” are a game changer.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If I were a woman, I’d struggle to understand a guy “forgetting” condoms. In theory nice for both to be responsible, but onus is on the guy in my opinion.

It also makes a huge difference to “performance”. An ill fitting condom is crippling. “Mysize” are a game changer. "

I understand them doing it. Trying to get away with it.

My answer when they forget is "I have standard Durex or I have to go home".

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By *rKC92Man
over a year ago

St Helens

When I've had meets it's been a two way street, I've brought my own and the lady has had their own on hand too. As a guy I feel responsible for making sure protection is on hand, not only to protect myself but whoever else I'm with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alway brought my own but happy to wear mine or theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I were a woman, I’d struggle to understand a guy “forgetting” condoms. In theory nice for both to be responsible, but onus is on the guy in my opinion.

It also makes a huge difference to “performance”. An ill fitting condom is crippling. “Mysize” are a game changer. "

I take small ones. They can either use it or sod off.

Men like it tight right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's everyone's own responsibility to play safe, I do think it's good form for the gent to bring them though. I have had a lady turn up with some female ones once too, that was a nice touch

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I don’t get I forgot them. If your going to a meet, first thing I pack is condoms. I have my usual stash. Then emergency few in case I have run out

For me it is disrespectful if someone says sorry I haven’t got any. Fair enough if someone wants a latex free one then I would expect the woman to have them

For me even worse is the ones that go to a club and forget them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep a couple of condoms on my handbag for hubby just incase

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

I always bring my own.. wouldn't expect anyone else to supply them for my use

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

What's a condom?

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"On meets who you do think should bring the condoms?

Both?

Men?

Women?

Men you know what you prefer and what fits...

Ladies do you buy a range and hope you've got something suitable?"

I bring my own.... Good be responsible and be a gentleman..... can't expect a lady to bring a guys condom

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Both because it's acting responsible but at the time of usage I'd say it's the guy whom should produce then least the woman has a backup plan should anything happen with the condom tearing

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Both parties.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've always brought my own with me that way if (and when because it has happened a few times on meets ) the guy forgets I will still have some.

But I do think it should be both should have them with them.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Men I yhink

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I’d expect the man to bring them… Only because he knows what brand & size fits his tool the best.

However, I always bring some normal durex ones with me just incase.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

The man should, I just use sandwich bags with and elastic band to hold it on. Shagging on a budget

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"The man should, I just use sandwich bags with and elastic band to hold it on. Shagging on a budget

Switch to empty crisp packets.

Eat the crisp

Free condom once eaten

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Men should have condoms if they are expecting to have wax but it’s surprising the number who don’t.

If the female has a latex allergy then I’d suggest she carries some condoms.

You can get free condoms from your local pharmacy usually. You can get them in a mixed bag or by size and they may also have latex free.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Meant to say sex not wax

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"The man should, I just use sandwich bags with and elastic band to hold it on. Shagging on a budget

Switch to empty crisp packets.

Eat the crisp

Free condom once eaten

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I guess the cheese and onion ones could give some lads an excuse too. Pitch that to Theo Pathitis

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

It should be the man's responsibility ideally...however no harm in the lady having some...meaning both do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring them to make sure they the right size so don't split on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring them but always ask if there's a specific brand or latex free etc

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I always bring my favourite one. It’s been used and washed many times.

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

Always have at least a hand full. Buy by box load. At least can give away if not lucky. Lol

Hubs

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always have condoms in my bag. I would expect the male to have them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rubber fairy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my own, it's only polite

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