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Anyone wished they discovered swinging earlier

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By *ornyandsexy69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hull

We only been swinging for a year. What an experience. Wished we discovered it years ago. Does anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes wish I had done it years ago, I am loving all the attention and having great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only been swinging for a year. What an experience. Wished we discovered it years ago. Does anyone else. "
. Indeed we do but now making up for lost time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe about 5 years before I did (3 years ago!). Especially sites such as Fab.

If I was any younger I think there'd have been the risk of viewing it in the same way it appears many do these days - as a means of getting laid, rather than enjoying fun times with openminded folk and exploring.

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By *idsmixedcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Maybe about 5 years before I did (3 years ago!). Especially sites such as Fab.

If I was any younger I think there'd have been the risk of viewing it in the same way it appears many do these days - as a means of getting laid, rather than enjoying fun times with openminded folk and exploring. "

I started at 18 started going to chams at 19, then met Leo on the scene when I was 24

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I think I discovered these websites at just the right time for me.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district


"Maybe about 5 years before I did (3 years ago!). Especially sites such as Fab.

If I was any younger I think there'd have been the risk of viewing it in the same way it appears many do these days - as a means of getting laid, rather than enjoying fun times with openminded folk and exploring. "

This is very true! We started as soon as we could, a couple of months after we'd first met, and the sort of swinging we do now is like you describe and quite different to our experiences when younger and single - ending up in bed with others at parties, group stuff in our flats, etc. We never thought of it as swinging, just fun sex.

Still, we wish our exes had been open-minded about swinging, but if they had we probably wouldn't have got together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm really glad that I wasn't on the scene from an early age, having years and years of non emotional mechanical sex may have made me disillusioned.

I only feel mature enough now to experience the excitement and fun the scene has to offer

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

actually for me... no......

I found it at a time where i was emotionally mature enough to deal with myself and any people I came across in the scene....

I wouldn't change a thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being together 7 years and being on here for just over a year is definitely right for us, we have enough trust and respect for each other to take our relationship to the next level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually for me... no......

I found it at a time where i was emotionally mature enough to deal with myself and any people I came across in the scene....

I wouldn't change a thing..."

Same here. It happened for me at the right time in my life, when I had just gone through two of the most 'educational' relationships in my life. Had it been any earlier, same as Fabio, I would not have been emotionally mature enough and would have been one of the 'been on here five minutes and not got shagged yet' brigade on here - not that there was any internet in 1985 of course ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being together 7 years and being on here for just over a year is definitely right for us, we have enough trust and respect for each other to take our relationship to the next level "

Much the same with us, been together almost 6 years & started swinging last year after discussing it on & off for 2 years. We are at the right place in our relationship for us to enjoy without any concerns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long has fab being going now . Wish I had joined years ago ?

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By *idsmixedcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"No I'm really glad that I wasn't on the scene from an early age, having years and years of non emotional mechanical sex may have made me disillusioned.

I only feel mature enough now to experience the excitement and fun the scene has to offer "

See for me it's the other way round, I got to enjoy my 20's doing fab things I just couldn't do now. I went to Cap D'age with Paul and Flirt, spent loads of time in chams and other clubs, wasted weekends at house parties and BBB, daytime dogging etc, and was able to enjoy myself without a busy job and kids. Now we can't do much because of having young children, but I love that I've already had some amazing experiences and met some people who are on here that I consider life long friends. And I got to do it pre kids and baby belly

Leo hasn't done as much as me, but he's been to Hedonism which I'm very jealous of.... Hoping in a few years we can go together!

But yes, I always knew I was a bit of a freak from my teens and am really glad I got to explore my sexuality before life became more complicated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we started last year, been together 23 years, and now we both have seperate profiles. we trust each other implicitly, only a few rules, ie no stop overs,text when you there/coming back.and 1 if you are un comfy and ill come fetch you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been shagging for years so its not like its a big new discovery is it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I (Mrs) got into swinging at exactly the right time for me I just wasn't ready before. However I wish I had known years ago what I know now and things might have been very different. No regrets though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish i had slept with more women before i met my husband,but being married and getting the best of both worlds is ideal..have been swinging for five years now and hope to for another ten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Wouldn't have married my ex, would have found a lady who was a swinger, all equals a lot more success that I'm having currently!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No....

We feel that it was the right time for us but we had spoken about it for a good couple of years before taking the plunge.

Had some amazing experiences over the last 8 years and hopefully some more to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo...we have been swinging for a year and are having so much fun, wish we'd started earlier...;-)

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