FabSwingers.com forum: Sex drive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have a high sex drive? is it driving you mad? Mine is particularly high at the moment and I'm not sure it's a good thing. Maybe you're the opposite and wish your's was higher. How do you deal with these low or high periods?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is creeping back after a low period

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Always had a big sex drive ..don't think it'll ever diminish ...thank you lord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is almost none existent for the majority of the time. I’ve been to the dr and everything is fine, not menopausal or unbalanced in any way.

I actually prefer to be this way as it allows me to focus my energy on other things and stops me from doing things I’d later regret! I do sometimes wish it was different when I read about others having such a great time but not very often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a much higher sex drive than my wife but she’s very understanding and we make it work. It also helps that we often work opposite shifts so by the time the weekend comes we’re both up for it.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Ebbs and flows depending on what’s going on elsewhere in my life.

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I have a fairly high sex drive, but when I go through dry periods it practically disappears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have had a high sex drive but the problem is not getting any

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought mine would disappear after my hysterectomy but it's done the opposite I'm hornier than ever

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Mine has dropped over the last few years. Do have erection problems, mainly keeping it erect and not a heavy cummer aswell, but dr says I'm fine so trying to up my game, its not for the want of trying.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Mine is very low and it have been like that for years. I dont really crave it as much as I did before and I can easily live without it, one of the reasons is cos I might be dieting on low calories

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't have a high sex drive and don't ever remember having one but 10 years without any form of sexual contact would have removed it anyway.

I suffer from anhedonia which doesn't help either but I'm always in the moment and have no issues during sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I thought my problems heath wise would slow my sex drive but I am horny as ever and my sex drive has not changed

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Mines off the scale right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be uncontrollable but since lock down im not so arsed

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

64 and my drive is better than ever

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

"I thought mine would disappear after my hysterectomy but it's done the opposite I'm hornier than ever

Mine did the exact same thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought mine would disappear after my hysterectomy but it's done the opposite I'm hornier than ever

Mine did the exact same thing

I really wasn't prepared, I'm so frustrated. I want sex 24/7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think we get Horner as we get older but I am horny all day

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

My Libido took a dive, especially in lockdown.

Started testosterone supplements, they have worked, perhaps a little too well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is just right for what I have right now.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

My sex drive has always been quite high and it ruined a couple of my vanilla relationships (the guys just couldn't keep up). In the recent years, it fluctuates a bit, but I've also noticed lately that the more sex I have, the more I want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is very low and it have been like that for years. I dont really crave it as much as I did before and I can easily live without it, one of the reasons is cos I might be dieting on low calories

I found that too before I think it is definitely a side affect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is very low and it have been like that for years. I dont really crave it as much as I did before and I can easily live without it, one of the reasons is cos I might be dieting on low calories

I found that too before I think it is definitely a side affect "

Hmm I’m wondering if that could be my issue, I only eat one meal a day. I hadn’t even thought of that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who'd of thought calorie intake can alter your sex drive, I wouldn't of thought of that either.

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By *alkingbootsMan
over a year ago

cavan

I’m getting my testosterone checked next week maybe it will tell me something?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Mine is very high at the moment.

I just need to find a passenger. Lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Mine is ticking over nicely though goes through the roof when I know I'm going to be seeing my FWB x

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Mine is very low and it have been like that for years. I dont really crave it as much as I did before and I can easily live without it, one of the reasons is cos I might be dieting on low calories

I found that too before I think it is definitely a side affect

Hmm I’m wondering if that could be my issue, I only eat one meal a day. I hadn’t even thought of that! "
Yes. I think so too, cos I heard that it lowers ones test levels, although it is a trade of that is worth doing I think, 6pack or sex so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is very low and it have been like that for years. I dont really crave it as much as I did before and I can easily live without it, one of the reasons is cos I might be dieting on low calories

I found that too before I think it is definitely a side affect

Hmm I’m wondering if that could be my issue, I only eat one meal a day. I hadn’t even thought of that! Yes. I think so too, cos I heard that it lowers ones test levels, although it is a trade of that is worth doing I think, 6pack or sex so to speak

I think so too, I’d rather be slim if I had to choose so won’t be upping my calories any time soon

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Mine is very low and it have been like that for years. I dont really crave it as much as I did before and I can easily live without it, one of the reasons is cos I might be dieting on low calories

I found that too before I think it is definitely a side affect

I think so too, I’d rather be slim if I had to choose so won’t be upping my calories any time soon

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That is right and same here. I would also rather stay the same too

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Mine is very low and it have been like that for years. I dont really crave it as much as I did before and I can easily live without it, one of the reasons is cos I might be dieting on low calories

I found that too before I think it is definitely a side affect

I think so too, I’d rather be slim if I had to choose so won’t be upping my calories any time soon

That is right and same here. I would also rather stay the same too

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By *uicytits78Woman
over a year ago

gloucester

Mine is always generally quite high... though it does ebb and flow..

Like someone else said, the more I have the more I want.. but with no reg partner, I'm forced to go for a while without it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is very low and it have been like that for years. I dont really crave it as much as I did before and I can easily live without it, one of the reasons is cos I might be dieting on low calories

I found that too before I think it is definitely a side affect

I think so too, I’d rather be slim if I had to choose so won’t be upping my calories any time soon

That is right and same here. I would also rather stay the same too

I'd rather have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is always generally quite high... though it does ebb and flow..

Like someone else said, the more I have the more I want.. but with no reg partner, I'm forced to go for a while without it...

Agree, when regular my sex drive is constant.

At moment being single it is minimal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. At the moment I'm having to release the pressure by getting on cam for y'all to watch. Works for me, though the real thing is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our sex drive is both up and down like a hookers knickers

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

High if I'm with someone. Been alone for years now and it's almost gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines healthy... Quite high maybe, how do you actually tell.

Is sex 1 or 2 times a day a high drive?

Wouldnt change it at all. And he matches me on it so I have absolutely no complaints at all

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Mine is massively high. At 64, I would have thought it would have died off a bit by now, but I'm still masturbating every single night.

I miss that skin on skin contact and intimacy soooo much.

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol

This thread has been a genuine eye opener for me. There’s a lot of people on here with low sex drives and naively I just presumed almost everyone had a high sex drive here.

As I said niaive of me.

My sex drive is very high. I don’t see that as a blessing. I also struggle with the term “healthy” sex drive, as for me it’s probably not.....

(OMG I did a serious reply to a forum thread!).

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

We all go through periods where it can drop or you cant be arsed. Shift work, kids, stress, money worries can all make it drop like a stone. We are both matched sexwise so its not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This thread has been a genuine eye opener for me. There’s a lot of people on here with low sex drives and naively I just presumed almost everyone had a high sex drive here.

As I said niaive of me.

My sex drive is very high. I don’t see that as a blessing. I also struggle with the term “healthy” sex drive, as for me it’s probably not.....

(OMG I did a serious reply to a forum thread!). "

I agree with you, I'm struggling with mine and wouldn't class it as healthy. It's extremely high and it's a daily struggle to keep on top of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is ridiculous, I honestly I wish mine was lower it just causes frustration more than anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is ridiculous, I honestly I wish mine was lower it just causes frustration more than anything."
It is very frustrating for anyone with a low or high sex drive by reading this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a disgustingly high one.

Last few years it was dying off, and i just thought i was getting old.

About a month ago a semi-gf finally stopped talking to me.

We never became a full relationship because she was toxic as fuck.

I hadn't realised how toxic, because over last few weeks it feels a breath of fresh air. Like how smokers say they feel and smell again once they stop.

I can think straight, get more done, and fk my life ive been a rampant rabbit. Over last two weeks Fucking feiends and fk buds like no tomorrow.

I knew she was dragging me down a bit, but didn't realise my drive was a mess cos of her.

Do miss the ***** though. We had some great sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a disgustingly high one.

Last few years it was dying off, and i just thought i was getting old.

About a month ago a semi-gf finally stopped talking to me.

We never became a full relationship because she was toxic as fuck.

I hadn't realised how toxic, because over last few weeks it feels a breath of fresh air. Like how smokers say they feel and smell again once they stop.

I can think straight, get more done, and fk my life ive been a rampant rabbit. Over last two weeks Fucking feiends and fk buds like no tomorrow.

I knew she was dragging me down a bit, but didn't realise my drive was a mess cos of her.

Do miss the ***** though. We had some great sex. "

But you're getting sex or are you saying she's better?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Mine goes up & down like a yo-yo. Same coming on here.

It's warm sunny out right now & that seems to perk things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had quite a high sex drive. Fortunately I'm not having to drain myself as I'm being used and abused ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine goes up & down like a yo-yo. Same coming on here.

It's warm sunny out right now & that seems to perk things up

Can definitely relate to this x

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Insanely high sex drive here. Wish I could meet people who could keep up with me

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Mine is way too high. I could have it all the time if I could.. I would say I'm not normal but what exactly is normal nowadays lol

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Wouldn't say it's particularly high or low, but definitely agree that the nice weather makes me hornier.

Generally I am pretty happy with my sex drive and it seems to match quite nicely with S

MJ x

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

inside a relationship you just need to have a similar level to be happy if two people want it 3 times a day or once a year thats ok

we were surprised when we first started swinging to discover how high some peoples drive was compared to ours . for many with a very high sex drive it was a curse rather than a blessing

there is no "normal" its just what you both want and need

we both agreed that every night would have turned it into a chore rather than a pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazy....wanking 3x a day and fitting in a fwb where I can

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Mine goes up & down like a yo-yo. Same coming on here.

It's warm sunny out right now & that seems to perk things up

Can definitely relate to this x"

Strawberries and cream suddenly perked me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I had a disgustingly high one.

Last few years it was dying off, and i just thought i was getting old.

About a month ago a semi-gf finally stopped talking to me.

We never became a full relationship because she was toxic as fuck.

I hadn't realised how toxic, because over last few weeks it feels a breath of fresh air. Like how smokers say they feel and smell again once they stop.

I can think straight, get more done, and fk my life ive been a rampant rabbit. Over last two weeks Fucking feiends and fk buds like no tomorrow.

I knew she was dragging me down a bit, but didn't realise my drive was a mess cos of her.

Do miss the b***h though. We had some great sex."

But you're getting sex or are you saying she's better?"

I'm getting loads of sex. In the last 2 weeks I've only not had sex on 2 days.

She wasn't better. Think it was like Stockholm syndrome. Just felt great because it was the only think i could do right.

BUT shes finally messaged me yesterday after 5 weeks.... and she is definitely the problem- I've completely lost my horn again.

Could barely keep it down all day and now can barely keep it up after hearing from her (currently lying in bed with someone whos fallen asleep!)

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Both I and Maya have very high sex drive yet because of her health problems we not had sex for nearly two year now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines always really high. Seriously. I’d try anything and fuck anywhere. Anything remotely sexually gets me excited.

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Mines always high and I don’t get anywhere near enough!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""I had a disgustingly high one.

Last few years it was dying off, and i just thought i was getting old.

About a month ago a semi-gf finally stopped talking to me.

We never became a full relationship because she was toxic as fuck.

I hadn't realised how toxic, because over last few weeks it feels a breath of fresh air. Like how smokers say they feel and smell again once they stop.

I can think straight, get more done, and fk my life ive been a rampant rabbit. Over last two weeks Fucking feiends and fk buds like no tomorrow.

I knew she was dragging me down a bit, but didn't realise my drive was a mess cos of her.

Do miss the b***h though. We had some great sex."

But you're getting sex or are you saying she's better?

I'm getting loads of sex. In the last 2 weeks I've only not had sex on 2 days.

She wasn't better. Think it was like Stockholm syndrome. Just felt great because it was the only think i could do right.

BUT shes finally messaged me yesterday after 5 weeks.... and she is definitely the problem- I've completely lost my horn again.

Could barely keep it down all day and now can barely keep it up after hearing from her (currently lying in bed with someone whos fallen asleep!)

I'm sorry to hear that, I would block her number if she has that hold on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has its ebbs and flows, it’s never really in a steady state.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Always had a high sex drive just seems to be getting worse as I get older lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always had a high sex drive just seems to be getting worse as I get older lol

I know the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine goes up and down with no real logic to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

high sex drive here, like to find a woman with same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"high sex drive here, like to find a woman with same."

A few on here

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"high sex drive here, like to find a woman with same.

A few on here "

They're too far away though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine varies if ive had a busy week at work or im stessed out about things it can be quite low but on the other hand if im away or more chilled it goes through the roof and i want it all the time.

Mr W&W on the other hand is like a durcell bunny been the same for 30 yrs and no signs of slowing down just yet

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Mines like a heartbeat monitor or a mountain, up and down. And when it's up, it's relentless.

I've been put on sex bans for days as a result. I've spent 7+hours playing with toys at night, just to scratch the itch that the days 15 rounds of sex didn't itch.

Honestly I prefer going back down the mountain, at least the itch is scratched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was very low over the winter. I hate winter time. But now its spring and looking forward to summer so mines on the up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever feel horny I just come on here and my sex drive instantly disappears.

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By *essieScottCouple
over a year ago

Tilbury

Mine is fairly high sex drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is low and has been for a while.. no idea why, been to the Dr's and everything is pretty much okay apart from the erections but he has prescribed me a form of Viagra. So we will see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I ever feel horny I just come on here and my sex drive instantly disappears.

Haha funnily enough it can have that effect on me

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Rock bottom low here in all honesty.

Makes life easier in a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have a high sex drive? is it driving you mad? Mine is particularly high at the moment and I'm not sure it's a good thing. Maybe you're the opposite and wish your's was higher. How do you deal with these low or high periods?"

Both have massive sex drives and love to please others… therefore best of both worlds either playing together or playing with others

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

with depression, one of the first things to die is the sex drive.

Mines slowly coming back but its still rare

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always had a very high sex drive.so I've kept myself busy either weights or something more meaningful, not been easy at times but have better control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It keeps driving off a cliff these days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always had a very high sex drive.so I've kept myself busy either weights or something more meaningful, not been easy at times but have better control."

I think I may need to do this

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Always had a very high sex drive.so I've kept myself busy either weights or something more meaningful, not been easy at times but have better control.

I think I may need to do this"

Err....have more sex. Plenty of willing victims, I mean volunteers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always had a very high sex drive.so I've kept myself busy either weights or something more meaningful, not been easy at times but have better control.

I think I may need to do this

Err....have more sex. Plenty of willing victims, I mean volunteers

Need to be victims that are compatible

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Always had a very high sex drive.so I've kept myself busy either weights or something more meaningful, not been easy at times but have better control.

I think I may need to do this"

Does help if you're mentally drained,slowly it becomes less of an urge, which becomes controllable.

I know what I'd like to do though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always had a very high sex drive.so I've kept myself busy either weights or something more meaningful, not been easy at times but have better control.

I think I may need to do this

Does help if you're mentally drained,slowly it becomes less of an urge, which becomes controllable.

I know what I'd like to do though

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Always had a very high sex drive.so I've kept myself busy either weights or something more meaningful, not been easy at times but have better control.

I think I may need to do this

Err....have more sex. Plenty of willing victims, I mean volunteers

Need to be victims that are compatible "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General it’s high all the time

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Always had a very high sex drive.so I've kept myself busy either weights or something more meaningful, not been easy at times but have better control.

I think I may need to do this

Does help if you're mentally drained,slowly it becomes less of an urge, which becomes controllable.

I know what I'd like to do though

Take care and have a few drinks this also helps

the thoughts can be thirsty work as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex drive is stuck in neutral and has been for a while now….not sure the particular body part functions

But with the right person, with the right chemistry and connection (coupled with a lovely face and bum)….it’ll hit top gear faster than Lewis Hamilton in an F1 car!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My sex drive is stuck in neutral and has been for a while now….not sure the particular body part functions

But with the right person, with the right chemistry and connection (coupled with a lovely face and bum)….it’ll hit top gear faster than Lewis Hamilton in an F1 car!!!"

Haha love that

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"My sex drive has always been quite high and it ruined a couple of my vanilla relationships (the guys just couldn't keep up). In the recent years, it fluctuates a bit, but I've also noticed lately that the more sex I have, the more I want! "

You're not alone ...it's something to do with living in Bedford ...Anglian Water maybe?!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

You're not alone ...it's something to do with living in Bedford ...Anglian Water maybe?!

No, it's just Bedford

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

You're not alone ...it's something to do with living in Bedford ...Anglian Water maybe?!

No, it's just Bedford

That might be it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is really high at the moment ..extremely high. It’s high anyway but just recently it’s got worse lol

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By *alypsoWoman
over a year ago

Hinckley

I’ve always had a high sex drive but didn’t know or realise when in a month until the last few years.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Definitely do, and sometimes it's a bit of a nuisance when I'm daydreaming about sex and should be doing something else more immediately necessary.

Surely that's a common experience.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My sex drive maybe high, but I'm driving round in circles not getting anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has been pretty high for about 3 years now. I don't find it gets in the way of anything, I have it all under control these days.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Our sex drive has got up and driven away at the moment. The pressures, stresses and incredibly long working hours with no days off takes it's toll on us. You can't do all that and have a high sex drive.

We have a holiday booked for the end of May so we will be well and truly rampant for each other. Can't wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has always been high but I can handle it when need be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment its very high. I have had a bad start to year and spent 3 weeks in hospital fighting pneumonia, then sepsis. With a period in icu where was touch and go. But now in recovery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At the moment its very high. I have had a bad start to year and spent 3 weeks in hospital fighting pneumonia, then sepsis. With a period in icu where was touch and go. But now in recovery. "

Glad to hear you're ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment its very high. I have had a bad start to year and spent 3 weeks in hospital fighting pneumonia, then sepsis. With a period in icu where was touch and go. But now in recovery.

Glad to hear you're ok

Thank you for the kind words

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I had a disgustingly high one.

Last few years it was dying off, and i just thought i was getting old.

About a month ago a semi-gf finally stopped talking to me.

We never became a full relationship because she was toxic as fuck.

I hadn't realised how toxic, because over last few weeks it feels a breath of fresh air. Like how smokers say they feel and smell again once they stop.

I can think straight, get more done, and fk my life ive been a rampant rabbit. Over last two weeks Fucking friends and fk buds like no tomorrow.

I knew she was dragging me down a bit, but didn't realise my drive was a mess cos of her.

Do miss the b***h though. We had some great sex."

But you're getting sex or are you saying she's better?

I'm getting loads of sex. In the last 2 weeks I've only not had sex on 2 days.

She wasn't better. Think it was like Stockholm syndrome. Just felt great because it was the only think i could do right.

BUT shes finally messaged me yesterday after 5 weeks.... and she is definitely the problem- I've completely lost my horn again.

Could barely keep it down all day and now can barely keep it up after hearing from her (currently lying in bed with someone whos fallen asleep!)

I'm sorry to hear that, I would block her number if she has that hold on you

Regrettably, I can't block her number.

Not because I don't want to, but other responsibily (no kids, thankfully).

But, did end up having an active day yesterday, so forgot all about her, and ended up making a FWB very happy albeit wobbly legs.

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